moneyes:

Hehehe its mostly with the ladies. Sleepless nights fø̲̣̣я̅ men are fø̲̣̣я̅ abt the 1st 3 months ☀ƒ a new baby. But fø̲̣̣я̅ madam, it's till toddler years. The one that į§ sometimes truly frustrating į§ when U̶̲̥̅̊ finally get baby †̥ sleep and get ready †̥ get back †̥ Napland and Oga į§ fresh eyed, wide awake and primed fø̲̣̣я̅ action

Lol....

Sleep,sleep,sleeep,sleep
My bed,i know not a very PC thing to say but i love having my bed to myself.From when i was a teenager i loved rolling back and forth on my bed all night,with marriage one whole human being plus kids sometimes have to share my bed .

Going out on a whim.Wassup dami how you dey,i really need to.talk to you in person not phone talk can we meet up?Me,ok il call you after work and stop at your place.Now dami how you dey,i really need to talk to you not phone talk can we meet up?Me,uhhhm i have to pick up bebe take her for swimming,need to call america,sort out the builders,call hubby to see if he can get off work a lil early (no he cant) my babysitter is studying at the mo and my child minder no longer works after 6, can we make it two weeks time .Illustration means am not a good as friend as i used to be except on the phone and multimedia

Buying,buying,buying,buying,buying,buying,buying,buying .

Being toasted without feeling irritated(funny enough a guy was hounding me today in front of my daughters school even with me clutching a cranky teething baby .i wanted to slap his face i was soooo clearly not in.the mood.Agbaya)

That said though(everybody quickly dey disclaim make dem OH no come dey vex ) i looove being married and love my kids.Thats why i am happy i was not sooo young when i got married(everyone thought i would be waaay older sef)at least i had other experiences.

Hmmmm, I jst got married nt up 2 6 months, bt eventhough my singlehood wasn't all dt fun, I am an extrovert bt I wasn't given enuf space 2 exercise it as much as I wanted cos of ma parents. Bt I miss my sleep, miss the chats wit my siblings sooo much, I miss d fact dt I had lots of bfssssss wit no regrets, miss som of my ex.... Bt all in all I guess d marriage wld do me more good doe...

Thingd i miss in no particular order:

Sleep
Hanging out with the girls
Clubs
Only buying things for me, myself and I

its normal to miss ones ex,especially the nice and special ones...its no taboo cos he once was the love of ur life .sometimes, i miss him,not that i long to be with him tho,but i just remember and think of him as a very special friend.
What i miss more is my freedom, freedom to go out without having to plan and take permission from somebody.i am the type that love travelling alot,but now that i am married,all that have reduced considerably. no doubt i enjoy my present status...being married and "doing d tin" without guilt.lol.

niyoni: Hmmm....d ladies are here now n we can hear dem loud n clear. Pls 4giv me 4 sounding naughty, but I havn't heard any1 say they miss their ex.....