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Re: . by Rocktation(mod): 8:33pm On May 12, 2013
How lengthy is the period before going back to school? How big is the apartment? And really, why can't a friend visit you because you have a boyfriend?
Re: . by TrishaP(op):
TEA esq™:
Aawww!!!! So she is stranded? Eiya
If you don't let her stay you will be a very bad friend. Just put yourself in her shoe.

I will advice you to let her stay, make her feel at home by allowing her to cook and giving her the master bed room. And don't forget to allow her and your man have time to get to know each other. Also remind her to come with s3xy nighties because your man loves s3xy nighties.

PS:if you hearken to my advice, you will be inviting us for THEIR wedding come december
Re: . by Odunharry(m): 12:06am On May 13, 2013
TrishaP: Yes she has a bf too. That's y i was having second thought of letting her come stay. Buh she is kinda stranded with not enough money with her b4 she goes bck to school.
my dear,pay for an hotel room 4 her...bet me she ll make u guys inconvenient...Excpt she wana cme visit n go bt spendng d nite over...dat na no go area o
Re: . by Gudintent: 12:10am On May 13, 2013
Who says three is a crowd cool

Give your fiancé the ultimate gift

He will forever have you in his memory when he is well and truly married to neither of you undecided
Re: . by TrishaP(op): 5:08am On May 13, 2013
mekaboy: Women, una dey make me laugh.

For the post you say bf here u say fiancé.

1, You are fornicating, I assume there is no ring on your finger.

2,I will advise you to let her come over, because it is possible that you are staying in somebody elses bf house.

Has it occurred to you that you are not the only gf he has? So u might as well be an intruder.

What are you afraid of? That he will leave. U for her? That cld eventually happen someday so what's the big deal. That ur living in his house does not mean he will marry u.
@mekaboy, boyfriend or fiance believe what you want.
Re: . by dhrey: 7:28am On May 13, 2013
No wahala,just give a try.
Re: . by rully2: 4:13pm On May 13, 2013
And come back to NL with a post that says .."My Friend Snatched My Boyfriend After Allowing Her To Stay in My Bf's House with Me" undecided ..are you a learner grin
Re: . by Nobody: 7:24pm On May 13, 2013
Nyanga dey sleep... cool
Re: . by TrishaP(op): 7:33pm On May 16, 2013
Richfella: Nyanga dey sleep... cool
Trouble dey come wake am. U for finish am. T̶̲̥̅̊н̣̣̣̝̇̇̇α̇̇̇̊ŋƙz folks for the help it really helped and i didn't get to feel bad for my decision. Once again Thanks
Re: . by andyanders: 10:48pm On Dec 21, 2013
TrishaP: Good morning and Happy sunday to Nlers, My close friend but not my bestfriend sha wants to come stay in my fiance's house for a while b4 going back to school. Pls is it advisable to allow her stay, i've бǝ̩̩̩̥ǝ̩̩̩̥η thinking about it. One mind tells me No and the other tells me yes. Dunno what to say yet.
You will loose your boyfriend to her. Note, that ONLY you knows where your pant is torn. You friend will end up messing up your relationship.

The mistake we make sometimes is just not to be bold to give an answer 'NO' and that will make us regret certain decision we make in life.

