It has been registered and stapled in my brain. I will test a guy i suspect.

I accept the fact that people can change at anytime.

But layi, haven't you come across people who say, "but I trusted him so much"? That statement is in the past. That statement is made by people who believe whosoever can't betray them.

I know test is test whether you did it with your friend or not.but there is a huge difference.he woud'nt have the excuse of telling he fell for it because he loves you.

gina, I don't get your point. Could you expantiate?

@De-king
I got u right. My point still remains that testing (to me) is a useless venture because even if he/she passes the test before marriage. He/she could still fail after the wedding (maybe years later). Humans do/might change with time.

Just follow your heart. If u love him/her and u see the qualities u want in him/her. Go4dkil.

U never see where examiner dey fail test too?

@De-king what don't you understand.

gina34:

he woud'nt have the excuse of telling he fell for it because he loves you.

@ gina, that is what I don't understand. What do you really mean by that?

@layi, what if you suspect her 4 any reason?

That fellow must be the absolutely most stupid fellow on God's earth!

@De-King,
She's my girl so I'l know her too well. If i ever suspect her, I'll ask her whatz up.
If she's guilty, she wont be able to answer sum intelligent questions i'll throw.
I wont go through the stress of testin / settin up or whatever. It aint worth it.
That'll be my approach anyway but diff folks 4 diff people.

Even if she passes the test and later on found out u tested her (..a good possibilty). Then your relationship could start deceleratin. Why "rob peter to pay paul".

Layi now you're contradicting yourself. 1st you say people can change at anytime, 2nd you say she's your girl and you know her too well. When you know someone too well, then you can predict them but with your statement of people changing anytime, that's unpredictability.

I never said i know her so she wont flirt. Nah

I said i know her so i know how to get her. ok?

"Personality is same. Only acts can change"

Maybe your understandin was contradicting.

Nah..nah...nah... my understanding can never contradict. Whether you believe it or not, whichever way you know you'll get her it's still a test!

I don't really have to test my fiancee since relationship is all about [b]trust.[/b]So I will continue trusting her.

@De-king
Ask is never same as test.

O.k layi, what would you ask?

De-King. I guesss that's btw me and her. Questions will be prompted by Events.
Can't tell u what i'll ask.

May God help both of you.

What about, gina?

I would test everyone in hurr!


Today is my birthday, And, Whoever says the world doesn't evolve arround me is a liar, because today, It does. I am sixteen

@De-king you should say Amen to that,
than asking me question

I can't just say amen to what I don't know.

I see most people are of the right mind. While it may be ok to "test" someone, this is an INCREDIBLY STUPID test.

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Thank you Allonym.

DE-KING:

Nah, nah, nah, my understanding can never contradict. Whether you believe it or not, whichever way you know you'll get her it's still a test!

hey eveseh, i don't seem to get what you're trying to say with all those emoticons.

Deking, the guy you described is one hell of an idiot!

curiousNja:

Deking, the guy you described is one hell of an idiot!

And why did you say that if I may ask?

Why is everyone crucifying the guy simply because he did what he felt was right for him to do, 'just to be sure'? I don't seem to get it.

If you don't get it, that is a problem, my brother.
The test in itself was stupid and leaving her as a result of her sleeping with him, even more stupid.
Besides, let's say for  argument's sake that what the girl did was wrong, is he leaving someone he was so convinced before that he loved over one "mistake' which happens to be the fact that she decided to sleep with him?
And he draws the conclusion which is totally ridicuolous that if she decided to sleep with him, them it means that blah blah blah,   too stupid to repeat but you get the idea.

curiousNja, could please answer the question now by telling us whether or not you would test your fiance? It might not neccesarily be with sex, you know something just to be double sure. You never can tell.

No I won't.

i wld neva in a million years do dat!!!

I trust him and him me. So why would I want to do that ??