esere826: (Post # 8 )

Case Study Conclusions and Lessons Learned

1) When a girl is in her younger years in Uni, it might make sense to date corper level guys

-At this stage, she is still receiving support from dad and mum. Corper can share some of his allowee. By the time she is getting out of school, there is a greater probability that the guy is financially and mentally ready for marriage.

-Ladies, you will still be insulted by guys in uni for dating upwards. But no worry na so life be

I quite agree with you on this, but wait! 'if' ex-corper doesn't get to the girl's anticipated level, especially when she's in her 'ember' levels in the university, that can trigger something else, or what do you think?

The outcome invariably would be disastrous on our ex-corper's path, especially when it dawns on him that he just had a zero return on a 'short' term investment.

tpia@:
Topic

The govt has to get involved at some point, at both the local and national level.

Bring in husbands for the women.

I think they (govt) know what to do.

Dont just leave these things to babalawos and crime lords only

Like that of Kano state government?

Mind you, are you trying to be on or off point? Maybe you need to go back to the first page (100level).

Cheers.

nitrogen:

I quite agree with you on this, but wait! 'if' ex-corper doesn't get to the girl's anticipated level, especially when she's in her 'ember' levels in the university, that can trigger something else, or what do you think?

The outcome invariably would be disastrous on our ex-corper's path, especially when it dawns on him that he just had a zero return on a 'short' term investment.

Nah. You miss the point.
The whole point of dating, in my view, is to understand the dynamic and improve one's perspective. Note, my view only.
If for example, you have determined to get married at age 28, every relationship from when you start dating, till you settle on the final choice, is part of your 'education'.

So, Mr Corper had better be 'investing' in this particular relationship so as to broaden his horizon, especially if he didn't have much experience prior to NYSC. I stand corrected, but the majority of guys roast during their school years. Some gals as well, but mostly guys. So it is in Mr Corper's best interest to date during his service year, so he can start to 'train' for the 'Big Event'.

Ishilove:
Eric

as wide off the mark as the north is from the south.

AjanleKoko:

Nah. You miss the point.
The whole point of dating, in my view, is to understand the dynamic and improve one's perspective. Note, my view only.
If for example, you have determined to get married at age 28, every relationship from when you start dating, till you settle on the final choice, is part of your 'education'.

So, Mr Corper had better be 'investing' in this particular relationship so as to broaden his horizon, especially if he didn't have much experience prior to NYSC. I stand corrected, but the majority of guys roast during their school years. Some gals as well, but mostly guys. So it is in Mr Corper's best interest to date during his service year, so he can start to 'train' for the 'Big Event'.

you are a great realist. Nice response

esere826: Ajanlekoko made a fine point that reads just like me


I understand the dynamics of dating, but prefer stretching Upwards and Sideways
This would invariably mean that some chicks like their male counterparts would label me a gold digger
I dont player hate chicks when they diss me

I instead learn my lessons, improve my power value, dust my khaki and get ready for the next moutain climbing

your last pargraph is well put. One question though? What happens when you 'hammer'? Its gonna be either sideways or down then. Whatchu gonna do then?

Edit.

esere826: In Came Ify


Ify is 10 years younger than Paul -she was looking UP, UP to him in the Age range category of her power scale
Although he was out of work, she was a University Student still under the care of her comfortable parents
She was not under pressure to marry while stiil in uni -Putting Paul SIDEWAYS in finance
Pauls' big familly name must have also tickled her, pushing him UP in her power scale

Paul get sweet mouth and is extremely intelligent (afterall na him build the Rock Cathedral) -Pushing him UP in her intellectual power scale
Paul is widely travelled -UP in her adventurism power scale


For Paul, Ify's beauty would have put her in his UP power scale
Her pedigree (dad is a prof, mum German) would put her in his SIDEWAY power scale
Paul's mum and Ify's mum are both none nigerians -Gives them something to talk about and share)
Many other conditions would have been in the SIDEWAY to DOWN power scale from Paul's perspective
plus offcourse she could manage him. Afterall she was not in a hurry to go anywhere at that point in her life

With such perfect conditions
GBAM ....LOVE was in the air

BONS

nitrogen:

Like that of Kano state government?.

Like that of european and american governments.

