You've dated her for more than three yrs and automatically she believes that's enough criteria for u to be her husband. U do not see her as a woman u can spend d rest of ur life with thus u do not want her as ur wife but she's threatened to ruin ur life mercilessly if u ever mess-up with her. What can u do then?

then why are you still with her?

But i just said the guy wants to end d relaationship cos his mind is not cleared wit her in a marrital perspective and here she is trying to hold d guy for ransom. He doesnt want her again.

After wasting 3gud yrs of her life knowing fully well that u wldnt marry her u expect her not to kill u? u r lucky u even had a quick notice.For crying out loud,this babe must ve had suitors during those times but chose to be with u n now u r telling stories.OP, u r a wolf in sheep's clothing...

OP SHUTT UP. You are d one. Stop hiding under ur friend and saying my friend my friend. Do u thnk we are as folishh as u are not to have noticed u cant marry ur gf for 3yrs

All these small minded boys on nl ranting annoyingly instead of a simple reply. Anyway, i no blame una. Na internet cause am.

You spent 3 years with her over nothing.....smh

RedBenson: But i just said the guy wants to end d relaationship cos his mind is not cleared wit her in a marrital perspective and here she is trying to hold d guy for ransom. He doesnt want her again.

You cant blame her for being upset. You should have told.her right from the beginning that you had no Intentions of marrying her so that she could use that time to start another relationship.

Whats the deal here @op Let us know who is involved in this... People are confuse as to whether you are speaking for yourself or not.. And its also not clear if you are a guy or girl. Come out plain please and one would be able to help..

well... threaten her too....

Well my handle says 'RedBenson' and its only men that answer 'Benson' so am a man. 2ndly, it my friend it happened to not me.

after wasting 3 good years of the said lady.... you then found out she ain't a wife material....... some men sef..... e better make she use you for blood money


hit n run is far better than this

Who told u guys that every more than 3yrs relationship = marriage?

wtf!

Relationship can be managed but not marriage. Never spend up to a year with a partner who does not score up to half of the qualities you need in ur dream man or woman.
After 3yrs who are u leaving her for? Safe journey!