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Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Monicasque(f): 6:56pm On May 13, 2013 |
Now let me put it like this. So many times man seem to control everything. They even seem to control everyone's health. People we are living in dangerous times where there is HAI / AIDS and we all know that men are and will always be dogs ( anyone who thinks my statement is wrong WAKE UP). Now my question is, knowing what we know now about sicknesses and us wanting to show faith in our loved ones. you know how a guy can get if you show him that you do not trust him. Is it wrong for your wife or stable girl friend / fiance to suggest condom use? would you think she is cheating, crazy bla bla or would you think she is actually caring, wise etc. How would a lady suggest this to her boo without offending him. Please do not get me wrong. fellows we do love you but WE do not trust you. Any lady who trusts a man with her health has a suicide mission in her head bcoz a man will always and i mean always be a dog. Sisters are you scared of suggesting condom use in your marriage or stable relationship? I know marriage is supposed to be full of trust but lets face it, men are getting dirtier by the day and most married ladies die of aids? where are they getting it? from their loved one. who they trust with their hearts.Now peopel tell me, is wrong? is it too much to ask me a lady to ask him to protect both of them? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Nobody: 7:09pm On May 13, 2013 |
one two, buckle my shoe three four, knock at the door |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Nobody: 7:11pm On May 13, 2013 |
:PFive six, ... |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by lolaluv1(f): 7:19pm On May 13, 2013 |
Nothing wrong with doing that... |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Idowuogbo(f): 7:26pm On May 13, 2013 |
Did u start off unprotected? |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by DigitalSignal(m): 7:28pm On May 13, 2013 |
I like your post in a way but if you say the ladies get it from their men, then from whom do the men get it? May be from the trousers they wear, who knows! 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by 50calibre(m): 7:34pm On May 13, 2013 |
Alert!! Mad woman escapes from mental hospital and comes to nairaland to type nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Enegod(m): 7:43pm On May 13, 2013 |
Monicasque: we all know that men are and will always be dogsanother demented,misguided,confused goat just sign-up on nairaland 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by SAFO(m): 7:53pm On May 13, 2013 |
Monicasque: Now let me put it like this. So many times man seem to control everything. They even seem to control everyone's health. People we are living in dangerous times where there is HAI / AIDS and we all know that men are and will always be dogs ( anyone who thinks my statement is wrong WAKE UP). Now my question is, knowing what we know now about sicknesses and us wanting to show faith in our loved ones. you know how a guy can get if you show him that you do not trust him. Is it wrong for your wife or stable girl friend / fiance to suggest condom use? would you think she is cheating, crazy bla bla or would you think she is actually caring, wise etc. How would a lady suggest this to her boo without offending him. Please do not get me wrong. fellows we do love you but WE do not trust you. Any lady who trusts a man with her health has a suicide mission in her head bcoz a man will always and i mean always be a dog. Sisters are you scared of suggesting condom use in your marriage or stable relationship? I know marriage is supposed to be full of trust but lets face it, men are getting dirtier by the day and most married ladies die of aids? where are they getting it? from their loved one. who they trust with their hearts.Now peopel tell me, is wrong? is it too much to ask me a lady to ask him to protect both of them? You know Monica in the rest of the sane world people actually do plan pregnancies and use condoms on a daily basis even though they're in relationships ..... just sayin This should be normal practice anyway 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Princesszoe: 8:48pm On May 13, 2013 |
@op All men are not cheats. Please you are the one that needs to wake up. Who told you that all men are the same ? We have five fingers which make up one hand yet the fingers are never equal, how much more humans. You need to stop this attitude of generalisation. Your ideology is a misconception. It doesn't matter how you paint it. It can never be a fact talk more of being true. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Nnekacherry: 9:15pm On May 13, 2013 |
DigitalSignal: I like your post in a way but if you say the ladies get it from their men, then from whom do the men get it? May be from the trousers they wear, who knows! Hahahahahaha Lwkm.. This is so funny.. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by SLIDEwaxie(m): 11:11pm On May 13, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Did u start off unprotected?that is the exact issue! Yes, she did! Which type of id!ots dnt use condoms these days? |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by its22078: 11:50pm On May 13, 2013 |
dont be in a relationship with someone u dont trust |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Princesszoe: 4:31am On May 14, 2013 |