Ur thesis give reasons why politician, musician eg Tuface. Have women in droves after them

AjanleKoko:

Nah. You miss the point.
The whole point of dating, in my view, is to understand the dynamic and improve one's perspective. Note, my view only.
If for example, you have determined to get married at age 28, every relationship from when you start dating, till you settle on the final choice, is part of your 'education'.

So, Mr Corper had better be 'investing' in this particular relationship so as to broaden his horizon, especially if he didn't have much experience prior to NYSC. I stand corrected, but the majority of guys roast during their school years. Some gals as well, but mostly guys. So it is in Mr Corper's best interest to date during his service year, so he can start to 'train' for the 'Big Event'.

sweet..! a lot of cane choppers

esere826:

I dont think I insinuated that
What I have continuosly pointed out is a 'power scale' that trigers 'reciprocal love'
Finance is only one member of this power scale

I once did a soul search (reflection) on love
by asking myself what are the characteristics of girls that I had so far "fallen crazy in love' with
I was amazed to find out that there was a pattern to this 'madness'

The next challenge was getting my 'type of girls' to 'love' me back

Ok @ power scale. Well, we are all conditioned one way or the other so there will always be a pattern. Knowledge, humour, maturity and power (and an sign of steady increase in it) will always get you ladies. Especially power, it is tested and proven countless times (checkout solomon). In my opinion true love is when all these things are removed and the person is still subjected to such an intense affection. And this type can only be found in mother-child relationships. therefore i subscribe to your theory that "love" can be measured.

biolabee:

sweet..! a lot of cane choppers

Ol boy. Everybody needs to train oh.

AjanleKoko:

Ol boy. Everybody needs to train oh.

I love your logical outputs

AjanleKoko:
So, Mr Corper had better be 'investing' in this particular relationship so as to broaden his horizon, especially if he didn't have much experience prior to NYSC. I stand corrected, but the majority of guys roast during their school years. Some gals as well, but mostly guys. So it is in Mr Corper's best interest to date during his service year, so he can start to 'train' for the 'Big Event'.

Haa! Investment in all aspects or what? Don't you think investing in, with another's jewel by the corper is quite a waste of resources?

Lol at 'big event'.

I will live Ajanlekoko to
intimate readers on the corper strategy

brokoto: your last pargraph is well put. One question though? What happens when you 'hammer'? Its gonna be either sideways or down then. Whatchu gonna do then?

Edit.

If Finance is ur own singular indices for mating power matrix

When u hammer badly, the girls UP become those by the SIDEWAYs
Those by the SIDEWAYS become those below

U cld then aim for the 'stars' (literarily) as your new UP
Beyonce comes to mind

I think that what should most concern us is the impact that this phenomenon is having on the larger male dxxy demographic. Hordes of sex starved, frustrated angry guys out there, very angry
just check this fellow's outburst:

IamAthens: You are a foooooooooolllll. Its eida u do ashawo or wait 4 dangote et al pikin 2 kip u as a mistres. No go wrk 4 ur moni dey dia dy wait 4 man.

@esere, you will advise they date paraga sellers? or perhaps truant secondary school girls? hmm...seems quite workable. A man's gotta handle his bidness. One way or another.

esere826: I will live Ajanlekoko to
intimate readers on the corper strategy

Well, it's not a 'strategy' at all. Just a way out for brothers who 'lost out' when they were in Uni.

Like you rightly pointed out, girls like to date upwards. So Mr Corper should take advantage, and go after uni or poly girls who live in his town of primary assignment. So he can quickly 'upskill' himself where women are concerned.

That way, when he is unleashed unto the wider world, he can be better equipped to handle man-woman interaction. Just imagine a guy who had no babe all through uni, and also roasted during his NYSC, now getting a job in a nice bank in VI, where lots of nice bubbly chicks abound. It would be more like a fish drowning in water

Minimal effort can be expended to get qualitative results. And there is enough room for trial and error

BoboYekini:
@esere, you will advise they date paraga sellers? or perhaps truant secondary school girls? hmm...seems quite workable. A man's gotta handle his bidness. One way or another.

