vanitty:

Huh?
Now what is the correlation in what I wrote and what you wrote.
I am not going to be throwing any light jare darling freecocoa, long day at work already.
Read what I wrote well

freecocoa: I read what you wrote very well and I don't really understand it.

I'm just looking at what could lead to him disrespecting your mom na.

nwando:
Women are by nature very mild and men by nature are very aggressive( few exceptions )
99% of violent criminals and criminals of every kind are males
Any crime you hear about 99% of the time,the perpetrator is a male
In the same manner in the home,men are most likely to be the aggressors and the violent offenders so please dont blame us
Statistics like hips don't lie
If the police is called to your home,they will most likely be prepared to arrest a man and most times they are correct.
God made women loving nurturers ,men are something else Turn any newspaper to the crime section
For every single crime by a woman there are 50000 by a man

kimakazee: I love this lady! Pls if u hav a sister with ur attitude or u knw any pls let me knw cheiii ur husband is living d life ooo, i wish 2 b in his shoes.

ammyluv2002: ...once a man is rich, no matter what he does, the wife is likely to forgive him aside that women forgive easily in marriage. Most homes are going thru a lot(abuse, cheating,etc) yet the woman remains calm.. Now, in the case of that woman maybe the man has been lazy, refused to work, refused getting another job or just depends on the wife's money because some men are like that so the woman has been keeping & providing for the family probably for years, it takes the spirit of God for that woman not to disrespect the man...we are all human and have limits so let's also see it from this angle. We might not really understand because we are not in her shoes but believe me, I don't think is easy especially when the man is lazy. Some women on the other hand are just mean, once there's no money everything changes that's why, we really have to relay on God when choosing a life partner because it goes more than the Physical. Is not all about beauty please choose your partners from the inside and above all consult your creator.

nmagirl: i witnessed a similar thing at a salon one day. A lady just finished making hair when the husband came to meet her; with smiles on his face he told the wife that her hair-do is fine and wanted to touch it, to my utmost surprise, she slapped the husband's hand away telling him that he's not ashamed to touch a hair that a man like him paid for. It was so embarrassing, in fact shame leave the man catch me. Some women can be so mean; just because her husband lost his job.

danjkad: Nothing can ever make me disrespect my husband. God forbid bad tin

biolabee: coogar i support you, the man should move out of the house
when he makes it in life, the cobwebs down there will be of thick h.ymenic proportions

bukatyne:

I am sure her husband deserves it.

Make yourself a worthy husband and a sensible wife would go any length for you.

nwando: Is the husband here complaining because he was doing laundry?
He has no job,why won't he do housework?
I hope he is also washing her clothes too ,doing dishes and pounding yam on a regular basis
He has to keep busy
An idle mind is the devils workshop

nmagirl: i witnessed a similar thing at a salon one day. A lady just finished making hair when the husband came to meet her; with smiles on his face he told the wife that her hair-do is fine and wanted to touch it, to my utmost surprise, she slapped the husband's hand away telling him that he's not ashamed to touch a hair that a man like him paid for. It was so embarrassing, in fact shame leave the man catch me. Some women can be so mean; just because her husband lost his job.

coogar:
does it matter anymore?anyone who disrespects his/her significant half in public is a disgrace to the institution of marriage! i don't care what transpired - married folks should sort their problems privately and not let a 3rd party in their business.

bukatyne:

I am sure her husband deserves it.

Make yourself a worthy husband and a sensible wife would go any length for you.

I am just assuming that you are a teenager by your utterance who does not know the ups and downs of life.he lost his job due to some reason best known to them. how does that made him unworthy man/him deserving the insult

fresh_dude: This thread yet confirms that like everything in life respect is fleeting. On the one hand is the "if he disrespects himself" crowd, who are "waiting" for justification to exhibit their bad-manners. And then there's this;which I would like to believe is a joke.

BUt the truth and hard reality is that new generation wives do not respect their husbands. Simple. One does not even need to lose his job to be disrespected by his wife anymore, all it takes is "blame it on PMS." This is a major reason why marriage in this age is a waste of time. Women will generally only respect intrinsically masculine men< but what they (women/mothers) are grooming are effeminate "sensitive men", men who are not afraid to show their weaknesses. I say this to the men on here, hold on to your masculinity as much as is possible, practicable and reasonable. I assure you that the amount of respect your wife bequeaths you is proportional to the level of your mystery to her.

As for the laundry-doing husband, I say, "do what you gotta do".

Richy.:


I am just assuming that you are a teenager by your utterance who dose not know the ups and downs of life.he lost his job due to some reason best known to them. how did he deserve it .

PAGAN 9JA:
OP WHY ARE YOU SPREADING MAN-WORSHIP AND CORRUPTING NIGERIANS!!!

CHRISTIANITY SURVIVES ON PLAYING WITH PEOPLES EMOTIONS!

nwando:
Because being married makes you immune to real human feelings
You switch off and switch on like ogbanje because u are married
A man can beat you black and blue and visitors show up ,you smile and bring them garden eggs because that is what is expected of you[\b]

Biko comot jare
What marital school did u attend that teaches that nonsense
This is the reason women pretend and remain in abusive unions and end up in early graves because of mindsets such as this

[b]SHe is punched in the eye and expected to tell people she walked into a wall or got hit by a ball since a husband must not be disrespected
Graveyards are filled with such women
You cannot blame this woman for anything
We don't know what she did or said and what prompted her utterances
We don't even know what the OP means by disrespect in this instant do we?

bukatyne:

What ups and downs old man?

If your brother wishes to find a good wife, would you not counsel him to be a good husband?

If your sister wishes to find a good husband, would you not counsel her to be a good wife?

free2ryhme:



u have no business here go meet your kind elsewhere

coogar:

you are very correct -
marriage is not a do or die affair - she should leave him if she cannot stand it anymore. he's better off single than having a wife disrespect him. when fortune smiles on this man again, this yeye woman should start praying.......

nwando: Is the husband here complaining because he was doing laundry?
He has no job,why won't he do housework?
I hope he is also washing her clothes too ,doing dishes and pounding yam on a regular basis
He has to keep busy
An idle mind is the devils workshop

bukatyne:

I believe my post is very explanatory...
A young man wishes to make a loving wife and I counsel him to be loving himself.

I'm sure you have heard respect begats respect;
Respect is reciprocal;
Respect is earned;

Same goes for disrespect too.

Change the kind of women you roll with.