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Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Nobody: 6:36pm On May 05, 2013 |
Niqqa what? Nna enh! Scatter the damn thing. Bumble clot rude bwuay cant wait. What bumbo clot fuckery is this? First fruit ma priyack! Biyatch better bend over before I ... 1 Like
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Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by touchmeder: 6:51pm On May 05, 2013 |
These are man made rules people cook up and sell to their members to potray a false sense of extra holiness If as a newly wedded man God tells you that and your wife agrees to abstain with you (for some weird reason)that's your prerogative Don't let any man put you in bondage or sell you false teachings/doctrine Study the bible for yourself, pray, is that what God is prompting you to do? You decide 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by kkulaja(m): 7:04pm On May 05, 2013 |
12 inches!:Who is a clown here?I wasn't laughing like you when I typed it. The term 1st fruit is a fruit you give out. In yorubaland ur 1st salary when you start to work is shared within the family,"Not by force"Culture In some churches ur 1st salary in the year is the 1st fruit sacrifice you make Now when the term 1st fruit is used for abstaining from ur wife on your wedding night,I am wondering who the sacrifice goes to,and if its not something you can sacrifice to anyone,y then term it as 1st fruit when ofcos if you wait a month for whatever reason,you are still coming to your 1st fruit Abi u be learner? |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by PAGAN9JA(m): 7:22pm On May 05, 2013 |
j4jj: that was my opinion. I can separate you from your false love of that israeli man-God. 1 religious debate and then you will come begging me to covert you to traditional religion. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by webbjamie(m): 8:00pm On May 05, 2013 |
yellowpawpaw: Bullshit!pple should stop misinterpretin d bible.I wonder if d apostles were to be alive today,dey will be constantly askin what dey did wrong by writin those wonderful scrolls.d bible said abstinence,I did that and one hediot is tellin me to continue as 1st fruit sacrifice! nigerians and adding so much drama into d word of God!as I do after my weddin is not her biz! Period!(Sorry,I forgot she is a woman of God,maybe d Holy spirit told her) You my friend are certainly not on the path of error.If only more christians could be this rational and think for themselves...IGNORANCE IS DOING MORE HARM TO THE BODY OF CHRIST THAN SIN. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by webbjamie(m): 8:07pm On May 05, 2013 |
kambo: how about giving the whole month off as first fruit. You sir encapsulated my thoughts and expressed them in a single piece done with beautiful prose laced with a few smatterings of pidgin for effect...Kudos to You. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by webbjamie(m): 8:08pm On May 05, 2013 |
kambo: how about giving the whole month off as first fruit. You sir encapsulated my thoughts and expressed them in a single piece done with beautiful prose laced with a few smatterings of pidgin for effect...Kudos to You. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by ugees(m): 8:15pm On May 05, 2013 |
he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtaineth favour from the lord.... You are married, by virtue of that you have found favour... This is just religion and a little bit of naivete being taken too far, in my opinion. God wants you to chop that thing that first night...that's why he made the damn thing in the first place... |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Tpfkakambo(m): 8:56pm On May 05, 2013 |
Kamsy10:agree with the bible first. To cure u of your traditional blinders. Kamsy10:don't type frm a blinded mentality. Let d word enlighten you. Learn how 2 interprete the word correctly. Kamsy10:luke 15v22: father of prodgl son puts jeweled ring on son's finger. It cud hav been gold. In addition to shoes and a robe. Point, jewelry complimented dressing. Job42v11: each of job's guest giv him money and a gold ring. Again, insinuatg tht gold was worn as jewelry too as well as having fiscal value. Rev1v13: john sees Jesus , jesus is wearing a long robe with a gold band. Jesus is wearg gold! Kamsy10:y did they take it off? Cuz it was to b used in temple construction wrk. The isrealites wore gold as jewelry.. Wen d golden calf was to b made the appeal was made tht people shd contribute their gold,many gave their gold jewelry. Kamsy10:ive read it. It proves my point. The figurative woman there wears gold jewelry. So gold wearg was d norm and is not a sin. The point of dat verse, is tht her attrctveness will not influence her enemies hence her dressg is in vain. She wore gold,mascara and scarlet. Does tht make all those items evil. Jesus said not wat u take dat defiles u but wat u think on(find d verse) Kamsy10: nonsense crap. The boldd applies to u. Do ur homework before counterg. Kamsy10:your foolish partg shot. Lazy people like you is wat made jesus,peter,paul use the F word (foolish/fool) in d bible. You dnt thnk, u just follow blind traditions wth frenzy. Y did Jesus tell the zealots of his day "search, d scriptures!". Kamsy10:your not a deeperlife in d church membership but ur kindred mentality. 2 Likes |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Kirinwa: 9:24pm On May 05, 2013 |
