Hi People,

I met my new girlfriend a few years back and we have been dating since then.
She had told me that she was circumcised but I didn't think much of it.
Last night was steaming with passion and romance so we decide to make love for the first time.
The pre-intimacy was good, all the teasing and touching, then we started the session- I thought I was very good in bed and expected her to tell me when she was tired but "NO". She just kept going and asking for more. Ok, I went on (10mins), (20mins), (45mins), I "came" but she was still asking for more. I couldn't give her any more. I was spent, exhausted. There was nothing I could do, even if i wanted to.
Just this morning I decided to search the internet for information and discovered that the process of circumcision involves removing the sensitive part of the female Instruments.
I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time a few days back and realised that she was circumcised.

I think this is really going to affect our relationship. I'm not sure i can cope with such demand for sex. She even told me that she had only experienced an orgasm twice in her life.

Does anyone have any advice for me? and what are the implications of such circumcision? How does it affect childbirth?

Any advice will be appreciated.

Next tyme
take plenty of sepe
and paraga,
also add yoyo bitters,

u go see who go quik tire,

Na wa o, I no fit speak from experience, but I do know most women don't orgasm through penetration alone you need to stimulate her in other ways i.e the clit/nipples while you're penetrating. For the circumcised woman it takes a bit longer ( or forever) to reach an orgasm, what you need to do is try various positions and see which one gets her moanin with pleasure. This kan job requires a skilled lover if not you go work tire. Remember every toto dey different.

sista-jay:

Na wa o, I no fit speak from experience, but I do know most women don't orgasm through penetration alone you need to stimulate her in other ways i.e the clit/nipples while you're penetrating. For the circumcised woman it takes a bit longer ( or forever) to reach an orgasm, what you need to do is try various positions and see which one gets her moanin with pleasure. This kan job requires a skilled lover if not you go work tire. Remember every toto dey different.

I know it does takes longer for circumcised girls to climax and I also heard that they do not enjoy sex as much.

Don't know how to advise u but try wat sista jay said . . . different positions and all that.
good luck sha!

hmmmmmm

burn:

Hi People,

I met my new girlfriend a few years back and we have been dating since then.
She had told me that she was circumcised but I didn't think much of it.
Last night was steaming with passion and romance so we decide to make love for the first time.
The pre-intimacy was good, all the teasing and touching, then we started the session- I thought I was very good in bed and expected her to tell me when she was tired but "NO". She just kept going and asking for more. Ok, I went on (10mins), (20mins), (45mins), I "came" but she was still asking for more. I couldn't give her any more. I was spent, exhausted. There was nothing I could do, even if i wanted to.
Just this morning I decided to search the internet for information and discovered that the process of circumcision involves removing the sensitive part of the female Instruments.
I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time a few days back and realised that she was circumcised.

I think this is really going to affect our relationship. I'm not sure i can cope with such demand for sex. She even told me that she had only experienced an orgasm twice in her life.

Does anyone have any advice for me? and what are the implications of such circumcision? How does it affect childbirth?

Any advice will be appreciated.

I would have thrown in the spanner here but reading your signature, I decided to keep mute

_{Those who know don't talk and those who talk don't know a thing!} LOL!

i love neat sweet, tantalising, beautiful, romantic and portable girls that are not circumcised,they always make me feel hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

POSTER
I feel ur pains oo.
I have had guys dat dated such girls,and sex dont even meana thing,some of them may just fake the orgasm.

Maybe you need to do more of pre-intimacy and really get it into her HEAD,hopefully u wont have lost ur own arousal by then.
good luck

burn:

Hi People,

I met my new girlfriend a few years back and we have been dating since then.
She had told me that she was circumcised but I didn't think much of it.
Last night was steaming with passion and romance so we decide to make love for the first time.
The pre-intimacy was good, all the teasing and touching, then we started the session- I thought I was very good in bed and expected her to tell me when she was tired but "NO". She just kept going and asking for more. Ok, I went on (10mins), (20mins), (45mins), I "came" but she was still asking for more. I couldn't give her any more. I was spent, exhausted. There was nothing I could do, even if i wanted to.
Just this morning I decided to search the internet for information and discovered that the process of circumcision involves removing the sensitive part of the female Instruments.
I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time a few days back and realised that she was circumcised.

I think this is really going to affect our relationship. I'm not sure i can cope with such demand for sex. She even told me that she had only experienced an orgasm twice in her life.

Does anyone have any advice for me? and what are the implications of such circumcision? How does it affect childbirth?

