O boy!
Since I was born, now i'm getting old I have never seen any woman like this - Gambrosia. Too much strenght to fight! Wow.
I wish I had a quarter of her strenght.
Worse thing to happen to any thread is for her to post she go must turn am into war

Abeg take am easy o before person commit suicide sake of your bulling.

this gambosia is a virus .she has already infected this thread .pls moderator kindly scan this section with a good anti virus ,inorder to eliminate further damage to this section .

Odunnu: O boy!
Since I was born, now i'm getting old I have never seen any woman like this - Gambrosia. Too much strenght to fight! Wow.
I wish I had a quarter of her strenght.
Worse thing to happen to any thread is for her to post she go must turn am into war

Abeg take am easy o before person commit suicide sake of your bulling.

Trust me, she's the second biggest bully on Nairaland, right next to Seun then PY Guru comes next.




Shior to whor-e whor-e STD ridden filty baby momas!!!

A to the J repping. Took down the whole thread in her fiery who-send-you style.

@topic, sometimes its best to ignore the bullies. They're most probably having and living horrible lives somewhere.

Na for nld/internet you'll see a baby momma with 2 kids from different fathers oppressing a legally married wife.
Obese, short, ugly ducklings boldly call a good looking woman "ugly"

Omo,just laugh at 'em cyber bullies Cos they are mere pathetic low lives offline.

Cyber Bullies eh? I've experienced since I signed up on NL.... Just fight them back and give it to bullies Verry HOT ..... Eerretiiipoootooo Altogether

I tell my kids.... Bullies are jealous of you ... Fight back with a straight face, look straight into bullies face with little space, no need to yell and don't give in... they probably don't have it right like you do... Don't talk to me like that I do not appreciate it.

... yeah y'all go to good schools and they drive Mercedes yo school everyday but who knows what goes on behind closed doors in their homes( I don't tell her that )

Bullies are messed up souls simplllleeeees

ifyalways: A to the J repping. Took down the whole thread in her fiery who-send-you style.

@topic, sometimes its best to ignore the bullies. They're most probably having and living horrible lives somewhere.

Na for nld/internet you'll see a baby momma with 2 kids from different fathers oppressing a legally married wife.
Obese, short, ugly ducklings boldly call a good looking woman "ugly"

Omo,just laugh at 'em cyber bullies Cos they are mere pathetic low lives offline.

Love your response Ify, you head dey dia wella!

@Poster, in addition to what Ify's posted, here's my take on this issue:

Lesson Number 1: NEVER EVER share your personal details with people online no matter how friendly they might seem. Let whatever happens online remain online. You'll find that the "ammunition" of these so-called cyber bullies is their perception that they've got something over you, which they feel they can use for blackmailing purposes.

Lesson Number 2: Trust no-one. Lots of people come online claiming to be what they aren't. If you really knew what and how they live their lives for real, you'll weep for them.

Lesson Number 3: Be smart. Never use your real name nor link your real email address to your online forum account. A simple search on google / facebook would reveal everything about you to those unscrupulous characters that are best avoided.

Now, armed with these lessons / words of advice, how do you deal with cyber bullies?

Simple.

(a). If the person is an old timer (you can tell from the number of posts they've got), chances are that they would be willing to slug out their gripe with you maturely and aren't afraid to tell you like it really is.

(b). If on the other hand, the person bully opens up a new handle/account to harass you with, chances are he/she is a two-faced coward unable to take you on. In that case, don't even bother dignifying them with a response. Simply report their offensive posts to the moderator so their post(s) get erased / hidden and the poster bully gets banned. Dem go post, dem go ban them, so tey dem go tire.

Now that's my two cents worth of advice.

All your 'lessons' are not different from what Ify already said... However a different twist ... so all 'keeping up with the Nlders' casts are at risk of cyber/ direct bullying? Oh that's a new one..
And I thot this is a serious place to share advice until recently I found out actually people lie ... so all these I have 4 kids should be taken with a pinch of salt ko? Jide smell the coffee!

Efemena_xy:

Now, armed with these lessons / words of advice, how do you deal with cyber bullies?

Simple.

(a). If the person is an old timer (you can tell from the number of posts they've got), chances are that they would be willing to slug out their gripe with you maturely and aren't afraid to tell you like it really is.

(b). If on the other hand, the person bully opens up a new handle/account to harass you with, chances are he/she is a two-faced coward unable to take you on. In that case, don't even bother dignifying them with a response. Simply report their offensive posts to the moderator so their post(s) get erased / hidden and the poster bully gets banned. Dem go post, dem go ban them, so tey dem go tire.

Your words of 'advice' crack me up.... Like really?!!

Even before I started posting constantly on this section (cos I started with Auto section) .... I shake my head at your so called matured 'old timer' posts and the way they bully newcomers here on family section....

OP don't be surprised that claimed married folks are renowned first class BULLIES on this section... that's supposedly to be a family section o , they come in shapes and sizes , however you want them in multiple handles... they burst their own balls sometimes whenever they come in different handles sef and laugh it off right? It's all good ... who wan take them? NOBODY so much for multiple two face cowards!

