jennykadry:

I have so much on my plate right now hence my not having time to post as much as I normally do. When I get some free time, trust me to represent. Truth is some of us have lives, but it's good to see that you follow me well enough to know what etiquette is display on threads. That been said, are you done?

Moving on

Shouldn't you be sorting out your val surprise, madam?

debrief08: Jenny, Open a seperate thread jor, let's not scatter this one.
Stop bullying people with your "wealthy husband", us wey never get Range Rover from our Managing Husbands make we hug transformer abi?
Jenny infact stop Bullying me.
Seriously though open a seperate thread, some will avoid this one because of the title and don't want to get dragged in.
I just got back from a trip, have a day or half a day to play

hahahahahahaha . . .

@ Jide, you post is tooooooooooo long, I don't have the time to read all that. I just saw 'Uju' somewhere there and the only reply I have to that is that you should bite the bullet and learn from you past mistakes, it'll help you.
All this grammar you are speaking just speaks volumes of your personality . . . Mrs I can NEVER be wrong. If you are wise, you'll know when to accept your wrong and repent of them1 Please note the word 'if'!

Abeg you people will not kill me .Who said nairaland is not a joke?

Efemena_xy:

Shouldn't you be sorting out your val surprise, madam?

Efe. I can't buy the man shoes, if I do there will be no place to put mine

I can't buy him a shirt, he has too many already

I can't buy him perfumes, we fight for perfume space in the bathroom.

I can't buy him a jean, he buys better jean than I do, I always go for the cheap ones don't ask me why, jean na jean, cheap or expensive its all the same thing

I can't take him on vacation here cos he has been to almost everywhere, i can't take him overseas cos it will be like me copying what he did for me on my birthday.

I can't buy him a watch, his taste is too high I am not rich and cannot afford it. As for me, any watch that exceeds $20 can go to hell

I can't buy him a house

Make una heleep me ooooo

jennykadry:

Efe. I can't buy the man shoes, if I do there will be no place to put mine

I can't buy him a shirt, he has too many already

I can't buy him perfumes, we fight for perfume space in the bathroom.

I can't buy him a jean, he buys better jean than I do, I always go for the cheap ones don't ask me why, jean na jean, cheap or expensive its all the same thing

I can't take him on vacation here cos he has been to almost everywhere, i can't take him overseas cos it will be like me copying what he did for me on my birthday.

I can't buy him a watch, his taste is too high I am not rich and cannot afford it. As for me, any watch that exceeds $20 can go to hell

I can't buy him a house

Make una heleep me ooooo

Awwww . . . love nwa nti nti . . .
Jenny spend your money jor . . . who are you saving it for.
Check into the most romantic hotel and have a lil valentine get-away weekend. (that's what I plan to do )
Doesn't matter if he's been there, the thought from you will warm his heart!
But don't come back pregnant oh, my hand no dey. . . .

Ujujoan:

Awwww . . . love nwa nti nti . . .
Jenny spend your money jor . . . who are you saving it for.
Check into the most romantic hotel and have a lil valentine get-away weekend. (that's what I plan to do )
Doesn't matter if he's been there, the thought from you will warm his heart!
But don't come back pregnant oh, my hand no dey. . . .

Pregnancy is the best Val gift to give to that man trust me. But I no gree

I thought about travelling to another city and staying in one to die-for hotel only because it is across the street from the biggest shopping mall in that city. It won't be a getaway vacation, the man will end up going back home broke and ATM card-less by the time I am done with him.

Lmao. Jenny you be real case I swear. U can leave the ATMs behind nah.

In NL, this is just a case of fragile egos clashing.
I don't even know how two people cursing themselves and tearing each other apart on NL; and one of the fighters would deem it fit to call the other person a bully?
So with all the braggadocio throughout the squabble, somebody was able to bully you? lmao. Now that is funny! Ehen?

I would think say na people like us wey no dey like fight go dey feel threatened or bullied. Lmao.

stillwater: In NL, this is just a case of fragile egos clashing.
I don't even know how two people cursing themselves and tearing each other apart on NL; and one of the fighters would deem it fit to call the other person a bully?
So with all the braggadocio throughout the squabble, somebody was able to bully you? lmao. Now that is funny! Ehen?

I would think say na people like us wey no dey like fight go dey feel threatened or bullied. Lmao.

that's why I talked about insecurity.
Seriously, bullying on NLd
I still can't understand that!

People with low self esteem and depend on nairaland to air their views will surely be bullied. It happens to young people and we should not substitute our adult position with these people because they are just too young and don't really know how to navigate the online world yet.

As for suicide, i doubt if it is prevalent in our part of the world and such kind of things can be found easily in the western world. When you are bullied both in real life and in the virtual life then harming yourself might be the next option for these teenagers.

Sincerely,

U guys are just not facing reality. It's not every one that can handle harsh words when it's being handed down.

Tee the other day someone said to me 'Uju you this man, I pity your wife . . . ' . My point is that we don't know each other, why should I care what a faceless lunatic says about me

Ujujoan: Tee the other day someone said to me 'Uju you this man, I pity your wife . . . ' . My point is that we don't know each other, why should I care what a faceless lunatic says about me

With ur user name someone still thinks you are a man

Back to topic, it's faceless but some of us are soft and more emotional than others. And truthfully, some people take things wayyyyyy beyond NL.

Anyhow, whether on or offline, we should be mindful of the way we attack people. Not everyone can handle it.