Any advice will be appreciated.

na this kain people de nairaland nowadays
if na befor eh, dem for chop you raw for playing with their inteligence
just thank seun for banning the correct correct people from the land

sista-jay:

Na wa o, I no fit speak from experience, but I do know most women don't orgasm through penetration alone you need to stimulate her in other ways i.e the clit/nipples while you're penetrating. For the circumcised woman it takes a bit longer ( or forever) to reach an orgasm, what you need to do is try various positions and see which one gets her moanin with pleasure. This kan job requires a skilled lover if not you go work tire. Remember every toto dey different.

It really require more job and effort to satisfy her.

What a lovely advice from sis jay

speechless is what i am 8)

boy u don fori ko big time. well next time, try using the fingers[ i hope your fingernails are long]. if that doesn't work. try pastor chris okotie. there's nothing prayer cannot do.

naija peeps!

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmnn!. . you are on your own ooo

indulgence. arrant non sense.

@poster

Well, since the outer caucus has been shaved, you may need to go to the inner circle of friends for the main bells to ring. You will need a lot of viagra for the next 40 years if you end up with this babe.  Not her fault though.  Too bad!

Just prepare your mind that you are going to the farm every time you approach her for "show"!   It is going to be the longest day or night you ever encountered always.  Na firewood you carry so! These kind sof women are for breeding purposes only.  Don't expect any form of excitement unless you have an extra long. . . .third leg to wake up the dead inside her inner chambers!

Kpele oooooooooooooooh!

I think it should please you, since no body will want your babe besides you.  She is going to be very faithfull to you.   Una you don buy market ooooooooooooooooooh!

Thank God you did not wait for anti pre-marital sexists to preach rubbish to you and take control over your relationship. Now you definitely know what you are in for. All I can say is that if she does not meet your needs, please leave her alone and let her deal with her issues or find someone who likes that kind of torture.

Goodluck oooooooooooooooooooooh!

aha aunty
was that meant to make the dude cry?

Give him some hope now,even if na lie

almondjoy:

@poster

Well, since the outer caucus has been shaved, you may need to go to the inner circle of friends for the main bells to ring. You will need a lot of viagra for the next 40 years if you end up with this babe. Not her fault though. Too bad!

Just prepare your mind that you are going to the farm every time you approach her for "show"! It is going to be the longest day or night you ever encountered always. Na firewood you carry so! These kind sof women are for breeding purposes only. Don't expect any form of excitement unless you have an extra long. . . .third leg to wake up the dead inside her inner chambers!

Kpele oooooooooooooooh!

I think it should please you, since no body will want your babe besides you. She is going to be very faithfull to you. Una you don buy market ooooooooooooooooooh!

Thank God you did not wait for anti pre-marital sexists to preach rubbish to you and take control over your relationship. Now you definitely know what you are in for. All I can say is that if she does not meet your needs, please leave her alone and let her deal with her issues or find someone who likes that kind of torture.

Goodluck oooooooooooooooooooooh!

AJ, don't be pessimistic. Dont forget there is power hidden in those nipples.

OP, perhaps you should worry less about your concerns during the act. To some, real joy comes from being able to give than to recieve. Isn't that in the bible? Well sth like that.

u go play with nipples go 2hours?even the guy go run down.

Make e try first then come tell us how e be.

i know there are circumcision brigade here so i am going to talk. i thought there was more to a woman than the clitoris or whatever it is called.

AJ please tell your brother if all the people who were cut don't enjoy sex why do all those girls in naija sleep around like dogs? please don't tell me they were all not cut

Quote from: sista-jay on Yesterday at 01:51:30 PM

Na wa o, I no fit speak from experience, but I do know most women don't orgasm through penetration alone you need to stimulate her in other ways i.e the clit/nipples while you're penetrating. For the circumcised woman it takes a bit longer ( or forever) to reach an orgasm, what you need to do is try various positions and see which one gets her moanin with pleasure. This kan job requires a skilled lover if not you go work tire. Remember every toto dey different.

talking from experience. Mo ju ba o

so ?  wetin come do am naa ? Make you use agbo jedi,jedi !

tommyex:

aha aunty
was that meant to make the dude cry?

Give him some hope now, even if na lie

Uncle, no help here at all!  It is better for him to just go and put like 2 ice fish in his draws, or stick his JT in the freezer than dealing with that kind of mess! He needs to run for his dear life or risk looking outside for a real woman in the future. 

Pennywise:


AJ, don't be pessimistic. Dont forget there is power hidden in those nipples.

OP, perhaps you should worry less about your concerns during the act. To some, real joy comes from being able to give than to recieve. Isn't that in the bible? Well sth like that.

Okay!  I hear you.  Like you can deal with such a mess!  That is some serious punishment! Nipples do not have orgasms unfortuantely.  That is like drinking tea without sugar.   You can twist the nipples till your fingers turn blue, that clitoris-deficient female will remain a "statue of Liberty"!  Only to be admired from long range.  No man will want to embark on such a task especially on an empty stomach! Those women are meant to be in some temple or nunnery serving the lord, like their fellow "eunuchs"--------- not free to roam around torturing men who are looking for the real thing.

