In my dating life in Yankee, I have realized that there are three different dating options:

1) Nigerian Girls
2) American Girls/or Non Naija
3) Nigerian American

Let me break it down.

If you date a Nigerian girl the rules are simple, when you go out, you spend money on her, you don't let her pay for anything, but when you get home, she will take care of things in the house....the separation of duties are clear.

American girl: This is a shared relationship, you both generally share the duties. Sometimes you pay, and other times she does. Sometimes you cook, and other times she does. its a 50/50 relationship

Nigerian american girl is a special case, they are basically american girls with Nigerian parents, so they know a little bit of the nigerian culture. They will want the best of both worlds. What this means is, they want you to be a traditional Nigerian man (pay for everything) but when it comes to doing things in the house they want to be american girls!! dis one na 80/20 relationship!

Has anyone else noticed this?!

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dokia: Nigerian american girl is a special case, they are basically american girls with Nigerian parents, so they know a little bit of the nigerian culture. They will want the best of both worlds. What this means is, they want you to be a traditional Nigerian man (pay for everything) but when it comes to doing things in the house they want to be american girls!! dis one na 80/20 relationship!

Has anyone else noticed this?!

Yes. But ^^^^^ that also applies to Nigeria born women who have spent more more than a few weeks abroad. Enough time for their eyes to be wide opeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen

dokia: In my dating life in Yankee, I have realized that there are three different dating options:

1) Nigerian Girls
2) American Girls/or Non Naija
3) Nigerian American

Let me break it down.

If you date a Nigerian girl the rules are simple, when you go out, you spend money on her, you don't let her pay for anything, but when you get home, she will take care of things in the house....the separation of duties are clear.

American girl: This is a shared relationship, you both generally share the duties. Sometimes you pay, and other times she does. Sometimes you cook, and other times she does. its a 50/50 relationship

Nigerian american girl is a special case, they are basically american girls with Nigerian parents, so they know a little bit of the nigerian culture. They will want the best of both worlds. What this means is, they want you to be a traditional Nigerian man (pay for everything) but when it comes to doing things in the house they want to be american girls!! dis one na 80/20 relationship!

Has anyone else noticed this?!

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http://www.smileandtalk.com

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Is dt ur kid dude?

your observation/points are true but a bit one-sided. What about emotional characteristics of the listed case studies...who gives more drama and who is the most tolerant ?

What are we going to do my bloda?... We jast have to take them as they her. They are babies,how responsibility is to care,pamper and sometimes cruel but with love but for me,I go for my nigerian babes,be her live in europe for years doesn't take away that 9ja gene from her.