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Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by armyofone(m): 3:35pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
tpia@: one question for the OP , maybe she saw you in such places in the past collecting your money ? 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by mawuqueyan(f): 3:36pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
armyofone: |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by tpia5: 3:41pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
nwababy: @OP,this na jist.I hope you really mean what you have posted if not,God is watching you on plasma tv.The percentage of faithful married men are so few that you can't count but,I believe we have good men out there.All I know is that I can't count the numbers of married men that i have encounter with that doesn't ask me out.(They are lucky they met a girl like me cos anybody that goes to fetch an ant infected wood welcomes ant)If you ask them for a favor like helping you get a job,na there u don find trouble.Does it mean they weren't favored with jobs by their friends?can they ask their follow men for sex in exchange for job?Men have this at the back of your mind whatever you sow in this planet earth so shall you reap.@OP don't just go there because the ratio of promiscous men to hawky girls are 10:3 period. most women in nigeria arent used to the notion of how things generally work in advanced countries. Thus there's the mindset of every man wanting sex in exchange for other "favours". Helping someone get a job is considered a favour which is expected to be repaid with sex. The men also have this same mentality. in a functional society, there are laws which expressly make it possible for women and minorities to get jobs without giving out sex and/or bribes in return. imo, the ratio of promiscuous girls equals and possibly surpasses that of men. |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by SisiKill1: 3:48pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
armyofone: stillwater: Bwahahahaha!! True Dat!! |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Nobody: 3:52pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
lol Revenge topic |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by nairaman66(m): 4:07pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
This is one of the most sensible threads that ever graced the Front Page! Indeed girls these days are practising TERRORISM in MATERIALISM. Kudos 2 all the wonderful girls/ladies who have good discipline, but I still believe we all get the chance to live even if we are dead wrong in some issues.. I am still searching ooO!! 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by biolabee(m): 4:09pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
jidegirl12: no wahala.. its your prerogative but can you pour acid on a woman chasing after you men.. God forbid but say it happened in an alternate universe surprising you are saying this considering married men are demonised set of people |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by 32D: 4:10pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
@hectorex stolen meat tastes better and that is why single ladies find married men extra attractive....even some of us single guys have decided to be putting on wedding rings, and the reception we get has been immensely huge 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Nobody: 4:15pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Personally, I see nothing wrong in having a bit of a fling now and then. Most girls that play the game understand the rules. In fact, I'd wager they exclusively target married men for that reason - the affair is torrid and short-lived, just the way they like it. Ain't no husband snatchers these days abeg, no time. Embrace the quickie age. |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Nobody: 4:15pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
32-D:true true |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by kekilika: 4:15pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
im loving all your comments. Pros and cons. Keep it coming. |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Nobody: 4:18pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
hectortex: They are everywhere. Mostly subtle moves I'd definitely recognise for what it is (heck I was once in the game) to the overtly brazen gestures and expressions. [size=18pt]MAYBE YOU ARE OVER-HANDSOME[/size] |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Mystery11(m): 4:18pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
nwababy: @OP,this na jist.I hope you really mean what you have posted if not,God is watching you on plasma tv.The percentage of faithful married men are so few that you can't count but,I believe we have good men out there.All I know is that I can't count the numbers of married men that i have encountered with that doesn't ask me out.(They are lucky they met a girl like me cos anybody that goes to fetch an ant infected wood welcomes ant)If you ask them for a favor like helping you get a job,na there u don find trouble.Does it mean they weren't favored with jobs by their friends?can they ask their follow men for sex in exchange for job?Men have this at the back of your mind whatever you sow in this planet earth so shall you reap.@OP don't just go there because the ratio of promiscous men to hawky girls are 10:3 period. I think you have a valid point here.Most times before a girl will be eyeing a married guy, the guy must have flirted with the girl. Actually,at times,a girl could like a married guy and shows him that she does but most times, the guy must have toyed with the girl's emotion and started backing off,hence the poster's scenario comes in The OP could be right but it is not always all that common.You must have shown a ''little'' harmless interest A very close friend is in that situation but he is very principled.He started the flirting first 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by hectortex: 4:28pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
tpia@: haba i wasnt a maga before, cant be one now. she paid the principal but wanted the 'appreciation' inside the hotel room. |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Okeyson4wisdom(m): 4:29pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
My Advice to all married men and women is that they should put God first in anything they do. Remember he says that the bed of a marriage is holy and it should remain undefiled. Put God first and he will reward you 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by hectortex: 4:30pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
armyofone: Do you mean like been in a hotel it wasnt in a hotel she came to collect the loan. |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Nobody: 4:36pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
biolabee: Biola my reply is based on the frame of reference of this thread which is OP 's situation ( in his shoes) ^^^@ bolded I think you're drunk or hungover , where have you seen any of my posts demonizing sane married men? You're mixed up man. Front page?? again?? |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by biolabee(m): 4:45pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
jidegirl12: ok.. fare well.. too easy for you to launch into abuses sha,,, tragic |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by swiftycool(m): 5:02pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Like I said in the past. The wedding ring which is expected to ward of those parasitic home breakers actually succeeds most times in doing the opposite I.e attracting them. Don't be deceived most of the play about single ladies actually prefer aristo runs which means you- Mr stable married man, coupled with the fact that you have somehow become more matured in handling situations, are more caring and responsible plus they intend to compete with ur wife who might have started gaining weight or is not as flashy as b4 due to home duties etc. If u doubt it try it, even single guys are using wedding rings to attract gullible greedy girls, the ring on a young rich handsome guy is definitely a conversation starter 4 such ladies. |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Nobody: 5:07pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
na u sabi |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Nobody: 5:09pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Lemme guess, the op belongs to the 'DYY' group... |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by hectortex: 5:11pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
platinumricky: Lemme guess, the op belongs to the 'DYY' group... which is |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Pennywise(m): 5:25pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
So much storm in a tea cup. The OP's rumination is an inevitable part of the emotional struggle every married man has to face at some point. Remember that technically its not an affair if you use condom. So, make sure. |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Birdmanjnr(m): 6:02pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
debrief08: Really shameful I must say how low our values are. Sadly most of us will still act this way and go to church aand shout the loudest.its easily said than done. Ur on point anyway. |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Nobody: 6:08pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
swiftycool: Like I said in the past. The wedding ring which is expected to ward of those parasitic home breakers actually succeeds most times in doing the opposite I.e attracting them.I WAS ABOUT TO SAY SOMETHING. BUT U SAID IT ALL BROTHER |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Nobody: 6:14pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Like seriously?! ROTFLOL! My tommy hurts! |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Toktee(m): 6:19pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
biolabee: Ok..post of the month |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Toktee(m): 6:20pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
biolabee: Ok..topic of the month |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Nobody: 6:20pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
chidyhels: I saw dis coming... Seriously now someone wanna be like the famous 'Tashamania' This is either biolabee's or coogar's alternate account Never under-estimate the power of a woman |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Toktee(m): 6:24pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
My happiness iz the presence of lady TASHAMANIA on line |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Nobody: 6:26pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Toktee: My happiness iz the presence of lady TASHAMANIA on line What more can I say? I'll just take a seat and watch the never-ending drama on nairaland |
Re: Dealing With Pressures From Single Girls by Toktee(m): 6:26pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Tashamania: Like seriously?! ROTFLOL! My tommy hurts!maybe ........ |
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