please advice me, before i loose my mind

I COULD EXPLAIN WHAT IT IS IF You WANT FUTHER ANALYSIS. sO TELL ME WHAT DO I DO TO MAKE HER STOP?

If your girlfriend is treating you like toxic waste. . .what are you still doing in the relationship

iice:

If your girlfriend is treating you like toxic waste. . .what are you still doing in the relationship?

flirt69:

? WELL, I JUST DIDNT WANT TO TAKE ANY HASTY DECISIONS, SO I THOUGHT ITS WISE I GAVE HER SOME MORE TIME TO SEE IF SHE COULD TURN ON A NEW LEAF BUT SHE JUST WONT CHANGE.

flirt69:

the issue is that she keeps hanging out  with this guy, it was my friend that spotted them out in one coded spot and he called and told me, thinking it was she and myself but i pretended i knew about it and when i asked her, she said she went for a drink with an old school mate, whom she has not seen for a long time, and even at that, i do deserve the t=right to knoow whom she was hanging out with. the same thing happened again, with same person, i asked her again and she said there was nothing between them but how come she doesn't tell me anything, if she's got nothing to hide. i've told her severally that i am not comfortable with these old school mate arrangement but she wont listen. if you were in my shoes, what would you do?? this has happened three times after i told her to stop.

iice:

Your story is evolving. . .
Please give us the full story so that someone can advice you properly,

flirt69:

I recently read an article, which says that love is entirely a matter of chemistry, hmmm, no wonder. That must be the reason why my girlfriend treats me like a toxic waste. please advice me,  before i loose my mind

the issue is that she keeps hanging out with this guy, it was my friend that spotted them out in one coded spot and he called and told me, thinking it was she and myself but i pretended i knew about it and when i asked her, she said she went for a drink with an old school mate, whom she has not seen for a long time, and even at that, i do deserve the t=right to knoow whom she was hanging out with. the same thing happened again, with same person, i asked her again and she said there was nothing between them but how come she doesn't tell me anything, if she's got nothing to hide. i've told her severally that i am not comfortable with these old school mate arrangement but she wont listen. if you were in my shoes, what would you do?HuhHuh? this has happened three times after i told her to stop.

sorry sweetheart but your lover is actually sharing her laps with two people,the earlier u leave d relationship d better

almondjoy:

Ashually,

Love and chemistry can be related or not, depending on the circumstances. You can have love without a "chemical reaction" established or maintained. . .like most of you have for your religious idols. Or you can have chemistry without love. . .like most of us have for our "one night stands"!

To have both in the same equation takes the almighty grace of God! Even the bonafide and sanctified husband and wife married for 50 years cannot boast of having both at the same time always. One usually takes a back seat while the other drives.

Depends on where you are at any given stage in life. . .one comes before the other. In old age. . .love always prevails when all the chemical components have disintigrated to invisible particles, which you can only smell but not see!

Reality!
@poster

If your girlfriend treats you like toxic waste. . . not to worry, it means "no chemistry" but she loves you to death like old folks. I think you guys have been "maxed" out in this relationship. . . like most old people. . . you only have death to look forward to!

May God Forgive kia see how you laid it out with no minus

Siena:

You can fake love, or grow to love someone in time.

You aint got no game

flirt69:

this aint got nothing to do with having a game. i loved her too much and i guess i gave her too much trust, so she took my kindness for a weakness.