dick hardener: abi shower cap, is it not that black thing u guys wear going to bed. Sometimes she'll wear my shirt outside. And to think this is ongoing in the U.s

Its hair net now haba! Yea, if its at night she may think it wont make a difference, and no one will see her. Especially if she is getting ready for bed. lmao. Just tell her you dont like how she has been dressing. If you cant talk to your wife, who can. Tell her.lol. Abeg, wearing shower cap is another level entirely.rotflmao.

Are you sure she's not depressed ?and and kinda losing her personality? hair net grocery shopping.... that's tacky IMO for previously feisty lady.

baby_123:

Its hair net now haba! Yea, if its at night she may think it wont make a difference, and no one will see her. Especially if she is getting ready for bed. lmao. Just tell her you dont like how she has been dressing. If you cant talk to your wife, who can. Tell her.lol. Abeg, wearing shower cap is another level entirely.rotflmao.

see u saying at night. This one is broad day light. Sometimes she'll wear a shirt stained with chocolate or baby milk to go out, not down the street o,, but like a big grocery store like jewel osco

dick hardener: see u saying at night. This one is broad day light. Sometimes she'll wear a shirt stained with chocolate or baby milk to go out, not down the street o,, but like a big grocery store like jewel osco

She seems over burdened by being a wife and a mother. Do you try to help her with the kids? She has definitely let herself go. And the kids are probably taking over as priority. I think you need to let her know all these, and how far it has gone. Some women can lose track and over focus on their kids needs. She also needs a break. Maybe invite grandma/ capable relative to help a little, or you both go for a vacation.

jidegirl12: Are you sure she's not depressed ?and and kinda losing her personality? hair net grocery shopping.... that's tacky IMO for previously feisty lady.

@ jidegirl, depressed ke, she said she's happier that way o.But in my own heart I wish she could look skimpier but afraid of trading my lust for my peace of mind

dick hardener: see u saying at night. This one is broad day light. Sometimes she'll wear a shirt stained with chocolate or baby milk to go out, not down the street o,, but like a big grocery store like jewel osco

Postpartum Depression.... ummmm ...take that woman to see your family MD for a referral to see a psychologist and stop playing with your future on NL or you've found somebody else to take care of those kids ?

baby_123:

She seems over burdened by being a wife and a mother. Do you try to help her with the kids? She has definitely let herself go. And the kids are probably taking over as priority. I think you need to let her know all these, and how far it has gone. Some women can lose track and over focus on their kids needs. She also needs a break. Maybe invite grandma/ capable relative to help a little, or you both go for a vacation.

we have a nanny, my dear this one has nothing to do with burden, lack or stress. She has just chosen that path. She even finds it repulsive when I buy pricey outfits and over dress. She says who am I dressing for

dick hardener: we have a nanny, my dear this one has nothing to do with burden, lack or stress. She has just chosen that path. She even finds it repulsive when I buy pricey outfits and over dress. She says who am I dressing for

Well tell her you dont like it. That you didnt marry that person. E no hard na. Na you dey make am harder than it is. Shes probably just lazy then and feeling too comfortable.lol.

baby_123:

Well tell her you dont like it. That you didnt marry that person. E no hard na. Na you dey make am harder than it is. Shes probably just lazy then and feeling too comfortable.lol.

I swear to God u have a good cognition.God bless u. That's the word she is very very very LAZY.

dick hardener: @ jidegirl, depressed ke, she said she's happier that way o.But in my own heart I wish she could look skimpier but afraid of trading my lust for my peace of mind

Of course she's in denial.... I'm okay I'm okay.

I've said my own .... take her in to rule out depression then you can work on what's next.

dick hardener: I swear to God u have a good cognition.God bless u. That's the word she is very very very LAZY.

When did the drastic change happen, after marriage or after kids. After which kid?

@Jidegirl may also have a point. You may want to check and ask questions. Like how is she, really? Like mentally, how is she feeling. That she should tell you and not be ashamed to open up to you if anything is going on. That the change is too drastic. Ask her straight out if she is depressed. If she is, take her to get help. Post-partum depression can be dangerous.

jidegirl12:

Of course she's in denial.... I'm okay I'm okay.

I've said my own .... take her in to rule out depression then you can work on what's next.

I'm telling u,, she just doesn't give a damn. We went to church one day, her scarf loosed, a church member was asking her what she uses for her hair (she's got natural curly and wavy hair cos of her descent) she said Vaseline the lady asked me if it's true. I said this one that used groundnut oil( cooking oil) one day when she ran out of Vaseline.

baby_123:

When did the drastic change happen, after marriage or after kids. After which kid?

