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7 Women You Should Never Date by Giftedgreen: 8:19am On Apr 28, 2013
Some things are better left untouched and some women are better left single. No matter how inviting and perfect any of these women seem, you should try your best and keep your distance, you will thank us later.

We are going to give you a list of women you should not date and you should remember that to every rule, there is an exception.
In general, stay away from these women if and when you come across any of them.

1- Your Best Friend's Sister
This rarely goes well, be it in Nollywood, Hollywood or real life. Remember Tony Montana in Scarface? To the girls it is not a big deal to go out with their brother’s friend, but guys remember, it is not a good idea, and make sure you do not allow the ladies folks lure you into such a relationship.
Guys, your friend does not want you close to his sister probably because he knows your mode of operation and he does not want his sister to become a name in your hall of fame. Besides that, would it not be awkward for you to start sharing relationship details with your girlfriend’s brother
Remember, if you are really serious, talk to your friend about it first. And even if he approves, be ready to lose that friendship. You win the girl and lose a friend
Worst case scenario, you break her heart and you get into a fight with your best friend, you lose the girl and a friend.

2- The ex-girlfriend
There is a reason why she is your ex, you should never forget that. You might be tempted go back to your ex whenever you are bored, lonely or Hot.
As a rule, you never go back to your ex-girlfriends. It is like the proverbial going back to your vomit.
You might start to get nostalgic and all, but you should remember that there was a reason she is in your past and that should be the same reason she should remain there.

3- 6- The high-maintenance piranha
If your income is trailing behind her needs then it would be a good idea to tie up your shoe lace and run for your dear life and money. At first, you might kid yourself into thinking that as time goes by her needs are going to dwindle. You continue to kid yourself until you realize that her goal of this girl is to bankrupt your future.
It is almost impossible to have a relationship without spending money, but if her love for you is going to be on a per-second-billing then you should also know that you will be disconnected when you run out of “airtime” and she is going to “port” to the next guy with the most cash.

4- Your co-worker

Your co-worker is one girl that should not be on your radar when searching for a relationship.

You could lose your job because of this girl and she might dump you three days you were fired for having an affair with her. There is also the risk that you two might get carried away and indulge in acts meant for the bedroom, with the hopes that you won’t be caught.

Even if you do not get fired because of her, you might create unnecessary enemies, especially when she is hot and everybody wants her, including your boss.

She is also going to be a huge source of distraction. There is also going to be that awkward week/month that you would have to endure after you break up with her.

And just in case she is the boss’ daughter, it is a huge no-no

5- In a relationship
When a girl is already in a relationship before you meet her, the best thing for you is to leave her alone. There is no way it is going to turn out good.
If a girl is in a relationship before you met her, and she still agrees to date you, what does that tell you? Yes, she is not the faithful type and definitely not a keeper.
If she is in a relationship and refused to go out with you because she is in a relationship, then that is a trait you should admire, too bad she is not faithful to you. And you should not wait by the corner waiting for another man’s relationship to crash.
Even if you decide to be just friends, you already like her, and might put her relationship with the other guy in jeopardy.

6- Narcissist
Everybody girl deserves some attention from her lover (to show her that you love her). Some girls just think that the world is a stage and they are the star. When she talks, she wants everybody to listen, when she is in trouble, everybody should console her. She wants to be the center of your life, having no regard for your sibling, parents, friends and sometimes even your job. She is ready to anything for special attention; cry, play victim, lie, just about anything. As long as you supply her with an unending supply of attention she if okay.
At first, you would be flattered that you mean so much to somebody and then she would begin to sap the living being out of you, the stress would make look twice your age and if you do not get away from such a girl in time, you might just visit your ancestors a lot earlier than you planned.

7- The Underage
It does not matter how big the girl appears, or how matured she seems. As long as a girl is below 18 in Nigeria, she is clearly off limits. Except of course, your picture in a National Newspaper and a jail sentence sounds like fun to you.
When in doubt about her age, ask her or people that really know her. Now how can you read our blog if you are in prison?
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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Nobody: 9:02am On Apr 28, 2013
I dey come make i tell my Oga @d Top

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by kenny1795(m): 9:13am On Apr 28, 2013
U r so on point but on d part of goin bak 2 an ex shldnt b among becoz t dependz on d cause of d brk-up.

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Giftedgreen: 9:28am On Apr 28, 2013
kenny1795: U r so on point but on d part of goin bak 2 an ex shldnt b among becoz t dependz on d cause of d brk-up.

Thank you, your feed back is apreciated
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Aklofs: 9:30am On Apr 28, 2013
Just 7?wait i go kom add 63 more 2 make it distinction.
8:your mama
9:ya grandmama
10:ya elda sista
11:ya younga sista
12:ya uncle's dota....
Watch out 4 part 2.

