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Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by nitrogen(m): 4:34pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
esere826: (Post # 8 ) I quite agree with you on this, but wait! 'if' ex-corper doesn't get to the girl's anticipated level, especially when she's in her 'ember' levels in the university, that can trigger something else, or what do you think? The outcome invariably would be disastrous on our ex-corper's path, especially when it dawns on him that he just had a zero return on a 'short' term investment. 2 Likes |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by nitrogen(m): 4:38pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
tpia@: Like that of Kano state government? Mind you, are you trying to be on or off point? Maybe you need to go back to the first page (100level). Cheers. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by AjanleKoko: 4:40pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
nitrogen: Nah. You miss the point. The whole point of dating, in my view, is to understand the dynamic and improve one's perspective. Note, my view only. If for example, you have determined to get married at age 28, every relationship from when you start dating, till you settle on the final choice, is part of your 'education'. So, Mr Corper had better be 'investing' in this particular relationship so as to broaden his horizon, especially if he didn't have much experience prior to NYSC. I stand corrected, but the majority of guys roast during their school years. Some gals as well, but mostly guys. So it is in Mr Corper's best interest to date during his service year, so he can start to 'train' for the 'Big Event'. 2 Likes |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 4:41pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Ishilove:as wide off the mark as the north is from the south. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 4:43pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
AjanleKoko:you are a great realist. Nice response |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 4:45pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
esere826: Ajanlekoko made a fine point that reads just like meyour last pargraph is well put. One question though? What happens when you 'hammer'? Its gonna be either sideways or down then. Whatchu gonna do then? Edit. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by biolabee(m): 4:48pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
esere826: In Came Ify BONS |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by tpia5: 4:48pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
nitrogen: Like that of european and american governments. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by gnykelly(m): 4:52pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Ur thesis give reasons why politician, musician eg Tuface. Have women in droves after them |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by biolabee(m): 4:52pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
AjanleKoko: sweet..! a lot of cane choppers |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by blaise26abj(m): 4:58pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
esere826: Ok @ power scale. Well, we are all conditioned one way or the other so there will always be a pattern. Knowledge, humour, maturity and power (and an sign of steady increase in it) will always get you ladies. Especially power, it is tested and proven countless times (checkout solomon). In my opinion true love is when all these things are removed and the person is still subjected to such an intense affection. And this type can only be found in mother-child relationships. therefore i subscribe to your theory that "love" can be measured. 2 Likes |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by AjanleKoko: 4:59pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
biolabee: Ol boy. Everybody needs to train oh. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by biolabee(m): 5:01pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
AjanleKoko: I love your logical outputs |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by nitrogen(m): 5:03pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
AjanleKoko: Haa! Investment in all aspects or what? Don't you think investing in, with another's jewel by the corper is quite a waste of resources? Lol at 'big event'. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by esere826: 5:22pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
I will live Ajanlekoko to intimate readers on the corper strategy |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by esere826: 5:26pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
brokoto: your last pargraph is well put. One question though? What happens when you 'hammer'? Its gonna be either sideways or down then. Whatchu gonna do then? If Finance is ur own singular indices for mating power matrix When u hammer badly, the girls UP become those by the SIDEWAYs Those by the SIDEWAYS become those below U cld then aim for the 'stars' (literarily) as your new UP Beyonce comes to mind 1 Like |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 5:28pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
I think that what should most concern us is the impact that this phenomenon is having on the larger male dxxy demographic. Hordes of sex starved, frustrated angry guys out there, very angry just check this fellow's outburst: IamAthens: You are a foooooooooolllll. Its eida u do ashawo or wait 4 dangote et al pikin 2 kip u as a mistres. No go wrk 4 ur moni dey dia dy wait 4 man. @esere, you will advise they date paraga sellers? or perhaps truant secondary school girls? hmm...seems quite workable. A man's gotta handle his bidness. One way or another. 2 Likes |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by AjanleKoko: 5:32pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
esere826: I will live Ajanlekoko to Well, it's not a 'strategy' at all. Just a way out for brothers who 'lost out' when they were in Uni. Like you rightly pointed out, girls like to date upwards. So Mr Corper should take advantage, and go after uni or poly girls who live in his town of primary assignment. So he can quickly 'upskill' himself where women are concerned. That way, when he is unleashed unto the wider world, he can be better equipped to handle man-woman interaction. Just imagine a guy who had no babe all through uni, and also roasted during his NYSC, now getting a job in a nice bank in VI, where lots of nice bubbly chicks abound. It would be more like a fish drowning in water Minimal effort can be expended to get qualitative results. And there is enough room for trial and error 4 Likes |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by AjanleKoko: 5:34pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
BoboYekini: Paraga seller na bad news for uni graduate. You wanna 'wear the same trousers' as all the bus drivers and conductors around? A hooker would prolly take better care of herself than a paraga seller |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 5:37pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Double post. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 5:37pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
esere826:hammer in the sense I used it encompasses all the aspects indicated in your OPs. Lol @Beyounce. You didn't answer me specifically. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 5:42pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
AjanleKoko:Bros, but man must phuck na |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by AjanleKoko: 5:46pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
BoboYekini: . . . hold enough cash to treat various sometins |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by biolabee(m): 5:49pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
AjanleKoko: erudite!! BoboYekini: I think that what should most concern us is the impact that this phenomenon is having on the larger male dxxy demographic. Hordes of sex starved, frustrated angry guys out there, very angry That guy dey vex gan!!! |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by nitrogen(m): 6:04pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
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Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by nitrogen(m): 6:04pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
AjanleKoko: Gat no choice than to agree with you. Very well said! |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by fonssy(f): 6:35pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
@OP, you are a very intelligent guy. |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Ishilove: 6:55pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
atbu1983: Bro, your analysis is perfect. You must be an engineer or someone within physical sciences.He's a nuclear physicist |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Ishilove: 7:02pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
This has got to be by far one of the most intelligent threads on nairaland. Definitely not for the coconut headed |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Nobody: 7:22pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Ishilove:you just de go around NL calling out peoples careers abi? Amebo |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Ishilove: 7:30pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
brokoto: you just de go around NL calling out peoples careers abi? AmeboYou this male secretary, leave me abeg :-> |
Re: The Dwindling Pool Of Male Lovers In Nigeria -Love Ain't Blind by Matthewbriggs(m): 8:56pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
What a very smart analysis at OP, from you post I deduced the following. Your post should be called the "Desirability Quotient" Which states that. That the desirability of a man is directly proportional to Class and intelligence. While that of a woman is directly proportional to sex appeal and inversely proportional to Age. Given that the order of the present society remains constant. The set "Class" is made up of the following variables such as, financial status, age, education, sex appeal and family background. With financial status been the most important variable. It is to be noted that this quotient is used to determine desirability and possibility of you getting the one you Love or fancy to say yes to a relationship, but can not be trusted 100% to measure the possibility of finding true love. NB: Love can not be reduced to a formula it's a force that till 2moro defies logic, it can't be bought or manipulated by tweaking your desirability value. True love is is divine. Increasing your desirability can only help in getting you true love notice you or give you a chance. That been said. I keep on increasing my desirability Value, to make it easier for her to say yes, and give "US" a chance. Secondly in answer to the new dilemma faced by women who have discovered that the're is a short supply of desirable guys. They have 2 options which is either they lower their standards to a reasonable level and should'nth wait till their desirability quotient go down natural before doing so. Or they can keep contesting with the 90% women for the desirable 10%. #Matthew Briggs 2 Likes |
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