tunamost: fanx alot beau49...I really really do appreciate d fact dat u took ur time to advice me on dis issue....I also fink giving her space won't work cuz I fink she might say I never meant it in d first place....and concerning d kiss...I got d most shocking moment few days ago when we kissed several times...I was so surprised...but dat evening she said she's confused as to wat to do cuz she realised she has started having feelings for d other guy last month and dat her family already knows abt him....she opened up to me dat she's got feelings for me as well but dat she's confused as to wat to do...when I told her no p dat she should follow her heart...she got infuriated and all and I told her I myself am confused cuz I don't want to sound so mean by telling her to leave d other guy....she just told me I should let God have his way....plz what should I do...I really really like her so much...

Chidonsky: @tunamost nw dat u av defined ur priority nd u av prove dat ur intentions are pure......nw dis is d killing point 2 get her firstly change ur mode at wrk place 2wads her in away she wld wnt 2 knw wats is going on wit u....if she questions u which will eventually happen make her undastand dat she is d reason wi u are unhappy because she refused ur sincere proposal show some soberness in ur eyes nd b dam serious wit ur moody luk...secondly dnt let her give u dos physical contact and stop dos attention she gets 4rm u try 2 stop her if she mak advances she will b shock den dat is wen u mak her undastnd she is killing u knowing fully well dat she is nt urs because each tym u rememba dos moment it makes u emotionally dead...afta nw ask her if she care abt ur happines i knw she will say yes den tell her if she cares why is she hurting u and turning down ur offer dat u are dying inside slowly 4 her sake...dat witot her ur lv wrld is incomplete mayb as she wana leave jst hold are hands and tell her jst give me a chance 2 prove my self my lv.....since u wana marry her i gues u shld show high profile of discipline and persistent 2wads her and ur attitude 2....i tell u she must give in

Chidonsky: @tunamost nw dat u av defined ur priority nd u av prove dat ur intentions are pure......nw dis is d killing point 2 get her firstly change ur mode at wrk place 2wads her in away she wld wnt 2 knw wats is going on wit u....if she questions u which will eventually happen make her undastand dat she is d reason wi u are unhappy because she refused ur sincere proposal show some soberness in ur eyes nd b dam serious wit ur moody luk...secondly dnt let her give u dos physical contact and stop dos attention she gets 4rm u try 2 stop her if she mak advances she will b shock den dat is wen u mak her undastnd she is killing u knowing fully well dat she is nt urs because each tym u rememba dos moment it makes u emotionally dead...afta nw ask her if she care abt ur happines i knw she will say yes den tell her if she cares why is she hurting u and turning down ur offer dat u are dying inside slowly 4 her sake...dat witot her ur lv wrld is incomplete mayb as she wana leave jst hold are hands and tell her jst give me a chance 2 prove my self my lv.....since u wana marry her i gues u shld show high profile of discipline and persistent 2wads her and ur attitude 2....i tell u she must give in

babylolaroy:
be sure to pay for this..its a thread for single ladies actually buh soo many guys av peeped and are still peeping. we shared experiences on dating and why some are not working. right nau d latest is for the dude who has yawa with a girl he loves and who probably loves him bak or who doesnt{ we no sure yet}..blah blah...yu fit add ur own gist..abt ur relationships dat av gone sour. y ddnt dey work

beau49:
U had me der a while ago buh nw u av lost me....i tut ur 1st post was great buh dis 1 sounds more lyk usin manipulation#jes my tuts#wat exactly r u tryin 2 say?...thumbs up on d 1st post...

tunamost: fanx chidonsky.....I'm just scared dat would drive her away d more cuz I fink dats wat she want herself cuz she told me we shouldn't attach feelings to our friendship dat she only want us to be best of friends yet we still kissed several times few days back...wat surprised me most is dat...dat same nite she still used dat same guy's pix (her bf) as dp on her BB..even wit d one they snaped together....all dis gets me confused and sometimes I get jealous and sad abt it....now u telling me to stop d way I behave to her @ work would make her fink somfin is wrong and eventually give in if she sees am not happy but am just scared it might drive her away further as dat might be d push she needs to make her 4get all abt me...it look as though she can't leave dat guy for me....she told me she doent want to be coming to my place often cuz she doesn't want my pple to start seeing her as my girlfriend....am just confused as to wat to do now

alutacontinua: Hmmmm, sweetie, this is tough oo!
I rily dunno how you'll handle your parents' ish but i want you to know that bowing to their pressure is nt an option. Don't jump on just anybody because dey wouldn't let you rest. Take your time, you're still young, build yourself for your man. As for the oda part, CARMELION, where art thou? A sister needs ya help.

