bammy: I met this girl with her innocent looks , i fell in love with her and she did also , but i'm always worried about because she is only on BBM chatting with other guys and she keeps telling me i should trust her , she's an extrovert and am the opposite , she wants to go clubbing, and all , and i don't want that , and she said i should let her be free or she will do things behind my back , what should i do ? be patient? please your kind advice

Mynd_44: Kids....

cooldipo: I find it hard to stomach that name calling.....we have to respect each other's nature, he just told you about his challenge and opened up as much as he can....the least you can do is help not trying to make him less than a man!

Bro I will advice you make her more of a friend, she will open up the more and you may be lucky enough to earn her trust and companionship....then things can progress from there. "Water wey man go grink; no go flow pass am!"

bammy:


She opened up and this time its the worst thing I have ever heard.. She told me she can't get pregnant anymore because she did an abortion when she was at skuul and doc told her she can't bear a child , that's one , she went ahead and told me how she has been sexually harassed thrice in her life , I confirmed that when I had sex with her she becomes sad and sober ( proclatin ) I.e her past still haunts her whenever we have sex, after I heard this that happened to her , right now the love I have for her depreciates while what she has for increases maybe because I was playing along but I truly love her and pitied her condition ...I believe in miracles that she can still get pregnant, I told her and right now her attitude has now dropped and she's now ready to listen to whatever I say, pls guys , What should I do ? Break up? Or play along ? And she keeps talkin about adoption of kids or I will marry another girl if she eventually can't bear me a child.. Advises pls.

ladunsky: are u a learner ? ? ?