Hello my fellow nairalanders.Am about to get married to this man but he has the habit of drinking four to five bottles of STAR almost everyday and i am really getting pissed off without knowing what to do.I really need your advice because i love this guy and i am really convinced that he loves me too.I have talked to him about it and he kept on promising that he will try and reduce the daily basis stuff but all to no avail.

well u should keep trying, keep talking to him and praying for him.... it ll be a gradual process and u ve to help him through it.
tell him about the harzards involved and d need to stay fit...

thanks for ur candid advice

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What
Five bottle per day
well,my fatherly advice for you is to walk away,
why would you choose a drunkard when there are goodones outhere.

#betta go for good

You met a man and fell in love with him and all of a sudden you want him to stop drinking, do you know how many years he has been drinking? Or do you have the slightest clue about his background? Don't be a foöl to think that LOVE or marriage will make him change because it can be hellish to stop some habits.
Now young woman, to stop him from drinking,
1. You may need to stop his friends too.
2. He might see you as been possessive of him.
3. If you're religious, can you wait for God to answer your prayers in 5years time?
I'd advise you
1. Stop being irritated by his drinks, see them as juice.
2. If you must marry him, ask/allow him to buy them and come drink them at home with you sitting beside him. That way you can keep him from excessive drinking with friends and as well control his bottles. As he drinks with you around him, humbly make him see reasons to stop, your soft words could do it. It's not magic but a process, assuredly, he will quit. All the best