I saw this lady and immediately something about her struck me in the heart and I knew I have found my love.This is the second month and am still trying to find the right time and words to make her know how I feel.Yet another thing bothers me still,will nay does she feel the same way I do?Only time will tell as I must tell her this month anyways.It brings us to the question, have you fallen in love at first sight?How did it go?

i don't know if it was love for me but i have like a woman at first sight.

So what is your game plan since you have decided that this is the month? Are you prepared for possible rejection?
Definitely go for it though and i wish you good luck

omega25red: i don't know if it was love for me but i have like a woman at first sight.
So what is your game plan since you have decided that this is the month? Are you prepared for possible rejection?
Definitely go for it though and i wish you good luck

Thanks man.I'll let her know I do care about her and would like to ask her out but that would be after introduction.For 1 I know the right time and words may not come but I'll be sincere about it inspite of the fact I know girls don't like honest guys.As for rejection I have burnt my bridge to retire.Success is assured.

The thing wey struck you na konji, untiL u knack am, the "love" no go fade.

Shollypopz: The thing wey struck you na konji, untiL u knack am, the "love" no go fade.

Girl before God and Man I have honest intentions for her.Its not Konji.I want a relationship with her actually.Its not everytime that a guy talks about love that he means intimacy.I want something real with this girl.So if you wanna help a brother,please do.

Kirinwa: Girl before God and Man I have honest intentions for her.Its not Konji.I want a relationship with her actually.Its not everytime that a guy talks about love that he means intimacy.I want something real with this girl.So if you wanna help a brother,please do.

There's nothing called "love @ first sight", my brother. Love is a verb, a decision.

Shollypopz:
There's nothing called "love @ first sight", my brother. Love is a verb, a decision.

Granted love may be a decision but it has to come from the heart.Moreover there are different kinds of love.You love a crippled beggar,you give him alms.Do you marry him?Am talking about the love that can make you leave your parents to stay with a man for the rest of your life!Don't you get it?

@Sholly you're not a guy and may not understand us.When I tell you I have fallen in love with this girl.You gotta believe it cos I have no reason to tell you lies,k?

Kirinwa: I saw this lady and immediately something about her struck me in the heart and I knew I have found my love.This is the second month and am still trying to find the right time and words to make her know how I feel.Yet another thing bothers me still,will nay does she feel the same way I do?Only time will tell as I must tell her this month anyways.It brings us to the question, have you fallen in love at first sight?How did it go?

Do you have any internal standards for a lady who qualifies as a potential girlfriend/wife? Does she meet those standards?
If your answer is yes, then you could be in love! But in this case you do not even know her and unless your standards are based on only outward appearance, you could be in something else and not love!

Sweets it's attraction not love.there is nothing like love at first sight.

Kirinwa: @Sholly you're not a guy and may not understand us.When I tell you I have fallen in love with this girl.You gotta believe it cos I have no reason to tell you lies,k?

Shollypopz: The thing wey struck you na konji, untiL u knack am, the "love" no go fade.

........Sure! Na "lust."......there is nothing like love @ first sight..Lust brings U̶̲̥̅̊ close to a person but only love will keep U̶̲̥̅̊ after assessing the person's character & personality... Bros wake up, no be love, na LUST.....

Popowaa: Sweets it's attraction not love.there is nothing like love at first sight.

You've said it all!!!

Popowaa: Sweets it's attraction not love.there is nothing like love at first sight.

Well I admit am attracted to her but lust,never!

Kirinwa: Girl before God and Man I have honest intentions for her.Its not Konji...

No offense, bro... But dang! So people still swear like this?

Anyhow, whether ''love-at-first-sight'' or not, just man up and talk to her. You might wana refrain from swearing when you do that.

There is nothing as Love at first sight

Sure, it was like pouring a bucket of cold water on u in the month of december in Jos. Lol!

dmcdad: There is nothing as Love at first sight

Man, there is always love at first sight... If you have not experience it before then you wont know what it means.

Temi 23:

Man, there is always love at first sight... If you have not experience it before then you wont know what it means.

You are wrong woman! I stand on what I stated above that there is nothing like love at first sight. What you did experience was attraction at first sight and not love...


Please be sure to know the difference between the two before you claim what is not in existence. Attraction lights the fire and ignites the passion and act as a fore-runner to the nitty-gritty which is love...

Attraction is the genesis because you might be attracted to someone for the person's look, personality, charisma, intelligence, you name it. But in reality, the aforementioned are not wht brings real love, at least not in the first day or moments..

Very many people confuse attraction/lust and likeness/love... These should be understood hook, line and sinker so as not to use one wrongly in the place of another.

Shollypopz:
There's nothing called "love @ first sight", my brother. Love is a verb, a decision.

God bless you jare... Ignorance wont allow a lot of people to comprehend...

dmcdad:
You are wrong woman! I stand on what I stated above that there is nothing like love at first sight. What you did experience was attraction at first sight and not love...


Please be sure to know the difference between the two before you claim what is not in existence. Attraction lights the fire and ignites the passion and act as a fore-runner to the nitty-gritty which is love...

Attraction is the genesis because you might be attracted to someone for the person's look, personality, charisma, intelligence, you name it. But in reality, the aforementioned are not wht brings real love, at least not in the first day or moments..

Very many people confuse attraction/lust and likeness/love... These should be understood hook, line and sinker so as not to use one wrongly in the place of another.

Yes sir

Temi 23:

Yes sir

Thanks for your understanding My Lady..

Kirinwa: I saw this lady and immediately something about her struck me in the heart and I knew I have found my love.This is the second month and am still trying to find the right time and words to make her know how I feel.Yet another thing bothers me still,will nay does she feel the same way I do?Only time will tell as I must tell her this month anyways.It brings us to the question, have you fallen in love at first sight?How did it go?

..with white womens, light skin & half cast womens..YES!!