If your boyfriend develops lust one day, she will end up taking over your home and nothing you can do about it.
Tell her that your boyfriend's mum comes now and then and wouldn't wanna see any person extra.
Re: . by andyanders: 10:54pm On Dec 21, 2013
TrishaP: Yes she has a bf too. That's y i was having second thought of letting her come stay. Buh she is kinda stranded with not enough money with her b4 she goes bck to school.
If it your parent's place, no problem, but your boyfriend's house, hell No.
Re: . by Sodiq33(m): 11:33pm On Dec 21, 2013
Gej for president... angryGej for president...
Re: . by pussyeater(m): 3:55am On Dec 22, 2013
Don't be ignorant!
Re: . by fohia(m):
My dear except if u want to lose ur guy to her...
Re: . by Afrok(m): 8:06am On Dec 22, 2013
I didn't read anything about husband or wife here, I only saw something like my bf or fiance but either ways none of U ladies should be living with d guy. But if we look at it from d angle dt most guys nd ladies are living together dis days as couples without proper solemnisation, I'll advice U not to allow any lady live with U nd ur bf...
Re: . by candor4(f): 8:43am On Dec 22, 2013
djeezy: @op, it depends on the level of trust you have on your friend, not excluding your bf. Based on their record, you should be able to know what they are capable of. For instance if your bf is a chronic flirt, then don't bring your friend in. If your friend is notorious for bf snatching or mistress, then don't bring her in. If none of the aforementioned is evident, then you can help her out.
Thank you,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,dis is d best advice so far.....................is all about trust..............
Re: . by Matildachinyere(f): 12:23pm On Dec 22, 2013
djeezy: @op, it depends on the level of trust you have on your friend, not excluding your bf. Based on their record, you should be able to know what they are capable of. For instance if your bf is a chronic flirt, then don't bring your friend in. If your friend is notorious for bf snatching or mistress, then don't bring her in. If none of the aforementioned is evident, then you can help her out.
Wat if she's a green snake under the green grass nko? u will neva know until it strikes my brother! grin
Re: . by Matildachinyere(f): 12:27pm On Dec 22, 2013
fohia: My dear except if u want to lose ur guy to her... Am a guy, my girlfrd use to sleep in my room with her roomie, one night I felt sth on my d**k, I opened my eyes to see my girlfrd's roomie sucking my d**k while my girlfrd ws asleep... I .... Let me leave d ending...
U SAY?!!!!! MY GUY COMPLETE D STORY OOO, ODAWISE UR D*CK NO GO DISAPPEAR FOR NITE O!! #I DEY WAIT# cool
Re: . by HopeAtHand: 3:30pm On Dec 22, 2013
fohia: My dear except if u want to lose ur guy to her... Am a guy, my girlfrd use to sleep in my room with her roomie, one night I felt sth on my d**k, I opened my eyes to see my girlfrd's roomie sucking my d**k while my girlfrd ws asleep... I .... Let me leave d ending...
Are u expecting us to correctly know the end your story??

C'mon dude, finish it off, tell us it ended in a 3some else we will be disappointed.
Re: . by TrishaP(op): 3:47pm On Dec 22, 2013
See how everybody wants to know what later happened to @fohia, pls free him jor. Besides this story is old na, why bringing it up again.
Thanks folks but this is long gone.

Season Greetings!!!
Re: . by femooshad(m): 4:27pm On Dec 22, 2013
I can smell a three.some ... grin
Re: . by fohia(m): 4:30pm On Dec 22, 2013
MatildaChinyere n Hopeathand, una really wan hear the rest of the story...:hmmmm, she got wot she wanted... Like 10 times before we all parted ways, n my girlfrd never found out wot happen
Re: . by zeedward: 5:49pm On Dec 22, 2013
Its really sad how people are so negative.nd yet u see lots of female friends everywhere pretending to love each other.if I love my friend,it means we have come to d point dat I can trust her.if she needs my help,why not?so if I get married,my female close pals can't visit?cos am married to who?if u can't trust ur man now,u won't in marriage.why are women so complicated?why can't we be like guys?dis is why we get married nd forget our girls dat went thru thick and thin wit us just cos of a man.why don't guys do same?my dear op,if ur friend really needs help,help her!it is even a good way to know if she nd ur man shud be in ur life or not!
Re: . by TrishaP(op): 8:48pm On Dec 22, 2013
Thanks @zeedward.
Re: . by lebienconnu(m): 10:10pm On Dec 22, 2013
bettet to be safe than sorry.
Re: . by Nobody: 6:03pm On Aug 05, 2014
so what happened, did u guys do three some grin grin grin
Re: . by sluvy4tune(m): 7:12pm On Aug 05, 2014
ikp4succes: so what happened, did u guys do three some grin grin grin
Guy u still follow this topic till now
Re: . by Nobody: 8:34pm On Aug 05, 2014
sluvy4tune: Guy u still follow this topic till now
yes now there is no limit..if not Seun for don delete the topic grin grin
Re: . by priest2u(m): 9:18pm On Aug 05, 2014
TrishaP: Good morning and Happy sunday to Nlers, My close friend but not my bestfriend sha wants to come stay in my bf's house for a while b4 going back to school. Pls is it advisable to allow her stay, i've бǝ̩̩̩̥ǝ̩̩̩̥η thinking about it. One mind tells me No and the other tells me yes. Dunno what to say yet.
are you suppose to be in your bf house? Are you married to him? see kettle calling pot black. Both you and your friend should respect yourself .smh
Re: . by TrishaP(op): 6:45am On Aug 06, 2014
priest2u: are you suppose to be in your bf house? Are you married to him? see kettle calling pot black. Both you and your friend should respect yourself .smh
What is wrong with people sef! Can't you see this topic is outdated?
Re: . by TrishaP(op): 10:28am On Feb 16, 2015
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