Ok so I recently got back with my ex but he doesn't know all the things I did while we were split. Should I tell him I lost my virginity or should I pretend like nothing happened?

If u pretend to be a virgin which u re nt, am sorry u will only have urself to blame @ the end. Going bac to ur EX is something i cant just comprehend, so u re nt reasonable enough to ask urself dat since we departed, is he stil single. i pity u.

I think you should absolutely pretend to be a virgin so whenever you guys get married and he finds out on the honeymoon that you lied about being a virgin...he can punch you in the face... maybe thats better for you...cheers

@Op, whats the cause of your separation with him in the first place??


If it has anything to do with his demand for s£ .x, then don't go back except you want your face burnt with sulphuric acid.

So, u guys broke up becos of ur refusal for sex as per virgin gal, and now that u re back, u ve gone to do it outside and u expect him to be happy wit u wen u tell him? Well u still hav to tell him sha

This is interesting. Anyway, he has no business with what you did before you were dating cos that's what it is but if you continue pretending to be a virgin, then you need some Jesus

@op whenever you find urselves in a conversation about sex then you throw the bombshell. Then find out if he can and still loves u. If he does then he'll deal with it but if he doesn't anymore then you flee.

TrishaP: @op whenever you find urselves in a conversation about sex then you throw the bombshell. Then find out if can and still loves u. If he does then he'll deal with it but if he doesn't anymore then you flee.

I think he will first ask to get his before he decides if he still wants her

Eeeya!............ O ti gbe ounje fun aja je. He has given his food to dogs. (no insult, a yoruba proverb).
If I may ask, who/what caused d split?

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Mynd_44:
I think he will first ask to get his before he decides if he still wants her

That's true sha That's guys for u. Well if i was the op i would let the relationship grow stronger b4 i let him get it. With that i can then throw the bombshell then he'll have no choice. He'll just deal with it bcus i'm not the 1st girl that has lost her virginity.

TrishaP:
That's true sha That's guys for u. Well if i was the op i would let the relationship grow stronger b4 i let him get it. With that i can then throw the bombshell then he'll have no choice. He'll just deal with it bcus i'm not the 1st girl that has lost her virginity.

True but what does she do if he asks for intimacy. Refusing cos she is a virgin is lying na.

Oh well she can just say she ain't ready

Princessmel: Ok so I recently got back with my ex but he doesn't know all the things I did while we were split. Should I tell him I lost my virginity or should I pretend like nothing happened?

Tell him cuz sooner or latter he'll find out. I presume he has asked and you lied about it. Women with their box of secrets.smh.

@OP
the most important thing is that you should tell this man about the whorish ways that you going through at the moment, so that he knows the kind of animal in heat he is dating, and decide if he wants to be with a gal like you........or are you not the one who wrote the following a few days ago:

Princessmel: Ok I lost my virginity just about a week ago and recently I've just been acting very whoreish with the urge to sleep with literally any man! Somebody help me

as much as we men love females in heat like yourself, let me just say:" may God help you if thats how you feel after just ONE WEEK of being se.xually active."

Thanks for all the responses guys, I'm still pondering cos I'm scared if I tell him I'll lose him, for those who want the full story, check out my threads on my mindependent profile

Princessmel: Thanks for all the responses guys, I'm still pondering cos I'm scared if I tell him I'll lose him, for those who want the full story, check out my threads on my mindependent profile

So what really happened? You refused to sleep with him, you two split, you slept with someone and lost your v to that person. Now you are going back to your ex. Imagine when he finds out that you are no mroe a v?

I dont think it matters too much. maybe you shouldnt go back to him.

Ahhh!!! U don kolo?

Princessmel: Ahhh!!! U don kolo?

No be you want advise?

Mel what's up? Its been awhile since I last heard from u on NL. Anyways whatever happened to your sex life when you and your bf were on a hiatus is your personal business and you are not obligated to tell anyone. He's not going to tell you about all the girls he screwed so I suggest you keep mute about it. If things get heated and you guys wind up in a situation where u want to have sex, your still not obligated to tell him, but in that situation telling him would be advisable.

Congrats on getting back together. But I been get plans for u sha

firetrap: Mel what's up? Its been awhile since I last heard from u on NL. Anyways whatever happened to your sex life when you and your bf were on a hiatus is your personal business and you are not obligated to tell anyone. He's not going to tell you about all the girls he screwed so I suggest you keep mute about it. If things get heated and you guys wind up in a situation where u want to have sex, your still not obligated to tell him, but in that situation telling him would be advisable.

Congrats on getting back together. But I been get plans for u sha

Thanks baby , next time make sure to let your plans known because you never know what the future holds

Princessmel:

Thanks baby , next time make sure to let your plans known because you never know what the future holds

I never rush anything in life and letting u in on my "plans" as they were at that time would have amounted to rushing and besides you stopped returning my emails

I'm pretty sure I replied to all your emails , I honestly thought u just decided not to reply

Princessmel: I'm pretty sure I replied to all your emails , I honestly thought u just decided not to reply

No u didn't, I sent u one over the weekend and didn't get a reply, so I thought u were blowing me off. Maybe we both misread the signs

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Princessmel: Ok so I recently got back with my ex but he doesn't know all the things I did while we were split. Should I tell him I lost my virginity or should I pretend like nothing happened?

miss independent, ur ban neva finish? Abi una don love this new name?

SLIDE waxie: miss independent, ur ban neva finish? Abi una don love this new name?

E Neva finish o I think I'll just stick to this one when I get unbanned anyway, too much controversy

This thread should be in dating/meet up. Wetin na?

Mynd_44: This thread should be in dating/meet up. Wetin na?

Why?!

Acidosis: @Op, whats the cause of your separation with him in the first place??


If it has anything to do with his demand for s£ .x,.

This is most likely the case

Acidosis: ?
then don't go back except you want your face burnt with sulphuric acid.

Sometimes I am tempted to think that some women deserve this

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