@Jidegirl may also have a point. You may want to check and ask questions. Like how is she, really? Like mentally, how is she feeling. That she should tell you and not be ashamed to open up to you if anything is going on. That the change is too drastic. Ask her straight out if she is depressed. If she is, take her to get help. Post-partum depression can be dangerous.

after the second kid

dick hardener: after the second kid

hmm, maybe you should try getting her help. But ask her severally what is going on. If she refuses to tell or change, just book time for her with a psychologist or a specialist in that field so they can talk. This is suspicious. Especially if she didnt do all this after marriage or the first child. eyah. Naija women like to form rambo, so be careful.

She tells me the only thing that makes her happy in this world is for me never to talk to any other woman. Because I must confess I liked girls a lot before I totally changed to become more responsible. She's just lazy. She facially looks exactly like zainab abacha. Facially o.

baby_123:

hmm, maybe you should try getting her help. But ask her severally what is going on. If she refuses to tell or change, just book time for her with a psychologist or a specialist in that field so they can talk. This is suspicious. Especially if she didnt do all this after marriage or the first child. eyah. Naija women like to form rambo, so be careful.

she's half naija

baby_123:

hmm, maybe you should try getting her help. But ask her severally what is going on. If she refuses to tell or change, just book time for her with a psychologist or a specialist in that field so they can talk. This is suspicious. Especially if she didnt do all this after marriage or the first child. eyah. Naija women like to form rambo, so be careful.

if I suggest that one she'll snap.

dick hardener: she's half naija

I should knock your nose real hard if I could .... Get her a freaking HELP!!!

I think OP is just messing with us here. Reminds of the tactics of some mischief makers.

They make house calls too if she doesn't want to leave the house.... Happens all the time... comfortable in pjs only.

baby_123: I think OP is just messing with us here. Reminds of the tactics of some mischief makers.

why would I do that. I wish I could prove it to you. I swear on my life this is true. There's nothing seemingly fictictious in all I said.

baby_123: I think OP is just messing with us here. Reminds of the tactics of some mischief makers.

Really?

baby_123: I think OP is just messing with us here. Reminds of the tactics of some mischief makers.

you make it look I have a wierd and unsual case here.

dick hardener: why would I do that. I wish I could prove it to you. I swear on my life this is true. There's nothing seemingly fictictious in all I said.

Na you sabi..... I don't usually doubt people except I know them in person to be pathological liar ...... I'd rather take stories on NL with a pinch of salt and still give my sincere answer for people to learn from......I've said my own , get her help.

jidegirl12:

Na you sabi..... I don't usually doubt people except I know them in person to be pathological liar ...... I'd rather take stories on NL with a pinch of salt and still give my sincere answer for people to learn from......I've said my own , get her help.

thanks

dick hardener: you make it look I have a wierd and unsual case here.

We have given you numerous types of advice. You don't even pretend to at least try it. You keep coming back to probe like you are looking for a type of answer or just wasting our time. Plus your username doesn't help much. Try our suggestions if you are serious. Till then...

baby_123:

We have given you numerous types of advice. You don't even pretend to at least try it. You keep coming back to probe like you are looking for a type of answer or just wasting our time. Plus your username doesn't help much. Try our suggestions if you are serious. Till then...

yeah till then ..... Azonto Azonto Azonto ... Lemme humming whatever the lyrics

dick hardener: She tells me the only thing that makes her happy in this world is for me never to talk to any other woman. Because I must confess I liked girls a lot before I totally changed to become more responsible. She's just lazy. She facially looks exactly like zainab abacha. Facially o.

Mr man,I bet u are one hell of a messed up flirt. So u are married and u kept stalking me with those lousy PMS. Stick to your wife who appears decent and stop hopping around like a toad. @ topic something does not add up. You aren't spilling the entire truth that's if your story is true at all. Something more specific and definitive prompted her character swap

oyin50: Mr man,I bet u are one hell of a messed up flirt. So u are married and u kept stalking me with those lousy PMS. Stick to your wife who appears decent and stop hopping around like a toad. @ topic something does not add up. You aren't spilling the entire truth that's if your story is true at all. Something more specific and definitive prompted her character swap

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Always one drama or the other. Hehehehehe. Na wa o. From his description of his wife, you may look like her. That your profile picture sef, how old is it? Is there still Mirinda sef?

baby_123:

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Always one drama or the other. Hehehehehe. Na wa o. From his description of his wife, you may look like her. That your profile picture sef, how old is it? Is there still Mirinda sef?

Lmao baby ha ha ! Na Miranda you dey look? NL I hail thee

jidegirl12:

Lmao baby ha ha ! Na Miranda you dey look? NL I hail thee

The babe fine, but she put up picture of like 15yrs ago. See as the coke bottle ancient sef. Plus I know Mirinda no dey again. At least I didn't see it. Seems like she succeeded in chasing the OP away with her accusations though.hehe.

baby_123:

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Always one drama or the other. Hehehehehe. Na wa o. From his description of his wife, you may look like her. That your profile picture sef, how old is it? Is there still Mirinda sef?

excuse me maam