Pedagogue: @Reality 101, I hardly comment on NL ...but I must note, your balderdash posts forced me to submit this post!!!
Your comments give u away as a self righteous wassock who derives infernal pleasure from freshening people's sores! Why comment when you have no advice to give to d Op? As if this is not enough, you've been hurling unnecessary insults at d Op! You need to start respecting women son!!!

Pedagogue: @Reality 101, I hardly comment on NL ...but I must note, your balderdash posts forced me to submit this post!!!
Your comments give u away as a self righteous wassock who derives infernal pleasure from freshening people's sores! Why comment when you have no advice to give to d Op? As if this is not enough, you've been hurling unnecessary insults at d Op! You need to start respecting women son!!!


@ d Op,I think d very first question that your post did not answer is, are you married to this Edo/Igbo guy? if yes, you have awesome powers over him...that is if you are ready to use them!!!

That aside, I will not in anyway blame u 4 what has happened, 'cos the past cannot be changed!!! But Op, do u know that your mentality about polygamy mite have indirectly encouraged your bf/husband to throw caution to d dogs! U can only change this if u tell him to either CHOOSE you or his naija wife/GF . Tell him that you are not ready to play second fiddle ...!!!

Believe me, he'll probably choose you and be meeting with the other woman in secret ...Since you are not really against polygamy, a subtle knowledge of his 'cheating' cannot really affect u!!! One golden advantage that this tactics will have is - He'll make u feel as if you are the only woman in his life...he'll not also have the effrontery to brandish the existence of the other woman 2 your face!!!


If he however refuses to choose u over her, pls kick out his ass and tell him it's over ...Believe me dear. U'll get find another man in no distant time!!!

*If this 'experience' has in anyway tainted your impression about Nigerians, pls erase it...! Not all Nigerians are bad, not all Nigerians are good!!! Cheers

lostgirl85: Wow some of you all are very rude no wonder he wants me to stay if her mouth is anything like some of you ladies!! Sheesh and you call yourselves Christians just remember God is watching. And sue me for wanting to raise my daughter in a home with her mum and dad and for the last time I am brown skin and sexy as hell!! Will post a picture

REALITY101:

Sexy as hell? Cropping off your face huh? That could be anybody you. Not like I give a damn bout what you look like though.

Please leave this dude and move on with your life. Chances are, he's with you cuz you're good in bed than his Nigerian wife or he's just plain wicked and stupidd. That you're pregnant or have a man's child doesn't mean he's your soulmate.

I have 99cents saying he's not gonna leave his African wife girlfriend for you.

lostgirl85:



Thank you for your wise words I have told him it is over, he said he is coming tomorrow to have dinner and talk I told him that is not necessary so he said he is getting on a train tonight to come and talk to me Oh the stress I just don't want the drama and he told me he wants me not her, he is trying to raise money to send her back to Nigeria as she has caused nothing but trouble by breaking up all his things. I really wish this process was easier

lostgirl85:

I reposted with my face just for you and I surely will be taking the pic down tonight and I only posted it because people kept saying I was white and I am far from it

lostgirl85:

I reposted with my face just for you and I surely will be taking the pic down tonight and I only posted it because people kept saying I was white and I am far from it

Pedagogue:


Pls take it down ASAP ! You have nothing to gain by proving that you are what you claimed you are!!! Even if you wear a nairaland shirt , some will still claim that Dts not you!!! This is an anonymous forum ...hence, anybody can write any gibberish!!! JUST IGNORE THEM- D MORE U HONOUR THEM WITH REPLIES, d more they post rubbish!


As per your decision, I think it's a good one. Who knows, it mite be d end of your union or deepen your relationship...my guess is, d guy is gonna tell u (when u meet tomorrow) all the sweet things of this world and u will fall once again!!! But if u do, I advice u tell him STRONGLY that you cannot play second fiddle, if he wants u...he should be ready to stick with only u! Cheers

Pedagogue:


Pls take it down ASAP ! You have nothing to gain by proving that you are what you claimed you are!!! Even if you wear a nairaland shirt , some will still claim that Dts not you!!! This is an anonymous forum ...hence, anybody can write any gibberish!!! JUST IGNORE THEM- D MORE U HONOUR THEM WITH REPLIES, d more they post rubbish!


As per your decision, I think it's a good one. Who knows, it mite be d end of your union or deepen your relationship...my guess is, d guy is gonna tell u (when u meet tomorrow) all the sweet things of this world and u will fall once again!!! But if u do, I advice u tell him STRONGLY that you cannot play second fiddle, if he wants u...he should be ready to stick with only u! Cheers

lostgirl85:


Thank you for your wise words

lostgirl85:


Thank you for your wise words after I put the picture up I thought to myself that it was stupid someone can now steal my pic and post it on the Internet [color=#770077][/color]

lostgirl85:


Thank you for your wise words after I put the picture up I thought to myself that it was stupid someone can now steal my pic and post it on the Internet [color=#770077]

Pedagogue:


Yw! Glad you smartly removed the picture! And again, I'm glad u equally ignored mischief makers...it should not end there though- please ensure you do not reply to mails that may likely flood your inbox anytime soon!!! Scammers and fraudsters use different methods/ways, pls be wise!

Nevertheless, enjoy yourself on nairaland. Cheers[/color]

CAMEROONPRIDE: I want to see the white erm the black girl

El Guapo: I hate to be the bearer of badnews, Edo aint Igbo in any phucking way!

Get ur Stats right, and stop accusing an Innocent tribe of such Felony!

2buff: Why are people insulting the OP though?
Is this unhappiness?

2buff: Why are people insulting the OP though?
Is this unhappiness?

El Guapo: I hate to be the bearer of badnews, Edo aint Igbo in any phucking way!

Get ur Stats right, and stop accusing an Innocent tribe of such Felony!

lostgirl85:


I am not African so please don't be so offended if I was I wouldn't have even made this post and he is definitely EDO, from Benin City

REALITY101:

Ma'am your religion is Islam right?

lostgirl85:

That's how I was raised but I no longer practice

REALITY101:

Hmmmm ok!

Pls let that man go no matter how hard it may be. He's just using you and at the same time practicing the normal African polygamy bs in your face. Btw what race are you?

Africans especially Nigerian men are good in sweet talking, don't let him foo l you more. Oh one more thing, no more ban ging with him

lostgirl85:


I am here laughing!! Lol!! I am from Bermuda it's very close to America but I moved to the UK about 3yrs ago and I am trying my hardest to let him go, believe me

REALITY101:

Sure I know Bermuda island you can get there via North Carolina. I've been there once. As a matter fact there's this lazy arss raster dreadlocks dude from there that works for us.

Why are you laughing well, don't forget everything that I told you..