tpia@:


if you collect nookie in lieu of money, na you be maga o.

which kind yeye "show of appreciation" be that.

there's nothing wrong with her bringing the money to you in full view of the public, or is she a spirit who must not be seen in daytime?

armyofone:

true, also guys should not use provocative dressing.

nwababy: @OP,this na jist.I hope you really mean what you have posted if not,God is watching you on plasma tv.The percentage of faithful married men are so few that you can't count but,I believe we have good men out there.All I know is that I can't count the numbers of married men that i have encounter with that doesn't ask me out.(They are lucky they met a girl like me cos anybody that goes to fetch an ant infected wood welcomes ant)If you ask them for a favor like helping you get a job,na there u don find trouble.Does it mean they weren't favored with jobs by their friends?can they ask their follow men for sex in exchange for job?Men have this at the back of your mind whatever you sow in this planet earth so shall you reap.@OP don't just go there because the ratio of promiscous men to hawky girls are 10:3 period.

armyofone:

true, also guys should not use provocative dressing.

stillwater:

Buhahaha. All those tight pants that 'insinuate' a bulge. . .lol

jidegirl12:

I'm just dishing my sincere advice here, gotta problem wif that? And besides who's chasing who? I thought OP case is the reverse.

Extreme measure? Don't ask me , ask those girls who are desperate ( juju & likes) to leech on ' made' married men for material things and possibly be a baby mama.

32-D:
@hectorex stolen meat tastes better and that is why single ladies find married men extra attractive....even some of us single guys have decided to be putting on wedding rings, and the reception we get has been immensely huge

hectortex: They are everywhere. Mostly subtle moves I'd definitely recognise for what it is (heck I was once in the game) to the overtly brazen gestures and expressions.
I cant remember how many times I'd had to remind some of them am married and so couldnt call them or recieve their calls especially at the odd hours. Even with a ring permanently on ma finger anytime am out and a ring mark you cant miss when it isnt there, they'd flirt around you with those coquettish moves(especially when you are young and successful) that even a blind man knows what it is.
Just yesterday, a colleague that took a loan from me to execute a job in a show of appreciation invited me to her hotel room to pay the interests. Guess weare supposed to pray there.
It takes a lot of control for a guy to be faithful to a gf talk more of a wife, please do not make it impossible. when you girls see us with our ring, it means we are really trying to make it work with our wives. Its not wrong to appreciate us but do not tempt us before we 'ruin your future'.

P.S: This is not common to all girls. There are still decent ones who treats with us with such decorum who wouldnt (or appear to) be inclined to any affair once the guy is hooked.

nwababy: @OP,this na jist.I hope you really mean what you have posted if not,God is watching you on plasma tv.The percentage of faithful married men are so few that you can't count but,I believe we have good men out there.All I know is that I can't count the numbers of married men that i have encountered with that doesn't ask me out.(They are lucky they met a girl like me cos anybody that goes to fetch an ant infected wood welcomes ant)If you ask them for a favor like helping you get a job,na there u don find trouble.Does it mean they weren't favored with jobs by their friends?can they ask their follow men for sex in exchange for job?Men have this at the back of your mind whatever you sow in this planet earth so shall you reap.@OP don't just go there because the ratio of promiscous men to hawky girls are 10:3 period.

tpia@:


if you collect nookie in lieu of money, na you be maga o.

which kind yeye "show of appreciation" be that.

there's nothing wrong with her bringing the money to you in full view of the public, or is she a spirit who must not be seen in daytime?

armyofone:

one question for the OP , maybe she saw you in such places in the past collecting your money ?

biolabee:

no wahala.. its your prerogative
but can you pour acid on a woman chasing after you men.. God forbid but say it happened in an alternate universe

surprising you are saying this considering married men are demonised set of people

jidegirl12:

Biola my reply is based on the frame of reference of this thread which is OP 's situation ( in his shoes)

^^^@ bolded I think you're drunk or hungover , where have you seen any of my posts demonizing sane married men? You're mixed up man.

Front page?? again??

platinumricky: Lemme guess, the op belongs to the 'DYY' group...

debrief08: Really shameful I must say how low our values are. Sadly most of us will still act this way and go to church aand shout the loudest.
However, you must remember that these girls have nothing at stake, most case they just want money, you on the other hand took a vow before God to Love, care, protect your wife and share your body with her alone.
You are the one with a wife who will get hurt, you are the one who may pick up a disease and infect your wife, you are the one with kids looking up to you for moral guidance, you are the one who will have to squeeze money from family savings to meet insatiable needs of a leech,
You are the one who who have to forfit family time when you should be bonding and laughing with your kids to sneak around with someone with no morals or values.
I say well done to all married men who stop and think and say No, I know how hard it is to stay faithful in a society where cheating seems to be a well acceptable norm.
There is no prize for how much you can hurt or betray your wife by falling in to the trap of various affairs, there is a prize from God nd your wife for staying strong in the midst of temptation.

A honest faithful husband will be worship by his wife, she will carry him like a crown and do all she can to make him happy because he has loved her enough to respect her heart, life and body.

To the ladies who go about insulting and targetting obviously married men, toh just be careful, it may look like fun and games now but others are getting hurt and crying from your actions.
It still pays to be nice and decent to work hard and earn your way through life. Its still right to be able to hold your head high without following the crowd.
That phone, car or wig may give you temporary joy but be careful, that is someones school fees and God is watching.

May God bless faithful, honest open husbands, Husbands whose love and support we can always count on.

swiftycool: Like I said in the past. The wedding ring which is expected to ward of those parasitic home breakers actually succeeds most times in doing the opposite I.e attracting them.

Don't be deceived most of the play about single ladies actually prefer aristo runs which means you- Mr stable married man, coupled with the fact that you have somehow become more matured in handling situations, are more caring and responsible plus they intend to compete with ur wife who might have started gaining weight or is not as flashy as b4 due to home duties etc.

If u doubt it try it, even single guys are using wedding rings to attract gullible greedy girls, the ring on a young rich handsome guy is definitely a conversation starter 4 such ladies.

biolabee: Ok..
#siddonlook

Grumbling - See what tashamania and co and caused

biolabee: Ok..
#siddonlook

Grumbling - See what tashamania and co and caused

chidyhels: I saw dis coming...

Toktee: My happiness iz the presence of lady TASHAMANIA on line

Tashamania: Like seriously?! ROTFLOL! My tommy hurts!