I have read lots of books, articles, and magazine on how to approach woman but none of them is working for me, I just wonder what is wrong with me. The only problem I have is how to control my manhood when I approach woman.

Any time I see a woman I like and try to approach her, my manhood will just start to erect and it's showing off in my trouser even if I put on jeans anybody that look at me will surely know that something is going on in this guy's mind.

I have tried to put my mind away from it and go after the girl but in the course of the approaching the "Big Man" is getting stronger which make me feel uncomfortable and most time I look for an immediate excuses to leave the girl as if I have something urgently to attend to immediately but it's a lie, is just to let her not notice that my "Big Man" is on annoyance level.

I'm not getting younger anymore, I need help on how to overcome this serious issue in my life for over ten years now.

Please what do you think I can do to put this behind me? Your contribution matter to me a lot, thank you and God bless you as you contribute. (Amen).

@poster, wen approaching a lady u like or u dnt like, it al depends on wat u av in mind abt d lady,may b negative feelings of lust,or feelin dis is my kind of woman!I dnt knw wat uve done bak den, nd hw many times a wik u bleeped wen u were a youth, al dis as its own. Biological side effects, I feel u nid to start seein any lady lik ur sister or any close relative, nd wit prayers u r sure of a change.

It sadden my heart to hear that my fellow man is passing through this mess. Well, first and foremost, your mind is the ultimate; what you think about always you will ultimately become. I have notice that er*ction responds speedily based on thought condition. And what we watch or see often times we meditate upon. that is why it's is very easy for John Thomas to erect at the sight of a damsel.
You need to control what you watch, control what you think, control your mind. Don't let the Devil tamper with your mind. Your mind is the most valuable assets of your life. if the devil tamper with your mind, he has succeeded in tampering with your destiny. If you are addicted to nasty movies, stop it and work on your mind. Another thing that can easily control your thought are the magazines your read. Any s*xual arousing magazines will definitely have an effect on you.
Guy you don't have an er*ction problem but a mind problem.

In the word of the wise, "sow a thought reap an act; sow an act reap an habit; sow an habit reap a character; sow a character and reap a destiny".

malawi14: @poster, wen approaching a lady u like or u dnt like, it al depends on wat u av in mind abt d lady,may b negative feelings of lust,or feelin dis is my kind of woman!I dnt knw wat uve done bak den, nd hw many times a wik u bleeped wen u were a youth, al dis as its own. Biological side effects, I feel u nid to start seein any lady lik ur sister or any close relative, nd wit prayers u r sure of a change.

Thanks I really appreciate this

Yomii: It sadden my heart to hear that my fellow man is passing through this mess. Well, first and foremost, your mind is the ultimate; what you think about always you will ultimately become. I have notice that er*ction responds speedily based on thought condition. And what we watch or see often times we meditate upon. that is why it's is very easy for John Thomas to erect at the sight of a damsel.
You need to control what you watch, control what you think, control your mind. Don't let the Devil tamper with your mind. Your mind is the most valuable assets of your life. if the devil tamper with your mind, he has succeeded in tampering with your destiny. If you are addicted to nasty movies, stop it and work on your mind. Another thing that can easily control your thought are the magazines your read. Any s*xual arousing magazines will definitely have an effect on you.
Guy you don't have an er*ction problem but a mind problem.

In the word of the wise, "sow a thought reap an act; sow an act reap an habit; sow an habit reap a character; sow a character and reap a destiny".

God bless you sir, you really hit me hard with your words, much appreciation and God bless you and your family sir.

Before u approach a lady raise ur manhood up fly your shirt and use ur belt to hold it.

Look for rubberband and tie d 'Damn Ting' to ur lap. (2) U have to decide who rules n controls d body, either u or d Ogar below d belt. (3) wenever u want to talk to a girl, put ur right hand inside ur trousier pocket and re-channel d 'Damn Ting' into a direction dat will not be obvious for d girl to see it strength.

*wearin my microscopic 4-D glasses* bros com closer so i can examine ur 'thing'

Put on tight iron pant

rub am aboniki the joystick go dance apako

Old boy cut your manhood off or make you take rope dey tie am down.Mark 9:47, And if your eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out. It is better for you to have a girl without manhood than for you to be without a girl and have your manhood.Shikena.

I smile at all these replies.. but none of them actually does it.

The problem the OP has is that his hormones levels are high due to not having s.ex for a long period of time.

Its something you were used to before..but now lacking. You have a high se.xual drive but that does not mean you would last much during s.ex. you are just Hot ni.

The solution.. is >>>Try to masturb.ate more frequently on your own maybe twice a day or more if you can, so as to lower your hormones level.

In a week or 2 you should be alright.

self-service or pour b4 you approch any lady again your body dey on fire

Speak to ur manhood in like manner you would speak to any gal.. Take excuse from ur manhood instead taking from the gal

Approach the girl in the night.

Do i look like your doctor?

Cut it off clik like if am suggestion is fyn

Wear a diaper every time, I guess u also ejacu***late wen u stay 2 long talking with a lady.

Picture yourself sleeping with your sister, your mother or even a person you hate whenever you want to toast any girl you like, if this prescription doesn't work then visit the nearest MFM church.

Why not use strong sellotape to strap it down anytime you go out? Maybe, if you see a girl you want to approach, quickly head to the loo, take out your sellotape and tape down that untamed beast of yours. It should help.

I really feel for you dear. It may just be psychological. Try and read religious books and take your mind off porn and other stuff like that. Also it could be medical (priapism) and you could see a doctor for advise and possible treatment. But above all, with God all things are possible; consult your priest or pastor for special prayer and possible deliverance because the demon or incubus/succubus responsible for lustful spirits may be at work. Thank you.

u lack self control

Use twine to tie it to one of your legs. This will help.

But seriously, you gonna have the problem of premature ejaculation, class A type.

That is a more bigger problem.

lol

Oga you need spiritual healing oh.. I have this Alfa, that will take care of your situation. If you are interested ping me here ok.. That tin was placed on you by the girl you jilted ok.. You need solution fast oh before it enters the second face... which is wet dreams.. You can't escape it oh.. you will have sex regularly in your dream and wake up with sperm all over your body

a1solution: Before u approach a lady raise ur manhood up fly your shirt and use ur belt to hold it.

I use that method too.Sometimes i do put my left hand in my pocket to hold the Big-Man

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PLEASE GO FOR DELIVERANCE FIRST BEFORE YOU TALK ABOUT COURTSHIP OR MARRIAGE.

u dont have problems @op.
just start wearing agbada especially when u know u intend to launch any such attack
even if ur manhood is horselike, it wont show its erectness in agbada rigalia

@OP, please try and upload the picture of that TIN denying you to approach woman.

Brb!!!