I met this girl 3 years ago when she was posted to the office where I work. So she was introduced to the various staff and myself inclusive. From time to time, I used to check on her to know how she is catching up wit work.

One tin lead to another and we started dating. At that point, I introduced her to my twin brother thru Facebook cos I hardly see him due to d fact dat his office is very far from mine.

My relationship wit her was goin on smoothly. And sometimes, she tells me dat she gisted wit my twin. I didn't really tink dat anytin could happen between them.

After about 8 months of our relationship, we had a little misunderstanding and were trying to resolve it, but she always turned down any effort I made towards resolving d problem failed as she was always raining insults on me. Meanwhile, d issues causing d problem wasn't my fault.

There was a day I visited my twin brother and while I was there, she called him and told him she was coming. When he told her I was around, she said she can't come. At dat point, I tot maybe she was reporting me to him or she was telling him she was still angry wit me.

From then till the next one year, I didn't see her cos she had worked her transfer to a different office and didn't hear from her again, and my brother didn't mentioned her to me either.

So a year passed and I decided to call her with d intention of reconciling wit her and proposing marriage to her. So we started getting along well again as before although it was thru fone calls.

So I told her I wanted us to see, I had d intention of proposing to her. So she told me dat she would come.

Later dat day, she called me and was crying, and said there is something she must tell me cos she didn't want me to hear from som1 else. I asked her what it was. And she said while we had our misunderstanding, she was sleeping wit my twin brother.

From d momement she told me she was having sexxxx wit my twin brother, every tin I felt for her died immediately and I told her dat there is no point of us even talking anymore

But I couldn't ask my twin brother cos we r not close to each other, we have never attended d same school, neither primary, secondary nor university. So our relationship is near formal.

Secondly, its possible she is lieing about sleeping wit him, so if I aske him, he wil see it as a false accusation.
So I just decided not to ask him.

But the girl has been begging me to forgive her, so I went to seek advice from my boss, he told me to forgive her and not to drive her away from myself. I told him I wil try my best, but dat I cannot date her.

Now d problem is dat she is assuming dat we r dating again. And is asking me why am not allowing her come to my house or why I don't go to her house if I say I have fully forgiven her.

I told her av forgiven her but I can't date or marry her.

She keeps on begging me, now I really don't know how to get her off my back.

Dear nairalanders, pls what do I do to get her off my back, cos I can't feel anytin for her. And secondly how do I ask my twin brother so as not to cause a problem between him and I?

you left her to roam for one year and over and you think she will wait for you, are you pained because it is your twin brother? Or you expect her to be by herself for one year when you left her? and which type of man will want to propose to a girl he hasnt been with or seen in a year?

Were you yourself not sleeping with other women within the one year period? Haba.

Abeg. Leave the poor gal alone. If you dont want her, just tell her straight away and tell her not to contact you any more, maybe then she will find love with your twin brother or with someone else.

You have to be a man, firstly ask her if she wasn't talking to u because she had feeling for your twin go on and ask your twin if he likes her but if he says he dumped her don't go back to her but if she left because of u then there Is still hope for u two, and as a guy man u would have enter a lot of other girl within a year.

For some reasons you guys broke up for a year and without proper reconciliation or sorting out the issues that lead to the conflict, you want to propose to her. Things don't work that way. On the subject, invite to a date an open place, tell her you have forgiven her but you both have to move on with your separate lives. I wish you all the best and stick to your decisions.
However, don't ask your twin brother about it,she is past tense. If she actually slept with your twin,time will tell.

My brother if I were you I would do the same. Your woman cheated with her full eyes open. The feeling is not there anymore. So I will advice you move on.

Why don't you tell her you have no feelings for her anymore.

ochallo: Your story seems not to hold water but if it's really true, then you should read this post on why cheaters cheat,


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/04/why-cheaters-cheat.html

what doesn't hold water there? U jes post rubbish for postin sake. Even if the story is false, there is nothing impossible abt it.
The only thing not impossible is ur blog! I can assure u, no one is clickin on it!

Blood is thicker than love ooooo.
U dont want to hurt ur broda by asking but u dont care about hurtin ur lover.........lol

You were not together when she was sleeping with another man. Technically, it's not cheating, it's called moving on. The fact that it's your twin brother is what you should be worried about.

