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Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by TrickofTech: 12:47am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: Why is that? (thank you by the way!) The reason why I didn't "make a move" with the girl is because of her brothers...and father. I got the impression that they would not be happy about it. Do guys in Nigeria not like the idea of Yoruba girls being with a foreigner then? |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 12:48am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Then i have officially become chinese |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 12:50am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Texas.Cowgirl:Yes dear you are right, you never know esp on Nairaland but i think he is telling the truth. Either way am just having harmless fun |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by TrickofTech: 12:51am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Texas.Cowgirl: Ohhhhh okay. I was actually complimenting the Yoruba people, not insulting them. I only really mixed with Yoruba and I think you guys are ace Having said that, I have also met Igbo's. They are awesome too. I met one girl from Lagos who was really switched on. |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 12:53am On Jun 05, 2013 |
TrickofTech:Well it depends on the family, some are old school and not so open minded and they may be wary of your intentions towards her. I think it'll be best to find a more "Westernized" girl as it would be easier to understand each other better. Like you said it could be a green card thing. |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Biim: 12:53am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Op I believed you before I saw the picture, I have cousins who are lighter than what you showed us. A clearer picture please. |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 12:56am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 12:58am On Jun 05, 2013 |
TrickofTech: Who said anything about Igbos? You keep digging your own grave. Goodluck, btw |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 1:00am On Jun 05, 2013 |
please leave him o. What if he is telling the truth? On Nairaland anyone can be whoever they want after all we have Kisha sands etc. So let him be. |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 1:02am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: Iyawo oko, mo ti gbo. I keep all 10 of my eyes open on issues like this #unfollowed thread. 1 Like |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 1:03am On Jun 05, 2013 |
But op you are one hell of a photoshopper if the pic is fake. Anyways it's a bit hard to believe because you can really speak the Naija lingo so that is why i guess people are not believing your story. |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Biim: 1:03am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Subomi-luv:Is Kishana Sands not real? I checked and saw her on facebook. |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by TrickofTech: 1:04am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: Yes I can see what you are saying. The family were pretty traditional...although they did like me a lot. They were the ones that joked about marriage...was it a joke? You Nigerians have a very blunt and dry way of saying stuff. I could never tell whether it was jokey sarcasm...or if they wanted to see how I responded. Like I say. She had said to me that it is not right for her to marry a oyinbo, personally. Other times she was extremely forward and flirtatious...saying stuff like she was going to really miss me when I left...wanting to know if I had been with girl (when I returned home). I was always confused about what kind of relationship she wanted (friend/boyfriend etc.) ...and still am. |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 1:05am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Texas.Cowgirl:Am off to bed. Goodnight my dear :-) 1 Like |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 1:05am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Biim:lol she is real but adabeke12 is not Kishana Sands |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 1:07am On Jun 05, 2013 |
TrickofTech:Well i think it's best you forget about her. You do not want a person who will give you mixed signals and play mind games with you. So are you looking for a black women or a Nigerian women or was it just a once of thing? What exactly do you want? |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Florena(f): 1:09am On Jun 05, 2013 |
it is very impossible 4 a person born and bred in UK 2 speak like dis, infact if u re wat u claim u were u wouldn't mind her parent, oyinbos dnt care much abt dat..........and abt d pic, it shows u re black or u can be an albino |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by TrickofTech: 1:10am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: Haha! Thank you very much. I actually tried very hard to integrate into Nigerian life as much as possible...it was very hard. I think I was always seen as a foreigner...but there were times where I was treated like one of the family which was really nice. I have a bit of a grasp of how Nigerian culture works and I know some Yoruba......abi lol : ) |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by TrickofTech: 1:12am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Florena: it Affin lol What am I saying that is sooooooo un-oyinbo? |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 1:16am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Florena: it |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 1:18am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Ada honey pie won't you sleep? Am off to bed and i have to get up early tomorrow 1 Like |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by TrickofTech: 1:19am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: I will stay in contact with her. But as a friend. I regret not telling her I liked her at the time...but there is nothing else I can really do now : ( I am looking for someone...not necessarily black or Nigerian. When I went out there...I convinced myself that I wouldn't get involved emotionally with someone because I assumed that most women were after the whiteness, green card or money. I just ended up getting on with her really well and I think both of us connected...even if it was just as friends. For now..."I am still hoping"/"still looking"...as you say in Nigeria! |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 1:21am On Jun 05, 2013 |
TrickofTech:Ok i see. anyways chat later. It's nice to see that you are interested in our culture. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pZgNPlnw69A |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by TrickofTech: 1:23am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Night Night |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 1:24am On Jun 05, 2013 |
TrickofTech: Ok. Well i wish you the best of luck. One should be careful nowadays men and women as there are too many crooks looking for an easy way out. Goodnight |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 1:33am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Lmaoooo! Mr man stop forming mehn.... Dis na story!!!! U and i know u black pass bance. U oyinbo? Or u mean black albino?You guys make me laugh |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Omobarca: 1:37am On Jun 05, 2013 |
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Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Nobody: 1:39am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Omo_barca: Omo Ode._.I hope you are not referring to me |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Omobarca: 2:00am On Jun 05, 2013 |
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Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by 99cent: 4:38am On Jun 05, 2013 |
@TrickofTech,you say that she is older than you. how old are you? Maybe it's best for you just to remain as friends. it seems clear to me that she likes you although of course i'm sure she also is dreamy about traveling abroad. What I don't know is if she liked u because u r white or for other reasons. I don't know you so I can't tell. If she's 30 then also, it may be getting difficult for her to find a husband. i'm sure her parents are hinting at u if they call u in-law or husband. LOL sometimes, being good friends is good enough. and I like that you are being smart about all of this and thinking carefully. |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by Godson201333(m): 4:54am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Another super story.... |
Re: Really Liked A Naija (yoruba) Girl And Regret Not Doing Anything (i'm Oyinbo) by andyanders: 7:08am On Jun 05, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Lmaoooo! Mr man stop forming mehn.... Dis na story!!!! U and i know u black pass bance. U oyinbo? Or u mean black albino? Idowuogbo, In fact I know a white man cannot write this way and this to me is fiction. |
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