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Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by yemmight(m): 10:26am On Jun 07, 2013 |
No matter what your wife might have done wrong, kneeling down for your subordinate is not the solution. The humiliation is unbearable for womanhood. That woman will never forget in her life. Even as husbands, we should learn to respect our wives. No one is impeccable. Does it mean that he has not done something worse to his wife before? What about if the situation is way round? Some of the people commenting here are singles, if you are married you will then know that both husbands and wives are equal. It is archaic to start treating our wives as slaves. Come to think of it, this news is everywhere. Who should be ashamed? 2 Likes |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by todayguest(m): 10:27am On Jun 07, 2013 |
There are lesons here. Many times we speak without caution. Men and women are guilty in act like this. Accusing without substantive evidence. |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by skibochi(m): 10:47am On Jun 07, 2013 |
Well, the woman was actually given a choice to end the marriage....if she had real conviction that her husband was actually having this affair, she could have called it quit and the man can come running back to her for forgiveness if we eventually find that it is true. What i will not tolerate if for you to start telling any tom, dick and family member about our issues. That is for you and i to settle not them. We should first remove the dirt in our iwn eye before trying to remove for others. 1 Like |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by chacha3(f): 10:50am On Jun 07, 2013 |
israel007: The wife's accusation is most def right. Either that or the man is bleeping his aide. Else why would u humiliate your wife like that before an aide! Rubhishthat wil be over my dead body. Rubbish. |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by chax100(f): 11:01am On Jun 07, 2013 |
Poor woman, your husband lacks wisdom and good judgment. I feel for you. What a humiliation! 2 Likes |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by collynzo2(m): 11:03am On Jun 07, 2013 |
skibochi:That's the point, the woman had been embarassing the man for over 2 years by telling everyone about their 'problems' according to the article. Both were wrong, but we don't have the full details anyway. |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by SlimSeyI(m): 11:06am On Jun 07, 2013 |
enm:Well said!!! |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by darkashes(m): 11:34am On Jun 07, 2013 |
as if say the woman dey lie. that was just to cover up for the bullshit, to make her believe all is well. 1 Like |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by talktimi(m): 11:44am On Jun 07, 2013 |
oluwateo:the issue I'm emphasizing on is the public humiliation she had to pass through which was totally uncalled for, if you're okay with it then no wahala I'm just telling you that its wrong to treat your wife in such manner. 1 Like |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by jpphilips(m): 11:54am On Jun 07, 2013 |
Abbott: What a shame! His opinion landed him a deputy Gov. yours landed you 53 likes on Nairaland, bros i know the difference. 3 Likes |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by SaintEddie: 11:58am On Jun 07, 2013 |
What do u expect the ministry of women affairs to do in this matter, its a family affairs, (remember, the aide is the man's relation) and the man gave his wife two options either to kneel and apologise or quit/end the marriage. Did the man beat his wife? Did he harrass her? Why must u guys back/support nonsense? Why can't u guys blame the madam for the insults she caused the husband? Oh! So its not an insult for confronting the husband's aide abi? Women en! The man was even linient with her. |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by jpphilips(m): 12:09pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
chi4ik: The man is a fool, ♓☺w on earth will U̶̲̥̅̊ tell ur lovely wife to kneel down before ur servant? The violation $ humiliation of women should be stop. ΨђåƮ a shamless man! During the days of our fathers whose marriages were most respected, our mothers don't dare look our fathers in the eye and talk let alone have the privilege of throwing baseless tantrums. |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by jpphilips(m): 12:20pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
Yoshi-Master: Does Nigerian ladies understand the difference? |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
the governor and his aide must be gay lovers. he has just succeeded in embarrasing himself...at least the wife should have kneeled to him and not to some common aide! 2 Likes |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by ikchi: 12:47pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
What a shame. 1 Like |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by eyennyin: 12:54pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
ogb5: She was given a choice. Either kneel down or end of marriage. Sharp woman, she kneel quickly.At night in the bedroom oga will do his own kneeling. Who never kneel before even doing head. 1 Like |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by Nobody: 1:09pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
israel007: The wife's accusation is most def right. Either that or the man is bleeping his aide. Else why would u humiliate your wife like that before an aide! Rubhish The aide is said to be a relative to the deputy governor. And madam may have gone beyond all reason to insult the aide hence oga consider such an insult to his family (aide who happen to be her inlaw ) and gave her d option. Though I aint supporting d deputy gov since am not privy to all that happened but we know how our women behaves when in such positions with wealth attached too. And as per the option she get choice cos if agrees to divorce na her people go 1st ask her * u dey craze? so na because of girlfriend make u leave ur husband * u dey sure say no be witch dem dey pursue u so * How many girlfriend d man don get self wey u wan kill urself * How many husband u dey see for road not to talk of one wey be deputy governor And if insist on divorce some of her people go come add curse to her injury. But she be sharp woman wey understand naija wella and no go allow girlfriend overthrow her |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by swtcharissa(f): 1:40pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
And who brought this news out from the government house..... |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by ragoannagogia: 1:44pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
ALL DE PPLE WER DE ACUSED D GOV NA DIA WIVES BE DIA OGA |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by devour129: 2:14pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
some-girl:GBAM ! I keep telling these guys.if you keep late nights,travel a lot, don't care about your family with d tot that av provided shelter n food etc and you wife have never protested,nna check ur self or run for your life. No man or woman wants to share there partner only people that have detached themselves from you,don't let your lady get use to you not being there or showing love cos that's the beginning of the end.most women will stay n make you pay at your old age and some will start now. 1 Like |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