I gues u and ur twin must b very identical

I'm i the only one reading this story correctly? The poster is saying that while the girl and him had a misunderstanding i.e they hadn't broken up, she was sleeping with the twin.
Who knows whether the small misunderstanding was due to the girl cheating with the twin brother. Now that the girl has heard marriage, she wan change her ways

WackyJ1: I'm i the only one reading this story correctly? The poster is saying that while the girl and him had a misunderstanding i.e they hadn't broken up, she was sleeping with the twin.
Who knows whether the small misunderstanding was due to the girl cheating with the twin brother. Now that the girl has heard marriage, she wan change her ways

They broke up na...for about a year. Or didn't I read well? I dey come...make i read am again.

I don read am again...i be like say he didn't say they broke up but he didn't hear or see her for one year...is there any other definition for break-up other than that?

alutacontinua:
They broke up na...for about a year. Or didn't I read well? I dey come...make i read am again.

I don read am again...i be like say he didn't say they broke up but he didn't hear or see her for one year...is there any other definition for break-up other than that?

See wetin poster talk here

qplus: After about 8 months of our relationship, we had a little misunderstanding and were trying to resolve it, but she always turned down any effort I made towards resolving d problem failed as she was always raining insults on me. Meanwhile, d issues causing d problem wasn't my fault.
There was a day I visited my twin brother and while I was there, she called him and told him she was coming. When he told her I was around, she said she can't come. At dat point, I tot maybe she was reporting me to him or she was telling him she was still angry wit me.
From then till the next one year, I didn't see her and didn't hear from her again,

you see that the girl was coming to visit the twin but changed her mind when the twin informed her that the poster was there, this was before the break up,
and then again. You see what she confessed? While the misunderstanding and before the break up

qplus: And she said while we had our misunderstanding, she was sleeping wit my twin brother.
From d momement she told me she was having sexxxx wit my twin brother, every tin I felt for her died immediately and I told her dat there is no point of us even talking anymore

WackyJ1:
See wetin poster talk here
you see that the girl was coming to visit the twin but changed her mind when the twin informed her that the poster was there, this was before the break up,
and then again. You see what she confessed? While the misunderstanding and before the break up

I think the op should come back and clarify himself. Was the 'sleeping-with' during the time you had the misunderstanding or within the one year 'you were not talking'.

Please oh. There was the Misunderstanding period before the excommunication period and the sex happened during the misunderstanding period according to the girl

alutacontinua:

I think the op should come back and clarify himself. Was the 'sleeping-with' during the time you had the misunderstanding or within the one year 'you were not talking'.

na so

Now she know between you and your brother who's gat big anaconda and who perfucks better

you should have watched your back bro.

There is no argument in this,@op forget abt the gurl and move on with your life.no big deal.

Dated a twin before,it was a bad experience.Wont try that again.One thing you shud know is this,twins usually are attracted to same thing.Be careful in the future.Good luck

Wetin dey do op? U ex d barbie for a year, u dey chop takeaway outside, ur brain con register u get another project wey u abandon she? U dey craze! Let d chick b abeg! Yes! She chop ur bruda, dats wrong!!! But, dats not cheating. If u can't cope with tot of ya bros fakafukuing ur meat, u move d feck on! Comprehende?

lynpetra: Dated a twin before,it was a bad experience.Wont try that again.One thing you shud know is this,twins usually are attracted to same thing.Be careful in the future.Good luck

U did? Lucky biatch!!! Dat na buy one get one free na.

I said usually...not all the time

tell her outright that you've forgiven her but you can't date her again because she slept with your twin brother. its simple.

Which kain story be this? Btw, OP, is that you on your profile or your twin? Face looks familiar

Sanboy25:
... Now that's a nice story.

Real "cool story"!
So op bro, wuz her numba? I need my share!

Idowuogbo: Wetin dey do op? U ex d barbie for a year, u dey chop takeaway outside, ur brain con register u get another project wey u abandon she? U dey craze! Let d chick b abeg! Yes! She chop ur bruda, dats wrong!!! But, dats not cheating. If u can't cope with tot of ya bros fakafukuing ur meat, u move d feck on! Comprehende?

This babe dey mad...i swear