*Kails*:
people nowadays spend too much on the actual ceremonies and not
enough time on the relationship. they also confuse lust for love...

Im not confused about mine - i do love u

Mrs..Chima:


Summarize these nuts.

DailyNews:

anyway, in case u didn't get my point initially, I said u obviously said the truth in summary. I then implored u to try and explain more so people would understand u better. Nairalanders refused to change, sighs

usermane: Because people dont care about marriage preparation. They dont get to learn each other character and personality b4 marriage.
People think dating is about sex,money and show off. Factors like morals,ethics,truthfullness are throw out of the window and it is only after packing in that couples realise what they need is lacking in their spouse.

stargal_ameena: interesting>>>>i just hope we are taking corrections and learning so we dont fall victim* i dont mind choosing an ideal man here lol

dmcdad:
As funny as it seems, you can meet your ideal mate anywhere (even here). There are always possibilities....

stargal_ameena: hehehehe....so lets start with you*wink*

Mynd_44:
Hmmm. Things are happening

stargal_ameena: LMAO....Like he said,There are always possibilities....

stargal_ameena: hehehehe....so lets start with you*wink*

dmcdad:
Nope I don't think so. Why not you get the ball rolling and others will follow suite.

Mynd_44:
You both need to stop the bickering

dmcdad:
There is no fuss about this... Just told her to break the ice since possibilities are endless and you never can tell whom she is gonna get on here. It might just be that the both of you are compatible. Just saying... And if someone doesn't get it started, you might not know.

Mynd_44:
Now I see why divorce is on the rise. No one wants to make the first move.

dmcdad:
Ha ha ha ha ha... Don't be ridiculous. Its not a crime if a girl makes the move. Besides, if a girl makes a move to you, would you ever despise her for that?

Mynd_44:
If a girl makes the move to me, I would respect her and see her as matured cos she sees what she likes and goes for it. Inlike the kids out there who wait for miracles but no offence but what is your view if a girl makes the first move as regards divorce?

dmcdad:
I don't get it. What do u mean make the move as regards divorce? Rephrase please...

Mynd_44:
I meant I like a girl who takes the initiative. It shows that she knows what she wants unlike the kids around now.

But when it comes to divorce, do you think a woman should make the first move?

Mrs..Chima:
I think divorce shouldn't be made lightly because it does hurt the children and other members of the family. However we can't stop someone from divorcing if they choose to. I have every desire to remain married to Chima unless exreme adultery and abuse come in play.

stargal_ameena: hmmmm....somebody help oooooOO!!! i think am in love with Dmcdad and mynd44

stargal_ameena: hmmmm....somebody help oooooOO!!! i think am in love with Dmcdad and mynd44

dmcdad:
With whom are you in love with? Dmcdad? Mynd? Now I think thats mere fantasy. Stop fantasising and be real. Anywayz, I think Mynd has given the green-light, so... I think u guys are good to go

stargal_ameena: habaaa.y wud you say dat.dat wus harsh

dmcdad:
Harsh? How? I just thought I should put things straight but it seems u didn't see it in that light..

Anywayz, sorry for that.

Mynd_44:
She wants you bro

dmcdad:
Its obvious she wants you cause she barely knows me. Anywayz, lets share her then. You will have your turn and I will have mine. Lol

Whats your take on that?