4 Play:

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They get married 'Cos they are in love, and want to spend the rest of their life with their partnerThis lady deserves a Nobel Laurette for Naivety if she thinks this way.No sane man wants to spend the rest of his of his life with one partner.This is what women think after growing up reading the Mills and Boon series.
Sorry to dissapoint you but most real men will rather be castrated with a blunt knife than desire to spend the rest of their life with a single partner.

Please delete the words "most men" and replace with your name. There are millions of men (urs sincerely included) who are waiting anxiously to spend the rest of their lives with a single companion!
No sane man will ever wish to marry more than one wife or wish to maintain hundreds of concubines besides his wife. it is both emotionally and financially draining. I look forward to nothing more than a quiet life with my wife and future kids!
Stop using "most men" as a smokescreen to legalise your irresponsible behavior. "Most men" are not dogs.

Sopme just one to cook. thats all

@4 Play , so silly of u to generalise men, and how can you say men would rather be castrated. haba, Men no be dog now, which kind evil modification be dt. Anyways like someone has said, put your name instead of most men.

Everyone one has thier reason for getting marriage. For Love, For God and for Continuity.

Procreation.

Men marry because they want a tool at home so dat they fool around out-home

ginola:

Men marry because they want a tool at home so that they fool around out-home

at least they want that tool at home not outside and u shld be glad they even want to fool around with her at all.
many would rather fool around outside.

ginola:

Men marry because they want a tool at home so that they fool around out-home

That's a reason for a maid or housekeeper. Not a reason to marry. You should reevalute your defns.

@ Nwoke, right on! Those were always my suspicions, so tx for confirming them.

Because they have to.

Men get married cos its the right thing to do at a certain age. A man needs a companion, a friend just as God created it, unfortunately though, today we now have she-men who even now have balls
Thats not the way it was created by God

@Priscilla,

I wonder why you are asking this question, Is it only men that get married, dont they get married to women(except those whose brain cells have kolo'd), so maybe you could tell us why women get married(women whose brains havent kolo'd),

Man lives his life in stages. At one point, I was thinking about secondary schl, then I began thinking, University, exam, passing and grades, , later I started thinking career, work, etc., and now, its all girls and marriage, sometimes, i think this world is crazy.

Now those who got married, after the even started thinking babies, babies, milk and babyfood,, then later they start thinking, daycare, nursery primary, and so the cycle begins again.

I would get married because of:
- its the next right thing to do,
- Love, at least when "She" arrives
- Companionship, ill love to share my life with someone
- Raise up a family, kids, settle down,
- have fun. A good wife is the best person to have fun with,

Men don't marry. Rather, they are married by women! Check this out in the dictionary. Why do men allow themselves to be married by women? The answer is, he is completely helpless, vulnerable and weak. Chikena!

Men don't marry.  Rather, they are married by women!  Check this out in the dictionary.  Why do men allow themselves to be married by women?  The answer is, he is completely helpless, vulnerable and weak.  Chikena!

I wonder if these people are African men or Indians. When was a man married in Africa?
Have you ever left your parents to join a woman at her place?

I wonder if these people are African men or Indians. When was a man married in Africa?
Have you ever left your parents to join a woman at her place?

because, They need someone to keep them focused when they're off track, lol

becos they need family,and they need kids

Who owns that beautiful bouncing kid? Am pulled to marriage as I need one of my own

procreation.

Men get married because they can't live with Mummy forever, so they seek someone else to cook and clean and blah blah blah

Seriously

Poeple keep saying that men get married because GOD wants them to. Is it not the same GOD that forbids fornication? Why follow one command and ignore others. I think most saying GOD,GOD on this thread are just trying to find an escape route.

To me the reason for marriage is that
1. At some point in your life you come across a girl
2. She makes you believe you are in love
3 You begin to believe you are in love
4. You lose the greater part of your sanity
5. You make the mistake of getting married.


Marriage is as a result of an accident called "Love". That is why poeple "Fall" in love and not "Get into" love.

Hehe. Well I think one should marry someone who brings out the best in one's self.

What has love got to do with it?

@everybody
I think it was writen in the BIBLE and there is coming a time women will be begging men, ever now the ladies you see going to do prostitution needed men but didn't find any, some find in their home of prostitution.
And there is coming a time men will marry seven women each.Although LoVe has to come in tell.

I have no idea. Personally, I am not interested in getting married. I would rather not waste resources on things that have no clear benefit.

Afeni
are you serious?

Suen STOP STOP STOP! For Gods sake what do you mean. Am married with a lovely daughter. My wife, my daughter, my home is all fun. My wife is not anly a companion but the captain that runs the family. Am there just to provide. Next time please crosscheck your views before posting all that rubbish bout Nigerian men. Its important!

And 2 shall become 1 , sum ppl are not complete without a 2nd person , the significant other

cuz of luv n 2 ve a family

men married to legalize sex and control their woman.