Just imagine my former husband to be is getting married on my birthday date. He cut off our relationship on phone after we have fixed a date for our introduction and a month of our wedding.When he was nobody i was there for him and after he qualified as a chartted accountant and got a new job with a driver and with an official car , it was then he said one man just stopped him on his way and asked him to pray for his wife , and he went and told his family and it was cornfirmed that we are incompatiable with each other, and he just have to stop putting sentiments and cut off the relationship. Now is getting married on my birthday day? What shld i do.

@poster
It only leaves to tell you dat he has moved on with his life
so you move on with urs
getting hurt,its humane to be but dont let it hurt for too long
"CHEATED" dont kwn where dat one comes in now
already he has walked out to marry another girl,so no one is cheating any here

All u have to do is to gather the remaining pieces 2geda and fix them and hence move on girl
The one in future is greater if u bliv in that, cheers

Thanks for ur advice . i believe that the downfall of a man is not the end of his/her life.
And greater is he that is in me . Have a nice day.

Hope 4 the best and expect the worst

in other words.
be prepared.

with that u will never end up disapointed.
keep ur head up

@poster.

i can understand how u feel.it's so unbearable when love hurts us.
u just have to be strong for yourself and carry on as best as you can.
u can take a break on the wedding day,ur birthday,go someplace quite
and reflect, if i were u,i'd think of all the reasons why it(ur relationship with him)
wouldnt have worked just to make myself feel better(u dont have to do this!lol)
who knows?maybe its for the best,
all the best ok.

holythug:

remain single

haaaaaaa, dats not fair you know,

Move on!
And your story is too one-sided to take a position

Some men about the believe of seeing a pastor before compatibility approval sha. I don't believe in such things, I mean from your post u were hooked up with this guy for more than 2 years. Does he not realise your incompatibilty then? I figure out that his success lead him to change.
Anyway, I advice you to pray and move on with your life, you never can tell if God destined you with someone better. But take your time and don't get desperate- a true lover will not hurt you nor make you feel cheated.
Cheers.

I can't wait to tell you of what happened on my way home from work yesterday.
I met an old school friend preaching to a Lady about how God has already annointed a Husband for her and that was why she didn't get married last year because she didn't find the Mr, Right.
I couldn't help laughing at this Guy who according to what He told me last was supposed to be in Turkey by now studying.
To think we all played the Women game and he did the shagging endlessly before graduating was a good laugh at.

I just hope the Guy in question didn't meet this type of Pastor and decided not to marry else go and find out what you did or whether you were used and dumped. Word.!!!!!s

@topic,

move on with ur life, be positive and live ur life.
it wasn't meant to be. Who ever knows what would have happened if u guys had married each other.

What's not urs can neva be urs.