Abrantie: This nice guy-bad boy crap is only true in societies that women are spoiled, have everything at their disposal and with too much time on their hands.

In Africa, the only thing that matters to a woman is MONEY! Not flowers or candlelit dinners or body tattoos or looking like you just stepped out of prison. Your ability to make them "chop your money"! or to make them think they can, is all a guy needs.

As a follow-up to my previous point, look at how Chris Brown changed from a handsome pretty boy, to an over tattooed, criminal/drug-addict looking mofo? The amount of money Chris Brown has couldn't even convince those bitches he's really a man's man! So what does he do? -- over tattoos his body to look like he's "dangerous" and "bad", picks a fight with Drake and got a beat down..lol

Why? The answer is simple -- he lives in a society where women have lost their bearing on what truly makes a man masculine or boyfriend/husband material. Guys in such societies have to be either gay, or be a criminal in order to stand a chance with even the ugliest-looking babe. So when some of you post all these "rules" about relationships, just know that it doesn't apply in all corners of the world.

Abrantie:

As a follow-up to my previous point, look at how Chris Brown changed from a handsome pretty boy, to an over tattooed, criminal/drug-addict looking mofo? The amount of money Chris Brown has couldn't even convince those bitches he's really a man's man! So what does he do? -- over tattooed his body and acts like he's "dangerous" and "bad".

Why? The answer is simple -- he lives in a society where women have lost their bearing on what truly makes a man masculine or boyfriend/husband material. Guys in such societies have to be either gay, or be a criminal in order to stand a chance with even the ugliest-looking babe. So when some of you post all these "rules" about relationships, just know that it doesn't apply in all corners of the world.

Are you picking Chris Brown to be representative of the mainstream?

Abrantie:

As a follow-up to my previous point, look at how Chris Brown changed from a handsome pretty boy, to an over tattooed, criminal/drug-addict looking mofo? The amount of money Chris Brown has couldn't even convince those bitches he's really a man's man! So what does he do? -- over tattoos his body to look like he's "dangerous" and "bad", picks a fight with Drake and got a beat down..lol

Why? The answer is simple -- he lives in a society where women have lost their bearing on what truly makes a man masculine or boyfriend/husband material. Guys in such societies have to be either gay, or be a criminal in order to stand a chance with even the ugliest-looking babe. So when some of you post all these "rules" about relationships, just know that it doesn't apply in all corners of the world.

Are you actually picking Chris Brown to be representative of the mainstream?

carefreewannabe:

Are you picking Chris Brown to be representative of the mainstream?

No I'm using him as an example to make my point. I could have picked somebody else, but CB is well known.

Abrantie:

No I'm using him as an example to make my point. I could have picked somebody else, but CB is well known.

So your point is that all men have to become bad to get a woman?

carefreewannabe:

So your point is that all men have to become bad to get a woman?

Only in the USA or oyiboland where a man has a guaranteed chance with female companionship only if he's a criminal, social misfit or gay.

In Ghana (or Nigeria), a guy only needs to be himself, with some financial stability or "potential".

Abrantie:

Only men in the USA or oyiboland where a man has a guaranteed chance with female companionship only if he's a criminal, social misfit or gay.

In Ghana (or Nigeria), a guy only needs to be himself, with some financial stability or "potential".

I see ...

carefreewannabe:

I see ...

Does that mean you agree?

Abrantie:

Does that mean you agree?

I don't. But what does it change?

carefreewannabe:


I don't. But what does it change?

Nothing. Just trying to grade my debating skills.

Abrantie:

Nothing. Just trying to grade my debating skills.

When you don't even smell irony ... Good night.

carefreewannabe:

When you don't even smell irony ... Good night.

I can spell it. Good night.

Kind of true but not totally true.

Abrantie:

Only in the USA or oyiboland where a man has a guaranteed chance with female companionship only if he's a criminal, social misfit or gay.

In Ghana (or Nigeria), a guy only needs to be himself, with some financial stability or "potential".

That is an outright lie!!! No girl will see you in US as smart if your are illicit drug addict, although, some of them could be engaged in using it in secret. People(often times girls) tend to avoid bad guys as much as possible, most especially, in the public.

Bad guys and police do not go together.

IN Niaja, d more money u hav, d better ur chances wt ladies.