@its22078 i guess i have known why i liked you. Your are morally principled and wise. Your words always speak for you. I like your advise although the situation will be a messy one if the partners in question are married. As for ordinary relationship, your advise is the best. Kudos! |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Nobody: 5:42am On May 14, 2013 |
yes its wrong, a lady should not protect herself in her marriage.. in fact, a wife should make sure that everything is in the husband's name: house, cars, bank account etc ...so this way if they break up...she will be left homeless and money less and possibly STD to top it off... 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Mynd44: 7:06am On May 14, 2013 |
OP needs to be flogged 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by GraceBestowed(f): 7:25am On May 14, 2013 |
The girl wants advice, instead what people do is downplay her question and throw insults whilst at it! I tire oh! It is not uncommon for someone who's married to suggest using a condom whilst being intimate. It tells that she believes he's been unfaithful, and unless he proves otherwise (by taking tests) she cannot trust him with her life. I have seen a woman who was infected with HIV, by her 'loving' husband. All you judges, please what would you say to that woman?? 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Monicasque(f): 12:42pm On May 14, 2013 |
GraceBestowed: The girl wants advice, instead what people do is downplay her question and throw insults whilst at it! I tire oh! bless you sugar. its clear the people who are busy insulting do not know the pain |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Princesszoe: 2:55pm On May 14, 2013 |
Please @ op if your husband is unfaithful, use condoms. And make sure you use good ones to avoid complications. Yes protect yourself for life has no duplicate. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by 50calibre(m): 3:09pm On May 14, 2013 |
GraceBestowed: The girl wants advice, instead what people do is downplay her question and throw insults whilst at it! I tire oh! You are defending insanity, so you missed the place she said "men are and would always be dogs" ? |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Monicasque(f): 3:21pm On May 14, 2013 |
50calibre: and i still stand by my words |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by tpia5: 3:30pm On May 14, 2013 |
^ do you hate your father? |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Monicasque(f): 3:43pm On May 14, 2013 |
tpia@: tooooo much. the dude decided to die when i was 5years old and lv my mother to struggle so i hate him very much for all that i went through in life. if he would have stuck around and see me grow, i would not have soo much anger in me. i even got to an extend where i looked for the father figure in romantic relationships bcoz the bastard who gave birth to me was not around and not there for me growing up so sue me for feeling the way i do. i hate men period and its even worse coz all these bastard seem to just know how to make kids and lv the baby mommas to raise them alone. men will always be dogs to me and nothing can change that |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Nobody: 4:00pm On May 14, 2013 |
Monicasque:rflmao |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by 50calibre(m): 4:08pm On May 14, 2013 |
Monicasque: Ok! Now can you see your insane post stem from your own underlying psychological issues? You are emotionally damaged, I recommend you seek therapy ASAP because with a mindset like this, you are heading for self-destruction. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Enegod(m): 4:10pm On May 14, 2013 |
Monicasque:you need help, serious one! 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by tpia5: 4:13pm On May 14, 2013 |
Monicasque: Women who do not hate their fathers, generally do not hate men. Women who PREFER to hate males, generally have issues with their present or absentee fathers. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Mynd44: 4:17pm On May 14, 2013 |
Wait a minute. She hates men cos her father died when she was 5? Wait if he abandoned them, I understand but you blame him cos he died? NL needs a resident shrink |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Monicasque(f): 4:25pm On May 14, 2013 |
wow i am soooo shocked at my self. i can't blv i am the one who just wrote all this. i actually never understood how i felt until a moment ago. wow and i am suddendly so calm. thanks nairaland for helping me see that i have a problem. i am really going to seek help. wooooow. now i hope you guys can see how important this forum is as for some of us its eye opening and life changing. thank you guys . from the bottom of my heart 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Monicasque(f): 4:28pm On May 14, 2013 |
i just want to say thanks @topia you are a star. guys i apologies for all the hurtful things i have said on this forum. all the threads where i have made negative comments. i am really sorry guys. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Mynd44: 4:29pm On May 14, 2013 |
I am shocked. |
Re: Is It Wrong For A Lady To Protect Herself In A Union by Monicasque(f): 4:33pm On May 14, 2013 |
Mynd_44: I am shocked. me 2 |
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