Iv been dating this girl just a little over a year now. Am four years older than she is. She has been good as far as i knw. The problem i av with her is that she treats me like am a lord. Initial i thought it was respect but nw she worship me which i don't like Iv sat her down time with no counts to make a realize i don't want that but she seems not to change. Iv never shouted or lay my hands on her so i don't knw What warranted all this. The relationship is now master and slave and its not interesting anymore. ADVICE PLS

What are you waiting for

Take her to the dungeon

Get you! Ya have a slave 4 life and you are here bragging

Gudintent: What are you waiting for

Take her to the dungeon

Get you! Ya have a slave 4 life and you are here bragging

I don't wanna be a master. I don't enjoy it

I don't understand. Does she pray in your name or did she carve an idol in your image? What do you mean by "worship"? Pls make me understand

t.b.o.y:
Iv been dating this girl just a little over a year now. Am four years older than she is. She has been good as far as i knw. The problem i av with her is that she treats me like am a lord. Initial i thought it was respect but nw she worship me which i don't like Iv sat her down time with no counts to make a realize i don't want that but she seems not to change. Iv never shouted or lay my hands on her so i don't knw What warranted all this. The relationship is now master and slave and its not interesting anymore. ADVICE PLS

Little kids.

Na best tin b dat oooooo... Jst continue!

cantell:
Little kids.

Caracta: I don't understand. Does she pray in your name or did she carve an idol in your image? What do you mean by "worship"? Pls make me understand

She can't challenge me on anything, for her to even ask me something is difficult.

cantell:
Little kids.

Am not a kid.

t.b.o.y:

She can't challenge me on anything, for her to even ask me something is difficult.

So? She might be shy. Wait till you guys get married before concluding that she worships you. And the fact that you are older than her explains it. I also think she was trained to respect her elders. That's a plus. As long as it is respect and not FEAR!

Caracta:
So? She might be shy. Wait till you guys get married before concluding that she worships you. And the fact that you are older than her explains it. I also think she was trained to respect her elders. That's a plus. As long as it is respect and not FEAR!

I think its beyond respect. I will wait time will tell but nt until we get married. I don't wanna be a dictator in my home.

The Op sounds like my ex!

Dude I just dont understand how this is a problem....so let me get this: she treats you nice, she respects you, and shes good to you so what is the problem? but really i can understand your dilemma because it takes a very mature man to understand and treat this girl they way shes suppose to be treated.....Please... if you know you cant handle this AWESOME treatment... that you are getting...don't try to change her....kindly let her go and not ruin her for the right guy ok...thanks for understanding

I have seen this sort of poo happen before. The girl actually kneels down to greet the guy (he is just 3 years older ooo), she calls him "broda" and obeys everything he says.

Some women are just like that.

I dont see anything wrong in how she treats you but you need to reciprocate this kind gesture.I think she has lot of respect for you and all you need do is to respect,understand and love her.I think she is okay.Best wishes!

O boy, how lucky are thou. You need to start treating her exactly the way she treats you. If she kneels for you, just kneel for her too. Get the gist?

She doesn't worship u but respect u and u should do same.

And please if u cant be with her anymore kindly forward her details to

dontbeajerk@yahoo.com

80% respect and 20% love is what she's giving you right now if you start giving her 20% respect and 80% love then believe me that relationship will blossom fully.Bro you just got the best deal.

vizboy: She doesn't worship u but respect u and u should do same.

And please if u cant be with her anymore kindly forward her details to

dontbeajerk@yahoo.com

Come thief her.lol

With your head like star times decoder derewhat rubbish if you no like am oya dump am nw,rubbish post the troll is obviously enjoying himself coming here to claim he doesn't like
Why don't you go and find those who won't act like your slave they are very easy to find.*spits and walks out*

Is it good or bad?
Pls don't try to change her
If you don't want/need her like that, simply let go of her

Master and slave in a relationship? Guy I can understand your predicament! She's probably naive or shy! Once you're in a relationship, your behavior towards your partner changes from your general behavior because there exists now a special bond which should make her see you differently from the way she sees others! There should be intimacy in the way you relate and not some kind of general outlook!

She's probably a good girl though! Still talk to her some more! Tell her how you want to be treated and she just might be that perfect girl for you, you know!

t.b.o.y:

Come thief her.lol

i dey come so

DigitalSignal:
Master and slave in a relationship? Guy I can understand your predicament! She's probably naive or shy! Once you're in a relationship, your behavior towards your partner changes from your general behavior because there exists now a special bond which should make her see you differently from the way she sees others! There should be intimacy in the way you relate and not some kind of general outlook!

She's probably a good girl though! Still talk to her some more! Tell her how you want to be treated and she just might be that perfect girl for you, you know!

Thanx bro.

I smell a desperado girl with the intention of impressing her boyfriend into marriage.she really needs to be mrs lagbaja.the moment she gets the mrs title,you will see her true colour. If you like date her for 2o years,she will still act that way but as soon as she enters the bandwagon of the mrs club.you will see her as she truly is

kulyie: I smell a desperado girl with the intention of impressing her boyfriend into marriage.she really needs to be mrs lagbaja.the moment she gets the mrs title,you will see her true colour. If you like date her for 2o years,she will still act that way but as soon as she enters the bandwagon of the mrs club.you will see her as she truly is

I don't wanna believe this

she is a nice person, thats the kind of girl i want.

Provided it isn't 'fear', albeit she should be free with her man nau.

I wouldn't like such attitude if I was a guy either.

I think I know where you are coming from t.boy.My ex who I dated for four years had the same problem with his ex.He said the gurl was always at his beck and core like a zombie!!Always does what he ask without complaining.According to him,there are months without a single argument.That's boring!If they go out with friends,she doesn't contribute anything on the table during discussion.Well my commando ex got fed up and kindly let her go.Then he met me.....and the whole house starts to shake

t.b.o.y:

I don't wanna believe this

experience is the best teacher ya know

Please this is not a problem. You can turn it into a romantic sport with a little creativity. She treats you like a master today, you treat her like a mistress tomorrow. Find a way to enjoy what the good lord has dropped in your laps, but be careful and observant to be sure it is not a pretend game in which case she is using this subservient attitude to get you to the altar before unveiling her true colour.