Abrantie:

As a follow-up to my previous point, look at how Chris Brown changed from a handsome pretty boy, to an over tattooed, criminal/drug-addict looking mofo? The amount of money Chris Brown has couldn't even convince those bitches he's really a man's man! So what does he do? -- over tattoos his body to look like he's "dangerous" and "bad", picks a fight with Drake and got a beat down..lol

Why? The answer is simple -- he lives in a society where women have lost their bearing on what truly makes a man masculine or boyfriend/husband material. Guys in such societies have to be either gay, or be a criminal in order to stand a chance with even the ugliest-looking babe. So when some of you post all these "rules" about relationships, just know that it doesn't apply in all corners of the world.

You have a point there.
I think we are getting into a phase in this world where everyone is encouraged to become bad. The pride in virginity (for ladies esp.) has almost turn to a curse. The level of degrees one has in ex-CV defines how emotionally smart one is. This has turned many of our youths into pros.titutes(both sexes). Its alarming and hurting.
I think this recent trend in nice/bad guy definition is geared towards achieving thesame thing i.e smoking out the good guys so that they also become bad. For God sake, why will a normal lady want a guy that would always lie to her, disrespect her views and finally mess her up?
My advice: Mr. Good guy, continue being good. Do not let the assumed choice of ladies determine who you should be. There is no better substitute for being good.

@op, Are you being a mouthpiece for the bad boys or what? All you wrote are bunch of lies.

No girl will choose a bad guy over a good guy, unless she's also bad. That way, they fit in.

Again, a bad guy will 100% cheat on his girlfriend. Not that i'm trying to say a nice wouldn't cheat, but there are chances of the good guy not being a cheat unlike the bad guy.

Motto: Bad outside. Good inside. Be humane.

Davijunson: GBAM....thread closed.

girls are always d losers in dat respect. I'm a "nice guy" bt I act crazy & screw those crazy babes for free & still settle down wit my "nice babe"

I think d op guy shud look at it this way: GUYS vs MEN
* a guy uses a woman to build his self esteem, a man already has it.
* a guy likes to "hang out" with a woman he is interested in, a man asks her out.
* a guy doesn't make a move until he's sure there's no risk, a man is bold and clear with his intentions.
* a guy plays games with a woman, a man has no time for games because they keep him from gettin to kno d woman.
* a guy will become bitter and angry with a woman for denying him, a man accepts that dating involves risk
* a guy fears and worships a woman, a man respects and adores them bt fears and worship God.

Its not about a nice guy or a badt guy.....love itself is unpredictable....jez a single act can change d state of guls feelin.....so if u r badt,kip been badt.....if u r nice,kip been nice...... ONE LUV

I beg you poster, its only foolish women dat would know dat a man is bad n wants to marry him. Ur topic may be true for mere boy/girfriend cases NOT to marriage level. As a matter of fact, bad women crave or end up marrying d̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣γ̲̣ nice guys.

Some people head dey dia. Ori e wanbe.



Ori OP to FOKASIBE!

You just defined weak guys not nice guys... and basically If you are not a bad guy you are a good guy.... and not all god guys are nice! A nice guy can also be bad considering some of the things you higlighted Bad guys do. Girls sha! They would always want to eat their cake and have it

Being a bad guy might stake out few masculine attributes in u and get u girls but in the end u will lose and whether u detect ur loss or did not,"EVIL NEVER PAYS".
When people like OP say nice guys are doormat,cheap, too easy as pie to deal with, i smile cos they clarify their minute take on the word 'NICE'. Being nice doesn't mean a doormat,low esteem,boring. It mean treating people with respect,politeness,consideration and doing what is morally right. A lot of bad guys r depraved of the above qualities and that won't change cos it is getting them girls. Well congratulations Mr. Bad guy, u 've been sowing the Wind, but ready one day the time would be right for u 2 reap the Whirlwind.
Being a nice alone isnt attractive, that is were boredom crops up. Try being organised,interesting,dynamic, add more elements and substance to your lifestyle and personality. And sure your best bet would the nice girls that know what love is and value your attitude rather than preety girls that prefer the toughened,heartless, rebelious,angst ridden,vengeful Bad guys.

all diz tinz wey u yarn na oyinbo package 4me,most of it iz gbagaun 2me a guy wil only b 9ce 2a babe wen e iz getng wat e want frm d babe, wen she stop givin it out 4get 9ce guy go turn bad boi, nd also badboi act d wey e doz coz e az xo many optionz,n itz either u lyk him 4dat or mov. It only a natural feelin dat can mak a bad boi calm dwn nt dat bcoz e z 9ce.

Of all I think number nine is very true.gbam