'Soul mate' are d words, not bed mate! Ladies may get many 'toasters' per time but most or all are often after sex n not commitment. A guy may have access to many ladies but they may only b after money, sex or just d 'glory' of being in a relationship. And for both gender they are often both ready when one/both of d parties are quite old or they have made terrible mistakes. Pls share your view or experience as regards d above.

The guys find it easier cos they take the first a d gold step of approaching any lady of choice unlike the ladies that will keep on praying and waiting for the right man to approach them. The guys have more options and opportunities than the ladies

They have more choices but if they were all suitable ones then every home would be a happy one. About 95% of marriages are unhappy, I mean out of d ones that don't end in divorce.