Tgirl4real: Sincerely,
U guys are just not facing reality. It's not every one that can handle harsh words when it's being handed down.

cry babies should not be on nairaland!

Tgirl4real:
With ur user name someone still thinks you are a man
Back to topic, it's faceless but some of us are soft and more emotional than others. And truthfully, some people take things wayyyyyy beyond NL.
Anyhow, whether on or offline, we should be mindful of the way we attack people. Not everyone can handle it.

with the number of insulting words one gets to hear on lagos roads, i think it's kind of soft when anyone whines about the insults they got from poster x or poster y. all nigerians should be immuned to yabs and stuff. better still, ignore the comment and move on. ujujoan has attempted to cyberbully me several times - i just put her in my prayers each time for her creator to touch her heart!

coogar:
i just put her in my prayers each time for her creator to touch her heart!

Do you also have a bridge to Alaska to sell to me?

Lol @ Coogar.

But u don't expect one that comes here with a troubling issue to find the insults funny. The person is already weak emotionally.

Lmao Coogar abeg waka pass jor. No be you and Ile dey bully una self for the other thread
Go and participate in Tee's debate oh. Time to show some skills, not just to be blowing grammar

T Girl the thing tire me oh. Most people don't really pay attention here I tell you.

Tgirl4real: Lol @ Coogar.
But u don't expect one that comes here with a troubling issue to find the insults funny. The person is already weak emotionally.

hmmmm, good point then!
then let's start the no-insult policy in this section. i am in for it. let everyone leave their madness at the entrance of the family section.

ileobatojo:
Do you also have a bridge to Alaska to sell to me?

you are my favourite witchdoctor - no one can take your position. instead of getting a bridge to alaska, i would send you to the evil forest near okija to cook more herbs!

Ujujoan: Lmao Coogar abeg waka pass jor. No be you and Ile dey bully una self for the other thread

Don't mind that grade 1 bully. Imagine being subjected to 3 straight days of his terrible bullying! Me I'm innocent o!

coogar:

you are my favourite witchdoctor - no one can take your position. instead of getting a bridge to alaska, i would send you to the evil forest near okija to cook more herbs!

Lies! Lies! It's all lies!

Tgirl4real: Sincerely,

U guys are just not facing reality. It's not every one that can handle harsh words when it's being handed down.

True that.

And words do hurt if used carelessly. People should be careful how they wield them. But having said that, an online forum is as anonymous as you want it to be, unless of course that bridge is gapped and the anonymity is turned to reality.

@Jenny: Seriously, you don kolo finish!

coogar:

hmmmm, good point then!
then let's start the no-insult policy in this section. i am in for it. let everyone leave their madness at the entrance of the family section.

It will be a tough one, but it can be enforced. We could have our rules and regulations. All discussions in the family board must be civil and we must respect everyone's opinion even when d person sounds stupid.

Sincerely, I will look into this and come up with something.

Thanks.

Efemena_xy:

True that.

And words do hurt if used carelessly. People should be careful how they wield them. But having said that, an online forum is as anonymous as you want it to be, unless of course that bridge is gapped and the anonymity is turned to reality.

@Jenny: Seriously, you don kolo finish!

Efe, some people actually recommend NL to people for advice. U won't believe it. And NL is gradually becoming an authority on some issues and people make reference to it regularly.

Tgirl4real:

It will be a tough one, but it can be enforced. We could have our rules and regulations. All discussions in the family board must be civil and we must respect everyone's opinion even when d person sounds stupid.

Sincerely, I will look into this and come up with something.

Thanks.

this will be a dream to ileobatojo. finally, i won't have to call her a tool publicly ever again............on this section!

coogar:

this will be a dream to ileobatojo. finally, i won't have to call her a tool publicly ever again............on this section!

Hey it's okay to say you're sorry. You know you want to! Dont try to hide behind Tgirl to say it. Come on, out with it! Don't worry, I'll forgive you!!

ileobatojo:

Hey it's okay to say you're sorry. You know you want to! Dont try to hide behind Tgirl to say it. Come on, out with it! Don't worry, I'll forgive you!!

Now this should be interesting...

@Richy: I see you peeping from around the corner. Tell us, what's your take on cyber bullying??

ileobatojo:
Hey it's okay to say you're sorry. You know you want to! Dont try to hide behind Tgirl to say it. Come on, out with it! Don't worry, I'll forgive you!!

my witchdoctor, no vex now.......
remember we have come a long way....from the alternative to biology days and so on and forth if you stop being my friend, suicide is the only option i have left.

coogar:

my witchdoctor, no vex now.......
remember we have come a long way....from the alternative to biology days and so on and forth if you stop being my friend, suicide is the only option i have left.

Okay people, shut the front door! Shut the back door! Shout it loud on the streets!! It's an apology!! Oya give me an award now!! I have reformed the biggest baddest bully ever known to NL!!

Good job girlfriend! Bff's for life!

ileobatojo:

Okay people, shut the front door! Shut the back door! Shout it loud on the streets!! It's an apology!! Oya give me an award now!! I have reformed the biggest baddest bully ever known to NL!!

Good job girlfriend! Bff's for life!

i refuse to be tempted. no more insults in this section for me.
you didn't reform me, i reformed myself and i won't let you drag me back to the old me.......lemme catch your crustyarsë in another section, i go show you pepper!

coogar:

i refuse to be tempted. no more insults in this section for me.
you didn't reform me, i reformed myself and i won't let you drag me back to the old me.......lemme catch your crustyarsë in another section, i go show you pepper!

Ile and Coogar get a room jor . . . .