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Re: Please Advise Me, I Feel Like Confronting Him by biolabee(m): 2:23pm On May 26, 2013 |
coogar: coogar.. yes the money may have come from his pocket (actually she chipped in) But the money is not his alone but theirs she is not obsessed about the money but the lack of responsibility from the fellow who is behaving like nothing happened That is what rankles her so she is angry on principle I only lend my colleagues money because i know work fear go make dem return am if na outsider, if God touch them them fir return am But generally i would only lend money that if i dont get will not miss Nice pont though .. ifyalways ifyalways: I didn't read the whole thread hence I'm commenting based on OP's opening post. |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Feel Like Confronting Him by biolabee(m): 2:25pm On May 26, 2013 |
coogar: yes oooo....with some small side entertainment to calm the nerves |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Feel Like Confronting Him by greatgod2012(f): 2:44pm On May 26, 2013 |
ileobatojo: ifyalways: I didn't read yhe whole thread hence I'm commenting based on OP's opening post. we didnt really called the wife to report her hubby to her, she also came for financial assistance, and we had to tell her what transpired btwn us and her hubby to her, in order to let her know why we felt somehow relunctannt to help out, we actually gave (dash)her some amount we could afford, and we let her know that it was a gift, but, it wont be okay, if we just gave her a token and do not let her know why we were reluctant to give or borrow her the amount she requested. However, i thank everyone who has come in, in one way or the other to advise, we are learning everyday, and i must confess that my heart is already melt, considering all what i have read here. I thought we are been taken as fools, not knowing that, some other people can be doing such. Actually, we dont give out what we couldnt afford to lose, but in this case, how can one believe a grwn-up man can lie against ATM and bank, we thought he was sincere and that is way we gave the exact amount he requested for. Well, we have learnt our lesson. For the upteenth time, let me say it again, im aint annoyed because of the non-repayment of the loan, im a giver, i know and im a living testimony of "givers never lack", but what annoys me is the game he played to get the money and the game hes playing till now. May God help him. Im not bitter against him, i dont keep malice with him as someone thought here, we crack jokes, we relate well, but i always think we are fools when i see or play with him. Once again, thank you all, its bygone already, the responses here have already melted my heart and i have decided to let go. For those saying i want to disobey my hubby, no! Im not and i will never, but no one can always be right everytime, sometimes, as human being, we just want confirmation from maybe 2-3 people to ascertain whether one is right or not, no one is an island of knowledge, sometimes, someone who is most times right may be atimes wrong, if the majority posts here support my confrontation, then, it means, hubby isnt right this time, then, its time to talk it through with hubby since hes not an angel, he can also make mistake in decision making, so count that out, that im disobeying hubby, im only sampling opinions, which is one of the ways one can be wiser. May God help us all. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Feel Like Confronting Him by Nobody: 4:05pm On May 26, 2013 |
CrazyMan:My ban is yet to be lifted |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Feel Like Confronting Him by StateOfMind: 5:17pm On May 26, 2013 |
SpicyMimi: Mistakes we ladies make is trying to get stuppid opinions frm 3rd parties! Like wth? Why should u include strangers into your personal affair? Its crazy mehn! If u r lookn fOr an xcuse to disobey Ur hubby, do it on your own will nd stp lookn fOr pple to encourage u on that. Did someone cut off this person's head? Why are you running around the thread like a headless chicken? Are you new in the family section or nairaland in general? If you are not ready to read people's 'problems' and offer your advice then buzz off. Jeezzzz.. You don't wanna read people's problems and you are still proffering solution. N, no, keep your advice to yourself. Worry about managing your brain first, not my home. 4 Likes |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Feel Like Confronting Him by biolabee(m): 5:31pm On May 26, 2013 |
nice ... i guess people did not get how the man's wife got involved May God help us all greatgod2012: 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Feel Like Confronting Him by BecaciaBarbie(f): 5:44pm On May 26, 2013 |
SpicyMimi: Mistakes we ladies make is trying to get stuppid opinions frm 3rd parties! Like wth? Why should u include strangers into your personal affair? Its crazy mehn! If u r lookn fOr an xcuse to disobey Ur hubby, do it on your own will nd stp lookn fOr pple to encourage u on that.You nailed it. Have been there.... 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Feel Like Confronting Him by SpicyMimi(f): 5:47pm On May 26, 2013 |
Becacia_Barbie:Thanx |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Feel Like Confronting Him by CNN80: 10:13pm On May 26, 2013 |
ifyalways: I didn't read yhe whole thread hence I'm commenting based on OP's opening post. Which one is "men affair"? It is family money. Before I lend out money, I discuss it with my husband and vice versa. Once we got married, it became our money, not his and not mine. So I don't see how my husband can decide to forfeit a loan without discussing it with me first. And frankly speaking, I am very sensitive about money. So I know that he cannot make such a decision knowing how much it will upset me. What other posters said is true. All the stories about leave him to God or you are sowing a seed is part of what contributes to the lack of accountability in our society. 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Feel Like Confronting Him by baron2000(m): 10:38pm On May 26, 2013 |
debrief08: Nigerians can pet and accept bad behavior. God Almighty bless you for this reply. A docile society is a city waiting to be enslaved by corruption and greed. How do we fight a theiving government when we are afraid to confront an ordinary neighbor? Spineless whimps!!! 1 Like |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Feel Like Confronting Him by Nobody: 12:17pm On May 28, 2013 |
This is why I NEVER lend people money . . . I just don't have the energy for the whole 'pay me back' wahala. I've been there, done that, now I'm older and wiser! If I have excess, I can 'dash', but I'm not giving out loans to nobody. Not asking, not giving! |
Re: Please Advise Me, I Feel Like Confronting Him by kidsam: 12:16pm On Apr 07, 2017 |
StateOfMind: So an idiot finally responds with a confrontation. No matter how long it takes (even 4 yrs) an idiot always gets response |
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