Sorry oh! Some of us like to receive, while you give. I am not going to play the sacrificial lamb for anyone's pleasure. I love being a "wide receiver", thank you!

joshjosh:

i know there are circumcision brigade here so i am going to talk. i thought there was more to a woman than the clitoris or whatever it is called.

AJ please tell your brother if all the people who were cut don't enjoy sex why do all those girls in naija sleep around like dogs? please don't tell me they were all not cut

What are you talking about?  Don't you understand that the clitoris is the heartbeat of the womans sexuality. If you cut it off, you are a dead duck!

If Naija girls sleep around, I am sure they do not do so by themselves.  The demand must be way over the limits!  If they are sleeping around, it does not mean they enjoy what they are doing.  Money has definitely changed hands!

That is a business venture to help the economy as a result of the high unemployment rate in Nigeria.  All Naija girls sleep around like dogs?  What do the guys do then?  Sleep around like rabbits?

RABITS ARE TOO SNEAKY TO BE SEEN DOING THE BUSINESS. but you get my point sha?

do i get your point that all circumcised women dont enjoy sex? did i hear that right?
and do you say they people should not marry them too? i dont want to read what you are not saying so just answer short to the point

good to know i can ask my sister questions for education purpose only

I think I like to correct a misconception here. Female circumcision (that barbaric act we all should condemn) does not preclude sexual excitement. The individual may however not be able to get the multiple internal implosions during the act that the likes of AJ get all the time.The excitement may be weak but usually sufficient to facilitate lubrication making intercourse possible.

You know there is a problem when there is no excitement and hence no lubrication making the act frustrating for both. This is frigidity and requires medical attention. It is doubtful if this occurs commonly even among circumsized housewives which means most of them still enjoy sex.

@ deola 1

Wouldn't you like to know if am speakin from experience.

ehyah!
I pity such girls oo,and its not even there fault.If i be d girl i go swear 4 all the people wey do am

im surprised at all the answers i have seen regarding this question

@ poster the first thing you need to know is that not only circumsided women have problems reaching orgasm. Yes there is no doubt the issue of your lady not having a clitoris but sex is far more than just manual stimulation .
you need to know that yourwoman's sexual appetite doesn't have anything to do with her not having a clitoris, she wants you badly because she is feeling a mental connection with you and she probably has had to wait for so long to have sex with you so she is enjoying the feeling.
why don't you just admit that you are the problem and just because you have finally gotten in her pants now you want an escape route??

remember this men =sex=lots of physical and a little bit of mental women=sex=lots of mental and physical

burn:

Hi People,

I met my new girlfriend a few years back and we have been dating since then.
She had told me that she was circumcised but I didn't think much of it.
Last night was steaming with passion and romance so we decide to make love for the first time.
The pre-intimacy was good, all the teasing and touching, then we started the session- I thought I was very good in bed and expected her to tell me when she was tired but "NO". She just kept going and asking for more. Ok, I went on (10mins),  (20mins),  (45mins), I "came" but she was still asking for more. I couldn't give her any more. I was spent, exhausted. There was nothing I could do, even if i wanted to.
Just this morning I decided to search the internet for information and discovered that the process of circumcision involves removing the sensitive part of the female Instruments.
I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time a few days back and realised that she was circumcised.

I think this is really going to affect our relationship. I'm not sure i can cope with such demand for sex. She even told me that she had only experienced an orgasm twice in her life.

Does anyone have any advice for me? and what are the implications of such circumcision? How does it affect childbirth?

Any advice will be appreciated.

I have been banned byadmin for posting contrary views to the views xpressed by most posters on circumcision. i do not advocate circumcision, but have in my reading, come across informatio to the effect that, contarry to popular opinion, circumcision does not turn a woman to a ice pack incapale of orgasm.



@ poster, your girlfriends circumcison has done nothing to her lbido. if she actually can´t get any leasure out of sex, she would have begged off after you came. let her take charge ie ride you. women pactically always come when they do that.

Of all the responces ,the last person that responded said what is most informative the best actually . Ur girlfriend might be the best thing that has ever happen to u so be wise not to through her away . u just had sex once with her so u never can judge with just that . ur bodies need time and more sex to understand each other . and like the last poster said . when women are on top , they do the banging and winning of waist thereby moving it to whereever makes them feel high to the best of their enjoyment . So this makes them cum easily .

like u said urself , she was wanting meaning her libido is just good enough .

so take it easy and its not a big deal staying on a woman for 45 min or even more my guy .

abeg which part that clitoris dey?
na front abi na for back?
i dey always look for am.
pls genuine answers will be appreciated