This list of “don’t take your ex back (yet)” signs applies to men and women alike.

1. S/he has not completely accepted that you’re broken up and still talks like you’re still together or acts like you owe him/her something.

2. Contacts (in person, letter, cards, email, text or phone) are always about him/her trying to convince you that s/he has changed. Even when s/he is talking about you or the relationship, you get the sense he has no real interest in what you think, your needs or wishes.

3. S/he is still being controlled by neurotic neediness – e.g. contacting you because he/she thought you contacted him/her, then contacting you again to apologize for earlier on mistakenly contacting you, and then contacting you again – for whatever.

4.  S/he is (still) blaming “someone else” (you, your friend (s), relative(s), “other man/woman” etc.) for the problems in the relationship, for the break-up or for the two of you not being able to “get back” together.

5. S/he is still obsessed with “fixing you” and talks like s/he knows you better than you know yourself. You feel like you’re constantly being “coached/counseled” by a life coach/relationships “expert”.

6. S/he won’t let you take any responsibility for your role in the break up.  Says things like “You were great, I’m the one who messed up” or “You’re a wonderful person, I made you do x and y”. See this for what it is, “emotional bribery”. It takes two to create a relationship and it takes two to destroy it. If /she doesn’t get that simple fact, s/he still doesn’t get it. It’s that simple!...............continue @
http://coolpenny./2013/02/08/10-red-signs-you-shouldnt-your-ex-take-back/

the way nlers keep going on about this ex thing, most sane people should be scared to date una, because it seems to be a crime for someone to do so.

why knowingly date someone who will be stalking you everywhere afterwards?

even befriending sef, not advisable unless you're crazy, in which case, keep going.

tpia@:
the way nlers keep going on about this ex thing, most sane people should be scared to date una, because it seems to be a crime for someone to do so.

why knowingly date someone who will be stalking you everywhere afterwards?

even befriending sef, not advisable unless you're crazy, in which case, keep going.

Why would anyone wanna dete their ex?

Mynd_44: Why would anyone wanna dete their ex?

U de ask me?

Lol

xtgozie:
U de ask me?

I don't know who to ask na