beau49: @chidonsky...nw i get wat u r tryin 2 say....9ce 1.

tunamost: fanx alot beau49...I really really do appreciate d fact dat u took ur time to advice me on dis issue....I also fink giving her space won't work cuz I fink she might say I never meant it in d first place....and concerning d kiss...I got d most shocking moment few days ago when we kissed several times...I was so surprised...but dat evening she said she's confused as to wat to do cuz she realised she has started having feelings for d other guy last month and dat her family already knows abt him....she opened up to me dat she's got feelings for me as well but dat she's confused as to wat to do...when I told her no p dat she should follow her heart...she got infuriated and all and I told her I myself am confused cuz I don't want to sound so mean by telling her to leave d other guy....she just told me I should let God have his way....plz what should I do...I really really like her so much...

alutacontinua: Hmmmm, sweetie, this is tough oo!
I rily dunno how you'll handle your parents' ish but i want you to know that bowing to their pressure is nt an option. Don't jump on just anybody because dey wouldn't let you rest. Take your time, you're still young, build yourself for your man. As for the oda part, CARMELION, where art thou? A sister needs ya help.

nne3870:
Thanks alutacontinua, I won't bow to pressure though but I need to talk to someone on how to cope with them since I work and live in thesame city with them. Its really difficult I tell you.

Chidonsky: hmmm is certain she has defined wat she want and she doesnt wnt 2 cross limit bt i ask wat is d kissing,cuddling,huging for all abt, are u handsome? Luking at dis i see a grl wit a biased mind wat if d guy is aware of dos tinz who will b at threat d grl or u? If u wer 2 b dis guy nd ur grl dos dis hw will u feel dnt u tink d grl is using 2 achieve somtin carnal? Who get hurt afta d tot of dos moment u or d grl? Is time u stand as a man and do d right tin...u av conscience do 2 others wat u wish dey shld do 2 u is a guiding principle...she likes u nt lv dat 2 say d lv is jst in d head nt d hrt and physical attraction....she dosn't wnt 2 identify wit u as ur woman den it means d hrt hz nt chosen u...d strength of committment is nt thr....1.i tink she will nt in anaway b hurt since she haz given u limit and she is in control...2.she turned dwn ur offer if only u av realy made ur intention of building a stable lv life wit her..3. She is nt ready 4 committment wat else d u need again 2 knw ur state an position in her life it hz bin stated alrdy...since u can't impose ur lv on her den u shldnt b her toy...so jst literaly communicate wit her and b supportive as a friend nd seal it wit mutual respect..tnx

ayodot:

I told u d kiss will work.. Lady who allow u to kiss her as no inhibition against u.. She as opened u to u, she as deeper feelings for u and I also believe u have for her.. There's no other better time than now to be selfish.. just be wise about it don't make it obvious.. don't let her slip thru ur hand.. Win her over Bro

quin debbie: If u re a guy nd can proove me wrng by dain a gal witot sex, ping me 26a050b1

tunamost: fanx chidonsky..in all honesty I really do feel for d other guy as well....but we live in a complex world as I know longevity or d amount of money u spend for ur woman is not a guarrantte for a succesfull relationship...dat Is why I ave given it a lil bit of push to see wat comes out of it cuz if its not me it might be someone else eventually...and for her to have hidden d fact dat d other is not her bf rite from d onset made me to carry on cuz if only she had told me when I asked dat she's got a serious relationship it would ave been a diff fin entirely...d fact dat she told me dat she doesn't want my pple to see her as my gf still baffles me cuz few days ago she asked me for my sis number and she sent her recharge card...she even bought me recharge card as well...she called my sis on her bday....and yet she said she doesn't want to be recognised as my gf...I don't want u to start looking it as if am trying to steal her away from her man...

mondi_cheeks: Hello guys im married but single... I need a man who wants a serious relationship to be my 9th husband

Chidonsky: lol wat hapened 2 others

RedBenson:

Major distributor of hiv/aids

mondi_cheeks: go to sleep

RedBenson:

I wont go. Infact, com here, why are u distributing hiv/aids?

mondi_cheeks: bros wetin dey worry u

RedBenson:

Notin dey wori me abeg. But no vex o, u get aids? I no 4 mind bein ur no. 9 but i dey fear aids. So how far?

mondi_cheeks: i dont have aids. I have a thing for variety thats all

RedBenson:

So what are the criteria for qualification? I need that thing u have down there.

mondi_cheeks: there is nothing down there