If you have two suitors; one very rich but dosent really set you blood boiling, the other not rich but cud really melt your heart. Which will you choose?

I wl marry for love ofcus.
But make sure u dnt marry a jobless man, lazy man or illiterate. . . they r very difficult to handle, can even be suicidal.

some pple say love can grow esp if u marry someone u dint particularly love. i just find that hard 2 believe.

if he has a promising future and like efuah mentioned, not lazy, then i'd say go 4 him.

getting married 4 d wrong reasons has failed a lot of pple. My dear, shine ur eyes.

i will marry for love and not for money. the fact that there may not be money at the moment doesnt mean it will always be like that. with hard word, planning and God's favor, the money will eventually come. but no amout of hard work can make u love someone u dont love and God will not force u to do that either. marriage is supposed to be enjoyed and not endured. money is needed yes, but it can never replace love. . . .

both!

Busta:

both!

I second that!!!

I will marry for both: money and love to be balance for establishing the strongest foundation of our marriage and avoid that type of man like @efuah has said it all.

luv without money is whack.i can date a guy dats nt rich bt marry one?.NNNNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOO

Neither, marry for happiness.

see ladies on this thread?

forget love, open your eyes and marry for money

when there is money then love comes into play, even if you have to force yourself.

Dis days love no dey last oh! Men with there revolvin eyes!!

@ sista-jay

So if love doesn't exist, does that means you should go for money? why shouldn't love exist?.

Love exist it really depends on the kind of man you find, and how u treat and behaves to eachother and even the kind of level you put eachother.

If you go for money and not love the man might be having another affair outside. Because other ladies might be running after his money and they wouldn't even mind that he's already married.

Gear up.

for love

Whats the difference?

Lol. no difference o jare

As a man i wont mind a sista with some dough.

Make them gear up for love na.

Abi na wetin you choose?

both

God!!

If all 9ja girls reason the way all these nairaland girls do , then there is a very big problem.

why all una eye de chuk for money.    i advice all of u to go for love cos that is what counts when all ur pressumed pretty faces and body fades with time/age.

I believe that is what is till holding my parents together as if they are in their 20s.  they still goes to relaxation center/ club togeda.  But if u marry for money and at the time love should count ur husband will look for sweet 16 to club with. and u will remain a house wife. cos he will always believe to get any girl of his choice with his money just like he got u.

a word is enough for the wise.

From what i have learn about the female specie from nigeria, the kind of love you get is dependent on the size of your pocket.
Small pocket little love, Large pocket unlimited love

I will marry for both
love without money is crap

why would u marry a fine dude with empty pocket
u guys will break up later

The rich guy will melt ur guy in no distant future

if there is no love i wont marry

and if there is no money, i wont marry too

gwad dey forbid me make i go square one o

y me:

if there is no love i wont marry

and if there is no money, i wont marry too

gwad dey forbid me make i go square one o

Superb reasoning, thats why i like you jare

@steve49ja

that is why you are my loff
how are you doing jare

All of una wey dey marry for money,if una boyfriends/fiance con dump una finish una go come nairaland dey seek opinion.
i mean these girls of these days, no wonder church dey full  :Pcos them wan c d brothers wey give very huge offering and fat tithe
 I tire for una, them never born una fiances

tope5000:

I will marry for both
love without money is crap

Imagine wetin man pikin post, Guyz let's be careful, @tope5000, y would u 4get wat d future hold for him? too bad.Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.”

y me:

@steve49ja

that is why you are my loff
how are you doing jare

Im fine o jare you nko?

sofeo:

@ sista-jay

So if love doesn't exist, does that means you should go for money? why shouldn't love exist?.

Love exist it really depends on the kind of man you find, and how u treat and behaves to eachother and even the kind of level you put eachother.

If you go for money and not love the man might be having another affair outside. Because other ladies might be running after his money and they wouldn't even mind that he's already married.

Gear up.

Love does exist, I don't dispute that. I'd would happily marry for love and money, heck. . .  who am I kiddin, don't want no broke ass broda, joke aside I already have a comfortable life. These days most men are lookin for fast love.

~ Neither ~

I will marry neither , wait for the man I love who has money

lack of money is the number one reason for divorce, He does not have to be rich, he just has to have some money