Ok, sometimes it's kind of hard and difficult to ask my husband to grab a CD when we want to have some fun especially when one is half awake . I have a 9 months old and na only God, i for carry another belle since when she was 7 weeks . I know all about safe period, but konji no dey wait for safe period na

My question is to those that have been married for long. Apart from family planning thingy, how do you prevent getting pregnant before the time you planned? Help a sister out before i end up with 4 babies in 5 years . Matured advice please

Hehehehe . . . babay mi you too like better thing!

How hubby and baby? Hope you guys are doing great!

We are doing great Uju. You've not answered my question na At least i know u are not YET pregnant again

I use Implanon. It is an implant in your arm. No need to calculate anything or remember to take injections or swallow pills. Good side effect is that i have not seen my period since i started using it. Bad effect is that i have added my baby weight back but i am working on it. It is good for 3yrs.

baby.me:
We are doing great Uju. You've not answered my question na At least i know u are not YET pregnant again

Don't be too sure oh!

I honestly can't help you out cos, we rely completely on Condoms and withdrawals, that is when I'm not safe. It's inconveniencing but completely worth it!

blank: I use Implanon. It is an implant in your arm. No need to calculate anything or remember to take injections or swallow pills. Good side effect is that i have not seen my period since i started using it. Bad effect is that i have added my baby weight back but i am working on it. It is good for 3yrs.

The bolded makes it a no no for me because we want to try for another baby once our daughter is a year old. This will be an option once we've had the number of kids we want. Thanks.

Ujujoan:

Don't be too sure oh!

I honestly can't help you out cos, we rely completely on Condoms and withdrawals, that is when I'm not safe. It's inconveniencing but completely worth it!

Withdrawal? Not too sure if i want to walk out of the theatre when the show is at it peak Anyway, condom is still the best bet for now, but DAmn, sometimes its sweeter to just roll over and get it done with without opening your eyes

I use implanon too but I started having my periods from when my baby was 3 months! Babe.me, you could try the morning after pills, I've forgotten the name, just google it.

blank: I use Implanon. It is an implant in your arm. No need to calculate anything or remember to take injections or swallow pills. Good side effect is that i have not seen my period since i started using it. Bad effect is that i have added my baby weight back but i am working on it. It is good for 3yrs.

Nuvaring. Insert vaginally and remove after 3 weeks (or 4, depending on whether you want to have a period or not). Basically, you only deal with it once a month, it works like the pill. You can stop anytime and get pregnant.

ileobatojo: Nuvaring. Insert vaginally and remove after 3 weeks (or 4, depending on whether you want to have a period or not). Basically, you only deal with it once a month, it works like the pill. You can stop anytime and get pregnant.

bloody hell.....
how's that supposed to fit in vaginally? won't the man crush into this ring during the act? whatever happened to the old withdrawal method.....

ileobatojo: Nuvaring. Insert vaginally and remove after 3 weeks (or 4, depending on whether you want to have a period or not). Basically, you only deal with it once a month, it works like the pill. You can stop anytime and get pregnant.

Do i go to the clinic to get that inserted? Won't it slip into the uterus during SEx? Is it available in Naija? Please educate me more. thanks

@Coogar withdrawal method do fail especially when the man get selfish atimes

baby.me:

@Coogar withdrawal method do fail especially when the man get selfish atimes

he's your husband - he must know the risks attached to being selfish!

maran1983: I use implanon too but I started having my periods from when my baby was 3 months! Babe.me, you could try the morning after pills, I've forgotten the name, just google it.

Thanks. I started seeing my period when my girl was 4 weeks I mean it's God and postinor 2 or i'll have been pregnant again now because my hubby. . .

baby.me:


Do i go to the clinic to get that inserted? Won't it slip into the uterus during SEx? Is it available in Naija? Please educate me more. thanks

@Coogar withdrawal method do fail especially when the man get selfish atimes

Nope! I insert it myself, it's pretty easy, very soft, you don't feel it. You don't have to worry about it for weeks. You should see the dr to make sure you are a good fit for it with your health history and to get a prescription but that's all you need the doc for.

Available in Naija? I can't say 100%.

coogar:

bloody hell.....
how's that supposed to fit in vaginally? won't the man crush into this ring during the act? whatever happened to the old withdrawal method.....

