Please to clarify somethings. First am not the guy spoken about in the words below and am only asking ur views to know what advice to give my friend *the gal below*
Can you force yourself to fall
in love
There is this one guy I
met a little whle ago, we
talked a lot, etc, etc. And
suddenly he confessed
that he had fallen in love
with me. Initially I was
okay with his feelings
for me, but I have clearly
told him that I'm not in
love with him. He's a very
sweet guy, he says and
does a lot of romantic
things, but the thing is;
when he does I feel
nothing. And I try
desperately to feel at
least a little bit of that
kind of love for him but
it hasn't worked out at
all. After some time I
accepted to date him
and I forced myself to
believe that I was in love
with him until that lie
started becoming a false
reality. I thought that I
loved him, but in truth I
still didn't feel anything. I
played along with him
and I acted like the
sweet girlfriend just
because I wanted so
badly to make him
happy. Unfortunately I
couldn't take it anymore,
the fact that I was
forcing myself to be with
a guy I didn't want in
that way, and in the end
I broke up with him.
But another thing is;
when I see him talk or
be with another girl I
feel some kind of
jealousy. Could it be that
deep down I do love
him, but then how can it
be explained that I don't
feel anything at all when
I'm with him? Could it be
that I've started
becoming possessive
over him just because I
know that he loves me?
Now the thing here is;
can you actually force
yourself to fall in love
with someone, can you
make yourself believe
that you love someone
until it becomes a reality
and you live happily ever
after or is it an
impossible thing to do?
and is it better to reject
them straight out and
tell them that you will
never love them back?

By gettin jealous wen he's wit other girls only implies u are tryin too hard!
U love him, u jes can't get urself to admit it.
All the girl gotta do is to stop clouding her thougts by asking questions abt things her heart wanna do.
I mean sometimes u see people talk, and u feel like kissing them. But in ds case, d girl shakes off every tots, considered them as a sign of weakness and replaces them with a more hardened face and determination not to fall.
In the real sense she is puttin up a facade as agaisnt wot she really feels!

As a gal it wil be fortunate 2 marry ur best friend and even more ur boy friend should b ur best friend. Love shouldn't be the only base to marry or love. The best way to a successful relationship is gud communication.

If he is broke HELLO NO and if he is rich the love of the cash is wot u can share.