Paraga seller na bad news for uni graduate. You wanna 'wear the same trousers' as all the bus drivers and conductors around? A hooker would prolly take better care of herself than a paraga seller

Double post.

esere826:

If Finance is ur own singular indices for mating power matrix

When u hammer badly, the girls UP become those by the SIDEWAYs
Those by the SIDEWAYS become those below

U cld then aim for the 'stars' (literarily) as your new UP
Beyonce comes to mind

hammer in the sense I used it encompasses all the aspects indicated in your OPs.

Lol @Beyounce. You didn't answer me specifically.

AjanleKoko:

Paraga seller na bad news for uni graduate. You wanna 'wear the same trousers' as all the bus drivers and conductors around? A hooker would prolly take better care of herself than a paraga seller

Bros, but man must phuck na

BoboYekini:
Bros, but man must phuck na

. . . hold enough cash to treat various sometins

AjanleKoko:

Well, it's not a 'strategy' at all. Just a way out for brothers who 'lost out' when they were in Uni.

Like you rightly pointed out, girls like to date upwards. So Mr Corper should take advantage, and go after uni or poly girls who live in his town of primary assignment. So he can quickly 'upskill' himself where women are concerned.

That way, when he is unleashed unto the wider world, he can be better equipped to handle man-woman interaction. Just imagine a guy who had no babe all through uni, and also roasted during his NYSC, now getting a job in a nice bank in VI, where lots of nice bubbly chicks abound. It would be more like a fish drowning in water

Minimal effort can be expended to get qualitative results. And there is enough room for trial and error

erudite!!

BoboYekini: I think that what should most concern us is the impact that this phenomenon is having on the larger male dxxy demographic. Hordes of sex starved, frustrated angry guys out there, very angry
just check this fellow's outburst:


@esere, you will advise they date paraga sellers? or perhaps truant secondary school girls? hmm...seems quite workable. A man's gotta handle his bidness. One way or another.

That guy dey vex gan!!!

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AjanleKoko:

Well, it's not a 'strategy' at all. Just a way out for brothers who 'lost out' when they were in Uni.

Like you rightly pointed out, girls like to date upwards. So Mr Corper should take advantage, and go after uni or poly girls who live in his town of primary assignment. So he can quickly 'upskill' himself where women are concerned.

That way, when he is unleashed unto the wider world, he can be better equipped to handle man-woman interaction. Just imagine a guy who had no babe all through uni, and also roasted during his NYSC, now getting a job in a nice bank in VI, where lots of nice bubbly chicks abound. It would be more like a fish drowning in water

Minimal effort can be expended to get qualitative results. And there is enough room for trial and error

Gat no choice than to agree with you. Very well said!

@OP, you are a very intelligent guy.

atbu1983: Bro, your analysis is perfect. You must be an engineer or someone within physical sciences.

He's a nuclear physicist

This has got to be by far one of the most intelligent threads on nairaland. Definitely not for the coconut headed

Ishilove:
He's a nuclear physicist

you just de go around NL calling out peoples careers abi? Amebo

brokoto: you just de go around NL calling out peoples careers abi? Amebo

You this male secretary, leave me abeg :->

What a very smart analysis at OP, from you post I deduced the following.
Your post should be called the "Desirability Quotient"

Which states that.
That the desirability of a man is directly proportional to Class and intelligence. While that of a woman is directly proportional to sex appeal and inversely proportional to Age. Given that the order of the present society remains constant.

The set "Class" is made up of the following variables such as, financial status, age, education, sex appeal and family background. With financial status been the most important variable.

It is to be noted that this quotient is used to determine desirability and possibility of you getting the one you Love or fancy to say yes to a relationship, but can not be trusted 100% to measure the possibility of finding true love.

NB: Love can not be reduced to a formula it's a force that till 2moro defies logic, it can't be bought or manipulated by tweaking your desirability value. True love is is divine.

Increasing your desirability can only help in getting you true love notice you or give you a chance.

That been said. I keep on increasing my desirability Value, to make it easier for her to say yes, and give "US" a chance.

Secondly in answer to the new dilemma faced by women who have discovered that the're is a short supply of desirable guys. They have 2 options which is either they lower their standards to a reasonable level and should'nth wait till their desirability quotient go down natural before doing so. Or they can keep contesting with the 90% women for the desirable 10%.

#Matthew Briggs