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Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by Tgirl4real(f): 8:26pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
biolabee: Well, 1 time, 2x, 3x...is already turning to No.3. It means he is a philanderer. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by armyofone(m): 8:27pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
I think polyG is not not the issue here too. philanders are, maybe take that part off bros. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by biolabee(m): 8:31pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: I get.. that question is the main reason why some women advocate no forgiveness i think this issue also stems from the way the genders perceive se.xual indiscretions Men see it as just physical stuff and just a port to dump their stress while women typically engage their emotions in the whole process hence almost like you have deserted your husband.... May God help us all |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by biolabee(m): 8:32pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
armyofone: I think polyG is not not the issue here too. philandering is wrong,, no doubt if u are a philander and your wife cheats on you, society is still harsher on the woman |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by coogar: 8:36pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
biolabee: what makes a man philander? the truth is not far from the answer to the question. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 8:36pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
taryour: To all the women in the house who sees nothing wrong in what d woman is doing,don't you all think the kids between the couple should b considered? How it will affect their growing up and how they will be talked about in public and their friends and neighbors will make jest of them and calling their mother a slut They wunt even be able to boast of their mother outside their home cause a they know their mother is a Married Slut.. Luckily for such woman she will have all girls,then she shouldn't complain if they start sleeping around at the age of 14 or even open their legs for their own father to penetrate.Jeedus!! |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by biolabee(m): 8:39pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
coogar: a man who has mutiple women.... |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by coogar: 8:44pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
biolabee: that's not the question, biolabee the man is a philanderer - the act itself is philandering. so what pushes a man to philander? |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by armyofone(m): 8:47pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
coogar: you are funny. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by biolabee(m): 8:47pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
coogar: that one get as e be,,, see quote below the rate of straying you see nowadays.. at times i wonder if really men were meant to be monogamous,,, sorry o damiso: If i would judge a married woman cheating then i would judge a married man as well.Simples.As has been said by most people alot of men dont have a valid reason to cheat on their wives and they do anyway.Also though not in the OP case,some married women cheat for not so valid reasons either. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by Tgirl4real(f): 8:49pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
biolabee: U are right. Someone like me can't be committed to 2 guys at d same tym. I will rather (and surely) leave one for the other, hence cheating isn't an option for me. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by armyofone(m): 8:49pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
coogar: oh oh, that's what you want to do? put the blame of philandering on the woman? where is his conscience to help him decide what's right or wrong? you eh? unless I got it all wrong but |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by Tgirl4real(f): 8:54pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
coogar: Some men are simply irresponsible. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by biolabee(m): 8:56pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: Traditionally women have never stomached rivals due to the fact that it affected them economically But with modernisation and increased financial power... seems they still cant stoach it Like madam says, May God help us All. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by taryour(f): 8:58pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
slimyem: Jeedus!! You are there screaming Jeedus!! If it were to happen to you(God forbid) would you have acted like that woman in the story and not consider your children and their future No offense intended,just a question. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by coogar: 8:58pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
armyofone: women blame men for infidelity like this woman has done. how do we know for sure that men are not pushed by their partners to cheat? men don't generally whine about these things - they just go out there and find a suitable partner. Tgirl4real: hmmmm |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by Tgirl4real(f): 9:04pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
biolabee: No! They didn't know they had a choice then. Lol Woman are more independent minded now. Funny though, millions all over d world still stay for different reasons. Like Armyofone said, it's not about PolyG, but philandering. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by biolabee(m): 9:16pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: As i said,some one i know a man stayed with his wife.. most likely because of the kids (about 3) So some will stay.. im sure 95% of men will leave except there is a deep secret (impotence or sth else) More women will stay because of economic reasons, society does not see it as a big deal, also for the kids |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 9:22pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
taryour:Your absurd analysis of the situation is the reason for my exclamation.You make the whole thing sound like "cheating" is done in public and the whole village gets to know of it the moments it starts. The only thing ice you didn't put on it is that stick and stones would be hurled at the children for their parents' indiscretion.It doesn't play out as horribly as you make it sound.The children might not even be aware of what's going on for as long as possible talk less their friends taunting them with it. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by taryour(f): 9:31pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
slimyem: Your absurd analysis of the situation is the reason for my exclamation.You make the whole thing sound like "cheating" is done in public and the whole village gets to know of it the moments it starts. Now you make me laugh in spanish, you think when a woman begins to cheat on her hubby openly,the next door neighbor wunt get to know about it?? My dear that's were the news begins to spread like wide fire and you start hearing them whisper it even to the woman's hearing. Or do you think kids are so dump they don't know what's going on between their parents. No matter how much a woman trys to hide such dirty act,it will definitely come out openly sooner than she expected it. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by slimyem: 9:49pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
taryour:Understand that i am not explicitly defending this woman's actions but if this is the angle you are pursuing as a reason not to retailiate on her husband by doing the same thing he is,it can be waved down. Cheats usually are discreet and except you are a partner looking to catch them or they are doing it close to home,your presumptions are goofy IMO. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by bukatyne(f): 10:04pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
biolabee: Hi, There is no marriage when either party cheats... I don't know what you mean by a man having a steady mistress and still doing his duties at home. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by biolabee(m): 10:26pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
bukatyne: ok |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: I would rather take a walk than let hubby turn me into what I am not.If I saw this earlier, I wouldn't have bothered commenting on the thread in the first place. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
coogar: Lol go sitdon joo. business Ko. God forbid this happened to me, I would tie my womb and conceive no more. Then I will push for independence by having a career if I had none.....and kiss his azz good bye. One of em reasons why I don't believe in being a housewife. Who knows the amount of crap this woman might have gone through (prior to her cheating) . This kain man might spend his money more on condoms than on his family. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by Nobody: 11:44pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
Mehn!!if that keeps you sane,who am I to judge?? I still think this woman should rather take a walk instead of stealing what freedom can grant her.like I always say,any woman that smiles amidst infidelity is probably not faithful herself.Women don't really forgive infidelity,they rarely do,they can only pretend to.....on a good dAy,you ll sure have it coming. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by Nobody: 11:49pm On Apr 30, 2013 |
bukatyne: There reAlly is no marriAge where infidelity abounds.....you re very much on point. 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by gladiator12: 12:57pm On May 02, 2013 |
Na wah oh..... Some people don't know that what they do affects their children and grandchildren and great grand children. Curse follow, disease follow and other iniquities.... Omasheeeee ohhhhhhh. |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by bukatyne(f): 1:23pm On May 02, 2013 |
byvan: It's really amazing people think it's ok if a man cheats or has a steady mistress as long as he's performing his duties at home. This now births the question: What is a man's duty at home?(i.e. to his wife, children) |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by biolabee(m): 1:49pm On May 02, 2013 |
bukatyne: A mans duty in my words is to be a dutiful husband to his wife, loving father to the kids; protect and shelter them and ensure the family achieves their potential. Its more than this but a lot of males learn from their fathers |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by bukatyne(f): 2:02pm On May 02, 2013 |
biolabee: And you think this duty excludes fidelity and faithfulness? |
Re: Is This Common Amongst Nigerian Married Women? by biolabee(m): 2:12pm On May 02, 2013 |
bukatyne: I don't think at any point I mentioned any exclusion of fidelity |
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