rezzy: After the whole wahala of the day, can one still have time and strenght for that? Abeg nothing like first fruit on ones wedding night except there is a revelation not to do the koko. The wedding has to be consummated that night o.Strength will come unless you married someone you ain't attracted to. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Beync(f): 10:22pm On May 05, 2013 |
Even thou we were so tired, we received strength beyond what is normal to still do the deed. 1st fruit co, 2ndfruit ni. 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by lolaluv1(f): 10:41pm On May 05, 2013 |
supaeagles: Nah! Didn't 'vex'. Was just explaining. I mostly sound serious, so don't take it that I picked offence. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by PAGAN9JA(m): 11:15pm On May 05, 2013 |
webb jamie: what body? he is dead dude. JESUS IS DEAD! REJOICE FOR THY LORD HATH ARRIVED ON THE CLOUD OF THUNDER! ALL GLORY IN THE NAME OF AMADIOHA, THE MOST COMPASSIONATE, THE MOST MERCIFUL! |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by ocelot2006(m): 1:55am On May 06, 2013 |
Yvete: Just curious to know if anyone has done this? And all those days/months/years before the wedding are meant for what? Why can't the prayers be held then? |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by mrperfect(m): 2:56am On May 06, 2013 |
I think what she said is more of opinion to please God eve more. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by webbjamie(m): 3:12am On May 06, 2013 |
PAGAN 9JA: Brother i would surmise from your rants that all is not well with your mind or is this just a ploy to garner cheap popularity? |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Nobody: 5:11am On May 06, 2013 |
God himself go ask you "My son, which kain unnessessary suffer head be dis one?. Do I have to send an angel down to tell you to become ONE with her and finish this process?" |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by PAGAN9JA(m): 7:05am On May 06, 2013 |
webb jamie: what rants? what popularity? dont you xtians spam other threads with your bullsh!.t praises to your foreign God why cant I praise my God(s) as well?! |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by josite: 8:01am On May 06, 2013 |
rubbish. GOD doesn't act outside his words. HE is not interested in having sex with someone's else wife. Which church is preaching this nonsense again |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by PAGAN9JA(m): 8:17am On May 06, 2013 |
josite: rubbish. GOD doesn't act outside his words. HE is not interested in having sex with someone's else wife. Which church is preaching this nonsense again the church of christianity. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Adekay2011: 10:55am On May 06, 2013 |
i am talkn to brethren not guys OR BABS it is very important you dedicate 3-4days to God after marriage but it must be agreed by both parties This is a submissive attitude to God. you might say its not biblical. God love an unusual approach of faith to him. its like total submission of the new family to God. Also, in this part of the world where so many evil doers with smiling faces comes to ur weddn to target that NIGHT to carry out their work but if they come 1,2 and 3 night they will be disgraced and bonded. This is why many marriages does not last a month before the joy in that marriage vanish. A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by baldman: 1:12pm On May 06, 2013 |
@ Adekay2011: Christianity is not a science, it is a way of life that is founded on the word of God. Part of the essence of marriage is so that a man and woman can enjoy sexual intimacy without such act constituting a sin. Sin is the only factor that can give evil doers power over a man. A man sleeping with his wife on their wedding night has not committed any sin that could warrant God giving him up to be harmed by evil doers. It is really kinda absurd to think abstaining from intimacy in marriage is one way of protecting oneself from the evil ones. If your postulation is correct, then the couple will have to abstain for the rest of their marriage lives since the evil doers can come any time and strike when they are making love. You are suggesting 3-4 for days, I am sure someone will come up with a 7-day abstinence policy, then one-month and may be somebody will say the first one year 'should be dedicated unto God'. If the bible is your guide, go and check what Isaac did the night Rebecca was brought to him, check what Jacob did the nights Leah and Rachael were given to him as wives, check the warning that couples should not abstain from sex for too long less they be tempted, these are biblical instances that goes to proof God's mind towards sex in marriage. Now, show me one verse in the bible where God said a married man should offer the sacrifice of abstinence on his wedding night to earn further blessings, especially after heeding the biblical injunction that the marriage bed be undefiled. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by saintchyco: 1:18pm On May 06, 2013 |