Easy peasy! Does not interfere with the act at all.

ileobatojo:
Easy peasy! Does not interfere with the act at all.

some of us reach further than that abeg....it's still a no-no for me.

coogar:

some of us reach further than that abeg....it's still a no-no for me.

Here comes baba biology again o! It has nothing to do with reach, it's very flexible and just keeps out of the way.


Did you say a no no for you? So you're the one that will dictate to madam which birth control works best for her? All because of unfounded kpekusing concerns? Mtschieew!

ileobatojo:
Here comes baba biology again o! It has nothing to do with reach, it's very flexible and just keeps out of the way.

it keeps out of the way? it'd better cos if i meet it in there, my tool would cut it.

Did you say a no no for you? So you're the one that will dictate to madam which birth control works best for her? All because of unfounded kpekusing concerns? Mtschieew!

who else? her methods must sit well with me for health & safety reasons otherwise she should seal the opening completely with glue. sex is meant to be thoroughly enjoyed. suyaring should steer clear of me bedroom.

coogar:

it keeps out of the way? it'd better cos if i meet it in there, my tool would cut it.

*facepalm*

coogar:

who else? her methods must sit well with me for health & safety reasons otherwise she should seal the opening completely with glue. sex is meant to be thoroughly enjoyed. suyaring should steer clear of me bedroom.

There's no safety concerns jor and nuvaring does not affect your thorough enjoyment. Stop derailing the thread with your wild tales.

ileobatojo:
*facepalm*

you can buttpalm if you feel like....

There's no safety concerns jor and nuvaring does not affect your thorough enjoyment. Stop derailing the thread with your wild tales.

how do you know there are no safety concerns? are you transgendered or you are a hermaph?

@ ileoba, I heard it will make one gain weight. Is it true?
Really all the fancy name scares the hell out of me. I fear even tampon.
With all the yaz lawsuit you see on tv, I wonder if in the future such will have the same fate?

i'm thinking in the line of having all my kids with less space and then get mine tied or removed.

coogar:

you can buttpalm if you feel like....




how do you know there are no safety concerns? are you transgendered or you are a hermaph?

Okay, sorry there are plenty of safety concerns. As you can see from that picture that the nuvaring has sharp claws set to deploy once the 'tool' comes in contact with it. In fact, it only releases the claws only whatever gets caught in between is completely mangled.

Will you allow OP's thread to proceed in peace now?

armyofone: @ ileoba, I heard it will make one gain weight. Is it true?

I was very scared of that too but I have not had that side effect. But it's definitely a concern which the gyn also warned me of.

ileobatojo:
Okay, sorry there are plenty of safety concerns. As you can see from that picture that the nuvaring has sharp claws set to deploy once the 'tool' comes in contact with it. In fact, it only releases the claws only whatever gets caught in between is completely mangled.

flaming sexist!
i am sure such thoughts give you happiness.

Will you allow OP's thread to proceed in peace now?

it was peaceful until you suggested a device that looks like a male circumcision tool.

ileobatojo:

Okay, sorry there are plenty of safety concerns. As you can see from that picture that the nuvaring has sharp claws set to deploy once the 'tool' comes in contact with it. In fact, it only releases the claws only whatever gets caught in between is completely mangled.

Will you allow OP's thread to proceed in peace now?

Lordy Lordy
laughing sooo hard. You bad

Sorry can't help it

baby.me:


Thanks. I started seeing my period when my girl was 4 weeks I mean it's God and postinor 2 or i'll have been pregnant again now because my hubby. . .

coogar:
it was peaceful until you suggested a device that looks like a male circumcision tool.

Yes! Circumcision tools and nuvaring..... mirror images of each other.... See evidence below.

armyofone:

Lordy Lordy
laughing sooo hard. You bad

ileobatojo:
Yes! Circumcision tools and nuvaring..... mirror images of each other.... See evidence below.

a nail and a knife do not have mirror images of each other but both can draw blood. ileoba, you are a witchdoctor, shouldn't you be prescribing herbs and tree-barks or concoction as contraceptives? when did you become so refined?

OP,

Try IUD

and remove whenever you want to have another baby and its not hormonal

dayokanu: OP,
Try IUD

and remove whenever you want to have another baby and its not hormonal

the sight of the string dangling out of the poontang can be nauseating! it has the semblance of an anorexic ascaris worm.

I depend on LAM the first six months after delivery, then withdrawal method afterwards.i don't plan to space much though.

Check out this thread......
https://www.nairaland.com/1167996/child-spacing/5#15215900