kulyie: lmao

some peeps are just fond of making sick insinuations

biolabee:

why u dey laff
they just like picking on u.. guess because u are urself...and say it as it is in your unorthodox manner

keep it up!

tomakint:
Cute you

kulyie: ose jare,iya shewa ni mo jo awon eyan o gbojuboro

kulyie: lol why are you calling me cute have you seen me before please stop harrasing me o

tomakint:
Yeah!

biolabee: E long sha but the key things wey i pick be dis


Nice some deep ish.. and you are right!

77 Likes!!

kulyie: hahahaha this is one of the most funny things i have read on nairaland.where and when have you seen me because i dont remember we've met before :p 8-)

emma_best2000: crazy ni , never u mention the Name of Jesus anyhow ok ? if u want to be single forever that is for u and ur life . say whatever u like to say but just respect that Name for Gods sake

tomakint:
Somewhere in the corner of your and my....

Ihedinobi: Gaggi, barcanista and nony30 are no longer following this thread, are they? I have a culture of seeing the full development of an issue before I contribute to it, that's why I browsed through the whole thread to make sure I got the full story before commenting.

To start with, nony30 spoke like a real jerk. Of course, everyone's got a right to be whatever they want, but every right comes with a responsibility to accept the consequences or outcomes of exercising them. So, nony30 was a major jerk whom I would have enjoyed going to war with on this thread. How disappointing and rather refreshing that he took his jerkiness elsewhere.

Barcanista, one small shade more courteous than his apparent disciple nony30, was not that smart either. A thread has a specific point of discussion that participants may agree with and reinforce with their own perspectives or disagree with and criticize with their own perspectives. Which did this broda-man do? Agree? He seemed to. Disagree? He seemed to. I think his summary of his arguments or rant or whatever was: there's nothing wrong with putting a timeline on your marriage plans as long as you do it for the right reasons. Which promptly causes me to wonder: did he read the op at all or he just read the title and his mind blanked from the rush of antagonism that had him rushing to type nothing?

His subsequent comments smacked of an annoying arrogance that he felt he'd said something smart for whatever reason.

Gaggi...Gaggi Gaggi Gaggi...whoever this person is, I'm both glad and quite upset that I didn't meet this thread as soon as they first commented. From his/her first comment, I was so put off that I could almost not wait to read the rest to get whatever they really meant to say. I still intend to go back and reread all he/she said so that I'm really sure that I get it. Suffice it to say that my first impression of this person is rather unpleasant. But, I gladly accept that I mightbe wrong. And the reason for being that open to correction was how kulyie responded to him/her. She accorded him/her a respect that I would have reserved for people I thought better of.

Ok. About Gaggi'sresponse to the issue, at first, it did seem like s/he was answering the op then it seemed that s/he was answering kulyie in his/her first post. Now, granted that each marriage and each relationship is unique, are all marriages and all relationships not based on the same principles? That is, are they not all fundamentally the same?

Now, if they are (and they actually are), should someone who gets the fundamentals better not offer what wisdom that they have come to possess to others who may not yet possess it? What is their crime in sharing what they have learned with their friends and people that they care about?

Again, does the fact that human beings are basically very good actors not show that a couple's attitude outside the walls of their own home in the sight of everyone is not necessarily the same as their attitude away from everyone's gaze? That fact along with the principles of marriage give the lie to the example of the couple who club and do whatever and still are such great friends.

Finally, I missed where the op insinuated that marriages made on short notice were always going to fail while those made after considerable time taken to court or whatever would always succeed. It seems pretty clear to me that Gaggi simply did not engage intellectually with the op. S/he just skipped the whole "thinking" part and jumped straight into the refuting part and ended up saying almost nothing.

Perhaps I'll pick particular posts and respond to them in subsequent posts that I make to address more directly what each poster of interest said.

Ihedinobi: Gaggi, barcanista and nony30 are no longer following this thread, are they? I have a culture of seeing the full development of an issue before I contribute to it, that's why I browsed through the whole thread to make sure I got the full story before commenting.

To start with, nony30 spoke like a real jerk. Of course, everyone's got a right to be whatever they want, but every right comes with a responsibility to accept the consequences or outcomes of exercising them. So, nony30 was a major jerk whom I would have enjoyed going to war with on this thread. How disappointing and rather refreshing that he took his jerkiness elsewhere.

Barcanista, one small shade more courteous than his apparent disciple nony30, was not that smart either. A thread has a specific point of discussion that participants may agree with and reinforce with their own perspectives or disagree with and criticize with their own perspectives. Which did this broda-man do? Agree? He seemed to. Disagree? He seemed to. I think his summary of his arguments or rant or whatever was: there's nothing wrong with putting a timeline on your marriage plans as long as you do it for the right reasons. Which promptly causes me to wonder: did he read the op at all or he just read the title and his mind blanked from the rush of antagonism that had him rushing to type nothing?