from experience you will be tooo tied to do anything , what you will be looking for is a place to rest your weary body so the truth that most time nothing happens on your first night as husband and wife |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Nobody: 2:16pm On May 06, 2013 |
kambo: how about giving the whole month off as first fruit.[b] kambo: how about giving the whole month off as first fruit.[/b] kambo: how about giving the whole month off as first fruit. Please stay on the topic and if you dont know why Kumuyi is preaching what you call crap, its better to keep quiet and dont attend his church. Getting likes on nairaland and getting likes from God almighty are two different things. Why dont you allow God to do the judging. I dont think he needs your assistance Like I advised you earlier, if you dont know why Kumuyi is preaching what you call crap, please shut your mouth Getting likes on nairaland and getting likes from God almighty are two different things We humans like the to chose the most convenient way.Remember that narrow is the way that leads to heaven |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Nobody: 2:29pm On May 06, 2013 |
kambo: how about giving the whole month off as first fruit. Please stay on the topic and if you dont know why Kumuyi is preaching what you call crap, its better to keep quiet and dont attend his church. Getting likes on nairaland and getting likes from God almighty are two different things. Why dont you allow God to do the judging. I dont think he needs your assistance Like I advised you earlier, if you dont know why Kumuyi is preaching what you call crap, please shut your mouth Getting likes on nairaland and getting likes from God almighty are two different things We humans like the to chose the most convenient way.Remember that narrow is the way that leads to heaven |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by kambo(m): 6:13am On May 07, 2013 |
Kamsy10:if you wrote all this so you'll say shut up or keep quiet your are most to be pitied. I replied u with the tpfkakambo moniker. If the word of God from the bible can't convince - reconsider whether you want to obey the Bible or follow man made doctrines in church. I dont have time to respond to your other senseless comments. I was responding to the issue of man made traditions in church, e.g dont wear gold. And i refuted to out of context stance with relevant scriptures. You ofcourse know in the bible that after Jesus , told some religious people the truth they often tried to kill him. e.g throw him off the hill. Dont make another comment on the bible except you want to make an objective point. the bible says , only God's word endures forever , not the word of any man. some denominations take the word out of context , and you support it. if your pastor says dont wear shoes - like some sects do - you will not be able to interprete the bible for yourself to know better! The scriptures is of no private interpretation.- dont let any man deceive you. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by rezzy: 9:55am On May 08, 2013 |
scobaba: which one is daddy again? I have daddy, yes, as in papa. |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by rezzy: 10:17am On May 08, 2013 |
j4jj: What would couples doing during courtship I guess one out of many wld be praying abt the first fruit thing so there wld be no essence!!! Though I actualy like d fact dat u added not mandatory to ur thread!!! I'd rather prefer to do what a xtain friend of mine informed me abt that before a couple plans to hv s*x wt eachother since its d first time they are seeing eachother's nudi-ty they shld both go on their kneels in nak*dness, hold hands, & pray to God and ask whatever they want from God.I tell u dat my friend is still enjoying his marriage with lovely kids. a suggestion anyway As i read the bolded, i became shy. God! Cant do that. Do you think it is easy to go stark nak*d before a man for d first? |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Obinoscopy(m): 7:00pm On May 25, 2013 |
Sex or no sex on the wedding night does not translate to giving that night to God. Couples can have sex on their wedding night and yet dedicate that night to God. Its all about the heart my dear, it always has been about the innermost heart which God alone sees . |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by Ubenedictus(m): 2:45am On May 26, 2013 |
Yvete: Just curious to know if anyone has done this.it sounds like a joke to me |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by ijawkid(m): 7:00am On May 26, 2013 |
Ubenedictus: it sounds like a joke to me UBE if u never marry you fit apply this first fruit formular o.......... 1 Like |
Re: Giving Your Wedding Night To God As A First Fruit Of Marriage? - No Intimacy by edekoln: 8:47pm On Jan 26, 2016 |
Nigerian christians!!! more christian than christ. HYPOCRITES like the pharisees almost the whole lot of them. wedding nite as first fruit to God? what a ridiculous tradition of men with which these mog will eventually enslave their members!! firstfruit is not a christian practice neither is offering the first forbidden fruit to God (pun intended ) yet they call themselves christians. simpletons |
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