Report them eh? Even person wey you wan report them to sef nko?

OP my 1dime... Fight bully back and don't give in... they find so much comfort seeing their recipient down .... If it's face to face fight them back with your firm words and walk away.

Jide, Are you high on cheap crack or something?

For your information, my post was not directed at you, so why do you take what I've written here personally?

Or is there something you wanna get off your chest (now) Jide??

If yes, then shoot. I'm all ears and you've got my full attention - so better make the best use of this opportunity.

jidegirl12: All your 'lessons' are not different from what Ify already said... However a different twist ... so all 'keeping up with the Nlders' casts are at risk of cyber/ direct bullying? Oh that's a new one..

Okay. And your point is??

jidegirl12: And I thot this is a serious place to share advice until recently I found out actually people lie ... so all these I have 4 kids should be taken with a pinch of salt ko? Jide smell the coffee!

Sorry, you've lost me there.

Or is there something specific you wanna ask me? Out with it jor! If it's any consolation to you, I promise I don't bite...

jidegirl12: Your words of 'advice' crack me up.... Like really?!!

Even before I started posting constantly on this section (cos I started with Auto section) .... I shake my head at your so called matured 'old timer' posts and the way they bully newcomers here on family section....

Why the personalization?

What makes you think my post is about you? (second time I ask you this question)

Do you really think I give a monkey's what you do or don't do online?? Or is there some reason why I should be concerned about your activities??

Re: The bolded bit in blue...kindly point out to me, where in my post I mentioned anything about newcomers being bullied?

You know something? This just goes to prove that your comprehensive abilities leave a lot to be desired - and I mean this in a nice way, Jide. Don't take it personally.

jidegirl12: OP don't be surprised that claimed married folks are renowned first class BULLIES on this section... that's supposedly to be a family section o , they come in shapes and sizes , however you want them in multiple handles... they burst their own balls sometimes whenever they come in different handles sef and laugh it off right? It's all good ... who wan take them? NOBODY

Well, I wouldn't know about that, but it seems this is an area you've got expert knowledge of. So please, do us the honours and share your pearls of wisdom with the rest of us.

jidegirl12: so much for multiple two face cowards!

Seems like I've struck a raw nerve somewhere. You sure you haven't got something you wanna get off your chest Jide?

jidegirl12: Report them eh? Even person wey you wan report them to sef nko?

Oh? Tell us more.

jidegirl12: OP my 1dime... Fight bully back and don't give in... they find so much comfort seeing their recipient down .... If it's face to face fight them back with your firm words and walk away.

Thanks for sharing your opinion. Everyone's entitled to theirs!

ileobatojo:

Madam, glad you find my post entertaining.

But that asides, you're a smart one and I think you know what angle I'm coming from.

@Jide: How much longer am I gonna have to wait for your response? I see you on the thread you know.

Or are you waiting for me to turn my back before you make your move? If that be the case, it's called backstabbing!

Efemena_xy:

Madam, glad you find my post entertaining.

But that asides, you're a smart one and I think you know what angle I'm coming from.

@Jide: How much longer am I gonna have to wait for your response? I see you on the thread you know.

Or are you waiting for me to turn my back before you make your move? If that be the case, it's called backstabbing!

Oh I know all right. That's precisely why your post is so entertaining and why the 'my lips are sealed' smileys in my previous post.

Ok, I've said enough. Back to .

Efemena_xy:


@Jide: How much longer am I gonna have to wait for your response? I see you on the thread you know.

Or are you waiting for me to turn my back before you make your move? If that be the case, it's called backstabbing!

Lol.... Efe I'm driving .... Trust me I'm coming back for you

ileobatojo:

Oh I know all right. That's precisely why your post is so entertaining and why the 'my lips are sealed smileys' in my previous post.

Ok, I've said enough. Back to .

Exactly!

jidegirl12:

Lol.... Efe I'm driving .... Trust me I'm coming back for you

Yeah, of course you are.

Efemena_xy:

Yeah, of course you are.

And what's that^^ supposed to mean ?

jidegirl12:

And what's that^^ supposed to mean ?

What do you think it means?

Efe, this is not going to end well. The shystie people have already been served notice. Consider letting it go.

Efemena_xy:

What do you think it means?

I dunno ...you care to share?

And besides what response do you expect from me to your epistle you typed up there that reeks your frustration bout me?

First of all .. I don't do cracks ... and never will... and why're you so bent on knowing if there's something I need to trash out with you orrrr you just want to?

I quoted and dished my opinion contrary to your post and you started barking at me for what?

There's nothing I can say now ( and not willing to anyways ) that'll change y'all feelings bout my handle will there?

I've shared my own point.... Never give in to Bullies shikena!

ileobatojo: Efe, this is not going to end well. The shystie people have already been served notice. Consider letting it go.

I know that.

But I sooooo wanna slap the freaking hell outta someone this evening!

jidegirl12:

I dunno ...you care to share?

And besides what response do you expect from me to your epistle you typed up there that reeks your frustration bout me?