He got no respect for this woman even though what she did was wrong i guess she dosent respect her husband either, Y asking the aide, it should have been an indoor thaang |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by jpphilips(m): 2:41pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
eko ileee: With all your sophistication, you still pray for a crude Nigerian man to come and propose, in your armaments are, fasting and prayers, Night vigil etc. i dey laugh!!! 1 Like |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by IYANGBALI: 3:06pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
talktimi: just pretend this woman is your sister then tell me how you'll feel.abeg spare us the sermon. The woman asked for it and she got it |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by IYANGBALI: 3:09pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
swtcharissa: And who brought this news out from the government house.....oga na amebo |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by anonimi: 3:27pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
skibochi: Well, the woman was actually given a choice to end the marriage....if she had real conviction that her husband was actually having this affair, she could have called it quit and the man can come running back to her for forgiveness if we eventually find that it is true. Indeed she was given a choice but I imagine that since she probably has no real DIGNITY or capacity to earn money beyond whatever her husband gives her, she nor get choice but to swallow whatever pride she has and go down to beg the Aide. Shameful!!! Now those who their heads properly screwed will know that P-Square's baby mama who has been labelled as Ms. Independent is way better than all these I-must-marry-and-stay-married-at-all-cost penkelemesi women. 1 Like |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by jpphilips(m): 3:54pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
NAMDOSKY30: He got no respect for this woman even though what she did was wrong i guess she dosent respect her husband either, Y asking the aide, it should have been an indoor thaang some ironies you have there, she deserves some respect while doing the wrong thing! lol, sounds like giving an armed robber a descent burial, Wole will say you are speaking from the two compasses of your mouth |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by ImaBruno: 4:04pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
Are u serious? Menn, that's some serious humiliation, its just show how he is at home. Respect is reciprocal, this thing should have been settled at home. He just lost my respect. Real men don't treat their WIVES like that in public. Don't use your N5 and grow wingsssssss |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by jpphilips(m): 4:22pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
anonimi: being a real husband comes with tact and maturity, what people don't know about leadership even in marriage is that discipline sends the right message, depending on how far the woman went, the stronger the message. these sentiments of disrespect doesn't hold any ground, if she has an iota of regards for the man that kept her in his home for years, who has delivered her from the reproach of spinster hood, she at the very least, do herself a favor by quitting if you are sure of the scandal or keep shut. The man is in a business or career of image making and corporate packaging, a wife with a loose tongue is unhealthy for such a man as such the man has the option of letting her destroy him or discipline her by sending a strong message. A man and a woman are not one in a marriage, the bible is a spiritual book, and i will understand if they are one spiritually, physically (like the case here) the man is the head while the woman follows, there are tenements that makes you a follower and vice versa. the man did what a man would do, if you cant keep shut, go out there and get yourself another husband. i feel sorry for loads of spinsters including the one saying over her dead body. the reality is very far from what religion stipulates. its very common for Africans to throw away commonsense hiding behind religion. let me ask the ladies, of what use is a man who doesn't provide for his family and not making even futile efforts to reverse the status quo? do they call themselves husbands? they don't qualify to be husbands, same goes for a woman who is disrespectful to the husband, does she qualify to be a wife? at that point where she is wagging her tail, she is not a wife to the Man except when she falls back to submission and imbibe the tennents of a follower. we let sentiments to be cloud our sense of reasoning, imagine someone quoting marital vows, was she wagging her mouth on the Alter when the vows were made? how can the vow become a deterrent to discipline meted on a misdemeanor? the man put her in a difficult situation as such she chose an option that disciplined her. and yes, discipline is one of the tools of leadership. if you cant discipline, you cant lead. 1 Like |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by spoilt(f): 4:52pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
@Ogb5 Excuse me but who else will help him hide his loot in an account that his name is not on? Trust me it will be wifey of many years. Men do know when they need you. They know on which side their bread is buttered. And yeah after all the s&!t he put me through, damn right I wont be thinking of any legitimate business. Are you joking? It wont be the end of the world though. He probably will have enough stashed elsewhere to feed his army of whores whose existence he can deny till kingdom come. As for me. . . . I will be fine! |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by jpphilips(m): 5:16pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
spoilt: @Ogb5 yea yea yea!! in a world where the so called "good women" compete with whores and she still claims she is the best that happened since cocoa butter in her man's life, i dey laugh!! |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
Na wa o... |
Re: Cross-River Deputy-Gov Orders Wife To Kneel Down And Apologize To His Aide. by Nobody: 5:54pm On Jun 07, 2013 |
collynzo2: Internet warrior alert! I am sure in real life, you're being used even more than this woman.oh you're very sure about that? Haha Fallacy of assumption. Anyway I'd have you know that I cannot accept any form of debasement from a man.and internet to me is real life.I'm not like some of you who put fake names with no profile picture so that people won't know the real you.I'm here.I'm real.my man can see my posts.so what the heck are you talking about?if I didn't know who I have or what he's like,do you think I'll come here to make hypocritical comments?I stand by everyword I speak.so it might be internet for you,for me it's the same as real life.but you wouldn't understand that.because you're just another faceless coward using the internet to express the thoughts they dared not voice in public.but guess what?I'm not afraid or cowardly or 'bigotted' or biased or unsure of myself like you probably are.I say it,the way I feel it. |
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