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by zugoboss(m): 10:14am On Apr 28, 2013
So on point. FP pls!

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by SLIDEwaxie(m): 10:15am On Apr 28, 2013
U got the number 6 sooooo right!
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Caracta(f): 11:04am On Apr 28, 2013
I totally agree with the OP, but there are exceptions to that of co-worker and ex- girlfriend.
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Nobody: 11:19am On Apr 28, 2013
Dating a co-worker?hmm dats a disaster,nearly lost my job due to envy when a relationship with a co-worker went sour!she was a topshot in our Human resources dept,so when we broke up n i began dating another of my co-worker(in d Accounts dept of D.P.R)all hell was let loose!

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Giftedgreen: 11:52am On Apr 28, 2013
Rolly83: Dating a co-worker?hmm dats a disaster,nearly lost my job due to envy when a relationship with a co-worker went sour!she was a topshot in our Human resources dept,so when we broke up n i began dating another of my co-worker(in d Accounts dept of D.P.R)all hell was let loose!
Lol. Lesson learnt, i guess
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by GraceBestowed(f): 12:10pm On Apr 28, 2013
LooL, see serious coaching!
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Gabrielsylar(m): 12:13pm On Apr 28, 2013
Nessafresh and rokiatu
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Akshow: 12:14pm On Apr 28, 2013
Plus including gal wey over like money. Buy me this buy me that. Once a guy toast dem, the next thing na to open account for him head.

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Nobody: 12:18pm On Apr 28, 2013
9ice one made sense
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by PBeni(m): 12:21pm On Apr 28, 2013
Be right back...
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by lincoln08541(m): 12:21pm On Apr 28, 2013
you should also not date ur friends ex-girlfriend,u will lose dat friendship and dat girl is a bad news,cos she is shameless

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Chimerase(m): 12:22pm On Apr 28, 2013
I dnt wnt 2 say one tin nw, n u misaquote me

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by nikkyshyne(f): 12:24pm On Apr 28, 2013
Rolly83: Dating a co-worker?hmm dats a disaster,nearly lost my job due to envy when a relationship with a co-worker went sour!she was a topshot in our Human resources dept,so when we broke up n i began dating another of my co-worker(in d Accounts dept of D.P.R)all hell was let loose!
lol. You sef your eyes dey shook shook
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by markpenk: 12:24pm On Apr 28, 2013
Lol... this one cracked me up grin grin grin grin grin

Giftedgreen:
It is almost impossible to have a relationship without spending money, but if her love for you is going to be on a per-second-billing then you should also know that you will be disconnected when you run out of “airtime” and she is going to [b]“port” [/b]to the next guy with the most cash.

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by OkikiOluwa1(m): 12:25pm On Apr 28, 2013
Lol @Askhow. E be like say u don fall victim of those hungry talakanaire dirty girls. All they think of is how u ll give them money 4 dz or dat after few days of courtship. Some ll even take u 4 a maga & not open dr leg. God 4bid bad biz.

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by passionate88: 12:28pm On Apr 28, 2013
7 categories of women..

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Nobody: 12:30pm On Apr 28, 2013
OP I dnt agree with numba1
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by librangyps(f): 12:30pm On Apr 28, 2013
This can also be applied to guys. I dated a narcissist once and I tell ya, it drained me psychologically... A definite no no

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Asemo11(m): 12:31pm On Apr 28, 2013
7- The Underage. Abeg tell my bayelsa men make dem hear

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by gbogboti: 12:31pm On Apr 28, 2013
You too try op. I so hate girls who lack good home training and share courtesy. I had one crazy one like that. I noticed she liked my money and was fond of telling me buy something for me oooo. After a few weeks, I told her I had lost my job. Not minding my "said condition", she kept asking me to help her family with a balance of their house rent. I made her realize that she was stupid for asking me about money despite what I was going through...seeing the prospects in me...she begged and started behaving normal. Now she comes, we eat we straf grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin...not knowing that i have written her off. I know how to treat them the right way....

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Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Enegod(m): 12:32pm On Apr 28, 2013
on point
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by bookface: 12:33pm On Apr 28, 2013
Giftedgreen:
7- The Underage
It does not matter how big the girl appears, or how matured she seems. As long as a girl is below 18 in Nigeria, she is clearly off limits. Except of course, your picture in a National Newspaper and a jail sentence sounds like fun to you.
When in doubt about her age, ask her or people that really know her. Now how can you read our blog if you are in prison?
If you like this article, then you should thank the writer by sharing it on one of the social networks below. Your participation is highly appreciated


If a serving Nigerian Senator can marry an underage, what makes it unlawful for the rest of us?