His subsequent comments smacked of an annoying arrogance that he felt he'd said something smart for whatever reason.

Gaggi...Gaggi Gaggi Gaggi...whoever this person is, I'm both glad and quite upset that I didn't meet this thread as soon as they first commented. From his/her first comment, I was so put off that I could almost not wait to read the rest to get whatever they really meant to say. I still intend to go back and reread all he/she said so that I'm really sure that I get it. Suffice it to say that my first impression of this person is rather unpleasant. But, I gladly accept that I mightbe wrong. And the reason for being that open to correction was how kulyie responded to him/her. She accorded him/her a respect that I would have reserved for people I thought better of.

Ok. About Gaggi'sresponse to the issue, at first, it did seem like s/he was answering the op then it seemed that s/he was answering kulyie in his/her first post. Now, granted that each marriage and each relationship is unique, are all marriages and all relationships not based on the same principles? That is, are they not all fundamentally the same?

Now, if they are (and they actually are), should someone who gets the fundamentals better not offer what wisdom that they have come to possess to others who may not yet possess it? What is their crime in sharing what they have learned with their friends and people that they care about?

Again, does the fact that human beings are basically very good actors not show that a couple's attitude outside the walls of their own home in the sight of everyone is not necessarily the same as their attitude away from everyone's gaze? That fact along with the principles of marriage give the lie to the example of the couple who club and do whatever and still are such great friends.

Finally, I missed where the op insinuated that marriages made on short notice were always going to fail while those made after considerable time taken to court or whatever would always succeed. It seems pretty clear to me that Gaggi simply did not engage intellectually with the op. S/he just skipped the whole "thinking" part and jumped straight into the refuting part and ended up saying almost nothing.

Perhaps I'll pick particular posts and respond to them in subsequent posts that I make to address more directly what each poster of interest said.

kulyie: orisirisi

biolabee:

dude.. dont turn it on me.. i made error on the wrong thread..see the correct thread

u harassing kulyie again



na today?

tomakint:

tomakint:
I want you you got gut and class this is what makes a lady unique! I mean it cuty

yamunla: kulyie!!! Ma kiye si ara oooo..!!! Ti tomakint ba la Agbalumo e? The guy go be hit and run oo..

tomakint:
Somewhere in the corner of your and my....

Dankarara: In every rule, there is an exception. I propose to my fiancee barely three weeks of meeting her.that was more than a year ago and we've been living hapily ever since. Planning to get married immidiately after my youth service. October by God's grace.

Fussbot: lmao..bro who's been stalking whom naw?u stalking on me or me picking on her?

4get bro..I no dey stalk anybody we just meet on threads dat hit d FP..and bsids dis is d 1st thread I knew her( username)so 4get...bt if I wan retaliate I fit surf 2ru all d pages 2 find u o

Turn wat on u?see I relate with people based on how they present themselves..if u continue lik dis (calm)dat's how it gonna be..bt if u change den u go see my oda side..in psy's voice*i'm a mother father gentleman* I tink we done?

biolabee:

n u have d experience abi??

biolabee:

technically this story does not apply to u
you are not yet married and still in courtship phase (almost 1 year 3 weeks now )



im not stalking u bro.. just that itr seemed u were picking on the lady
though i know she is well capable of taking care of urself just wanted to know if the thing don pass ordianry tinz

u are free to surf pages if u so wish ... u can also insult me if u wish.. its ur prerogative
my reaction or lack of it is also my prerogative.. afterall its a free cyber world

biolabee:

dude.. dont turn it on me.. i made error on the wrong thread..see the correct thread

u harassing kulyie again



na today?

Idowuogbo:
Haaa!!! Oyinbo yi ti Poju fun omo abe bridge yen o! Watch, he'll b bck barking like dose local dogs dem dey call buskie. We no dem! Awon omo elebi.

tintingz: nope... am still learning and watching seeking for knowledge

And i will not discourage people from getting married and having kids
And am not dating Jesus, am serving God

yamunla: Tomakin aye! U wan take sweet words carry kpomo komot for dis thread..u miss road o bros! Awon idi-amin lo wa n bi o!

yamunla: kulyie!!! Ma kiye si ara oooo..!!! Ti tomakint ba la Agbalumo e? The guy go be hit and run oo..

yamunla: kulyie!!! Ma kiye si ara oooo..!!! Ti tomakint ba la Agbalumo e? The guy go be hit and run oo..