First of all .. I don't do cracks ... and never will... and why're you so bent on knowing if there's something I need to trash out with you orrrr you just want to?

I quoted and dished my opinion contrary to your post and you starred barking at me for what?

There's nothing I can say now ( and not willing to anyways ) that'll change y'all feelings bout my handle will there?

Dear Lord, pls help me not to loose my cool this evening.

Jide. I'm trying soooo hard to be civil with you right now. So pls don't mess around with me.

You and I know that you've got a bone to pick with me. (Don't insult my intelligence by asking me how I know that!)

So, now you've got my full attention, I repeat: OUT WITH IT!!

Efemena_xy:

I know that.

But I sooooo wanna slap the freaking hell outta someone this evening!



Dear Lord, pls help me not to loose my cool this evening.

Jide. I'm trying soooo hard to be civil with you right now. So pls don't mess around with me.

You and I know that you've got a bone to pick with me. (Don't insult my intelligence by asking me how I know that!)

So, now you've got my full attention, I repeat: OUT WITH IT!!

Ohhh I'm shaking in my boots ... shooo shior at your civility ... as you were Efe I don't need your full attention...I'm very relaxed here... how bout you OUT WITH IT ms. two faced!

... I've got 2 set of jollof rice to make( spicy & non-spicy one)... In other words I've got my hands FULL!

jidegirl12:

Ohhh I'm shaking in my boots ... shooo shior at your civility ... as you were Efe I don't need your full attention...I'm very relaxed here... how bout you OUT WITH IT ms. two faced!

... I've got 2 set of jollof rice to make( spicy & non-spicy one)... In other words I've got my hands FULL!

Now we're getting somewhere.

Go on.

Keep talking.

Efemena_xy:

Go on.

Keep talking.

I don't have anything to say to you I repeat Efe ..^^ that all you'll get from moi... you out with it or forever hold your peace even better that way!

Ironically I learnt how to deal with characters like you and others from someone ( here) I didn't expect will reach out to me ...... you learn everyday right?

Tats see you around

jidegirl12:

I don't have anything to say to you I repeat Efe ..^^ that all you'll get from moi... you out with it or forever hold your peace even better that way!

Ironically I learnt how to deal with characters like you and others from someone ( here) I didn't expect will reach out to me ...... you learn everyday right?

Tats see you around

I knew it!

Head on, you ain't got the balls to face me. You'd rather do it in hiding.

Warra coward! Mtcheew!

Efemena_xy:

I knew it!

Head on, you ain't got the balls to face me. You'd rather do it in hiding.

Warra coward! Mtcheew!

more lol @ hiding .... on display shior!!!

http://fc02.deviantart.net/fs35/i/2008/309/4/1/Bully_ICON_by_raptor02.jpg

@ topic.

Personally, I like the multiple ID cyber bullies that are not smart enough to keep their real identity secret. While committing utterly despicable acts of cyber bullying, they stupidly give themselves away within their first few posts as an alternate ID. They truly give new meaning to the word stu*pid. Anyway, I like them because we can all easily identify who the real two faced, cowardly bullies among us are.

Nice topic..

ileobatojo: @ topic.

Personally, I like the multiple ID cyber bullies that are not smart enough to keep their real identity secret. While committing utterly despicable acts of cyber bullying, they stupidly give themselves away within their first few posts as an alternate ID. They truly give new meaning to the word stu*pid. Anyway, I like them because we can all easily identify who the real two faced, cowardly bullies among us are.

Nice topic..

You this woman!

I don tell you say you're just too much

Your post is on-point (again), as usual

Efemena_xy:

You this woman!

I don tell you say you're just too much

Your post is on-point (again), as usual

jidegirl12: Cyber Bullies eh? I've experienced since I signed up on NL.... Just fight them back and give it to bullies Verry HOT ..... Eerretiiipoootooo Altogether

I tell my kids.... Bullies are jealous of you ... Fight back with a straight face, look straight into bullies face with little space, no need to yell and don't give in... they probably don't have it right like you do... Don't talk to me like that I do not appreciate it.

... yeah y'all go to good schools and they drive Mercedes yo school everyday but who knows what goes on behind closed doors in their homes( I don't tell her that )

Bullies are messed up souls simplllleeeees

Your own be say if person look your side you go shout 'bully'!

@ Topic
I think there's something to be said for someone who thinks s/he is being cyber-bullied. What does that even mean
Insecure much

jidegirl12:

Report them eh? Even person wey you wan report them to sef nko?

Jide,

I bet if I ask you what this is about, you will claim you are joking right?

@ Post,

Like this is a typical example of cyber bullying. People accusing you of what you know nothing of. If you hear I resigned 2mrw, this post/poster is responsible.

Tgirl4real:

Jide,

I bet if I ask you what this is about, you will claim you are joking right?

@ Post,

Like this is a typical example of cyber bullying. People accusing you of what you know nothing of. If you hear I resigned 2mrw, this post/poster is responsible.

Resign??

Don't you dare!

Tgirl, the number of people here who appreciate your works far outweigh those who don't!

(I'm trying hard not to use foul language here o!)