Clearly you haven't met Senator Sani Yerima, the 49 year old child phocker?


Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Sike(m): 12:35pm On Apr 28, 2013
SLIDE waxie: U got the number 6 sooooo right!
But Got the number 5 so wrong. Don't ask me why?
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Odunharry(m): 12:36pm On Apr 28, 2013
kenny1795: U r so on point but on d part of goin bak 2 an ex shldnt b among becoz t dependz on d cause of d brk-up.
u dn talk ma mind
Re: 7 Women You Should Never Date by Isaacsamuel: 12:37pm On Apr 28, 2013
Giftedgreen:
Some things are better left untouched and some women are better left single. No matter how inviting and perfect any of these women seem, you should try your best and keep your distance, you will thank us later.

We are going to give you a list of women you should not date and you should remember that to every rule, there is an exception.
In general, stay away from these women if and when you come across any of them.

1- Your Best Friend's Sister
This rarely goes well, be it in Nollywood, Hollywood or real life. Remember Tony Montana in Scarface? To the girls it is not a big deal to go out with their brother’s friend, but guys remember, it is not a good idea, and make sure you do not allow the ladies folks lure you into such a relationship.
Guys, your friend does not want you close to his sister probably because he knows your mode of operation and he does not want his sister to become a name in your hall of fame. Besides that, would it not be awkward for you to start sharing relationship details with your girlfriend’s brother
Remember, if you are really serious, talk to your friend about it first. And even if he approves, be ready to lose that friendship. You win the girl and lose a friend
Worst case scenario, you break her heart and you get into a fight with your best friend, you lose the girl and a friend.

2- The ex-girlfriend
There is a reason why she is your ex, you should never forget that. You might be tempted go back to your ex whenever you are bored, lonely or Hot.
As a rule, you never go back to your ex-girlfriends. It is like the proverbial going back to your vomit.
You might start to get nostalgic and all, but you should remember that there was a reason she is in your past and that should be the same reason she should remain there.

3- 6- The high-maintenance piranha
If your income is trailing behind her needs then it would be a good idea to tie up your shoe lace and run for your dear life and money. At first, you might kid yourself into thinking that as time goes by her needs are going to dwindle. You continue to kid yourself until you realize that her goal of this girl is to bankrupt your future.
It is almost impossible to have a relationship without spending money, but if her love for you is going to be on a per-second-billing then you should also know that you will be disconnected when you run out of “airtime” and she is going to “port” to the next guy with the most cash.

4- Your co-worker

Your co-worker is one girl that should not be on your radar when searching for a relationship.

You could lose your job because of this girl and she might dump you three days you were fired for having an affair with her. There is also the risk that you two might get carried away and indulge in acts meant for the bedroom, with the hopes that you won’t be caught.

Even if you do not get fired because of her, you might create unnecessary enemies, especially when she is hot and everybody wants her, including your boss.

She is also going to be a huge source of distraction. There is also going to be that awkward week/month that you would have to endure after you break up with her.

And just in case she is the boss’ daughter, it is a huge no-no

5- In a relationship
When a girl is already in a relationship before you meet her, the best thing for you is to leave her alone. There is no way it is going to turn out good.
If a girl is in a relationship before you met her, and she still agrees to date you, what does that tell you? Yes, she is not the faithful type and definitely not a keeper.
If she is in a relationship and refused to go out with you because she is in a relationship, then that is a trait you should admire, too bad she is not faithful to you. And you should not wait by the corner waiting for another man’s relationship to crash.
Even if you decide to be just friends, you already like her, and might put her relationship with the other guy in jeopardy.

6- Narcissist
Everybody girl deserves some attention from her lover (to show her that you love her). Some girls just think that the world is a stage and they are the star. When she talks, she wants everybody to listen, when she is in trouble, everybody should console her. She wants to be the center of your life, having no regard for your sibling, parents, friends and sometimes even your job. She is ready to anything for special attention; cry, play victim, lie, just about anything. As long as you supply her with an unending supply of attention she if okay.
At first, you would be flattered that you mean so much to somebody and then she would begin to sap the living being out of you, the stress would make look twice your age and if you do not get away from such a girl in time, you might just visit your ancestors a lot earlier than you planned.

7- The Underage
It does not matter how big the girl appears, or how matured she seems. As long as a girl is below 18 in Nigeria, she is clearly off limits. Except of course, your picture in a National Newspaper and a jail sentence sounds like fun to you.
When in doubt about her age, ask her or people that really know her. Now how can you read our blog if you are in prison?
If you like this article, then you should thank the writer by sharing it on one of the social networks below. Your participation is highly appreciated

http://giftedgreen.com/content/?q=women-you-should-never-date

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