I meet her in church few years back I mean (4years) ago, we are both in love she was a virgin and we promise our self that we will not have sex till we get married, well she came up with that idea, I was so faithful cos I love her so much,

What really happened, I was at home sleeping ,I got a text message from my her, it reads ( hi kunle u dint even call me after that day I was sick and went to the hospital for check up and doc said that am pregnant), she mistakenly send the test message to my phone, I could not imagine how that could be possible, have never slept with her one day how did she get pregnant, not knowing she as been sleeping with someone else.

i have to confirm from her friend and she said it was a mistake that she got pregnant,
what kind of mistake his that?

GUYS WHAT CAN I DO? 4 YEARS RELATIONSHIP ( she went for D & C ) and she his begging me for 8weeks now to forgive her and we should come back ummmmmmmmmmm

Ladies advise me on what to do
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Yeanka 08023296310
E-mail akinsowona@yahoo.com

yank her out of ur life and move on.

she did this while u guys were dating and u were faithful to her . . wat won't she do when u guys get married? 10 yrs later, u will find out that Iyabo, debo, segun and junior ain't ur kids . . . better wisen up guy!

what kind of advice do you need nah?

If you want to take her back, fine. 

If you decide not to overlook the fact that she cheated on you, got pregnant and had an abortion, then let her be and move on.

It doesnt mean you should be bitter at her, though you have every right to be. But you don't have to continue with the relationship. Am just saying all this because I could be wrong but you seem like a laidback kind of fellow, going by your post. Most guys wont agonize about whether they should dump this kind of person or not. They'll just do it on the spot.

Chalk it down to life experience. Everyone has to pass through one trial or another at some point in time.

Forgiving her doesnt mean you have to take her back. Things can never be the same as they were before.

shame on u . . .

remove ur fone no sharp sharp jare . . .u wan make people dey console u on top say u allow woman mugun u

she betrayed your trust for her. You should leave her and continue with your life but the love for her with die gradually.

As a Christian I would definitely ask you to forgive her but it is up to you to decide if you can continue in the relationship or not.

@ topic.

Man, I really do feel your pain. I don't know why I find it so annoying when I hear that girls cheat on boys, meanwhile i feel good when boys cheat on girls

I think you should move on. But before you "discharge" her finally, I will suggest you fool her into believing you've forgiven her and use that opportunity to give her the f*u*c*k of her life and dump her real hard! . . . . (no crucify me ooo, na my opinion)

Are you even sure she was a virgin as she claimed at the inception of the relationship?

I would have said, Guy Shine Your Eye, but unfortunately, its too late.

Why do fools fall in love?

you have been punked

what you couldnt do in four years your fellow man did in one day.

Well, to answer your questions.

Will i ever forgive her?  Maybe

Will i take her back? That Question got me laughing.  The answer is OH! hell NO

@poster

if not because ive given my life to christ,i would have washed u down now,wat advise r u looking for?wat kinda help do u need hiaaaa?is the ansa not obvious enough,is it not clear to u dat u should pick her up and fling her into d hands of d guy dat got her pregnant

Ladies advise me on what to do
Yeanka 08023296310
E-mail akinsowona@yahoo.com

First u were asking ladies the question
Secondly u gave out ur No , i can see u're looking for a girl not advice

^{*move to poster and hit his head with a broken bottle*} thats good for u fool

the guy never still commot hin number

chei!!!
send thugs to her make den beat the remaining belle commot
u dey kolo!

@ Poster

For four long years?

Hummmmm ain't that something, like someone said earlier on what

Sorta advice do ya need?, The writing is clearly on the wall ITS TIME TO MOVE ON.

Good Luck OOOOOOOOOO.

My brother, you are very funny,i might just consider this a joke but if its for real what are you still waiting for , let her go,dude find yourself another girl and this time f@#k her.dont waste no time,4 yrs without sex how did you cope or are you a wankster.
Yinka If you are a virgin and you really want to get laid,I got something for you.
Good luck

Wld find it hard to forgive such person,
@ poster
Just forgive her and move on with your life.
Only God knows how long this went on for, i mean ur girlfriend sleeping with this other guy.
May God forgive her.

She sent you that text because it was God's way of telling you look and see what is happening under your nose. i know you must be devastated but you need to let her go. Give yourself time to heal, pray and God will BRING you that special person,

That sucks though , I wish you all the best. g][b][/b]GOD MAKES WAYS WHEN THERE ARE NONE

what is her story, i mean why did she cheat on you. . . . . you never know amybe there is something behind it. lets find out first. she might be raped. . . .or did it for the guy himself. . . . details pls

@ Topic, I really understand your point, but men believe me, from the bottom of my heart, U deserve a slap from the pit of hell. HOw u go let babe shit u lik that If she did this now, i swear, she'll do it again. Believe me

@acidrop

Y not read the sms again, (hi kunle u dint even call me after that day I was sick and went to the hospital for check up and doc  said that am pregnant), now does this sound like "i was raped" or does it sound like "Honey i did it for our future", lemme tell you what it sounds like "I was Hot and i couldn't hold myself moreover i'm keeping this guy for the future, he'll never know, he's a mugu that loves me, so i can play on his head and get ma groove outside and i'll be his when we get married".

Atleast he never mentioned that she is a virgin.

pls i advise you,go on with your life,you were even lucky you found out.

Is this girl in lagos?
If yes,then iam not suprise
but my candid advise, is to use her,suck her, rip her and then dump her becos she is a dam ashi
MOst girl r just imaginary virgins
but they are wide like high way to hell
tk heart guy n never trust a girl

If not because i am in a very good mood today. . . . . .i would have cursed you for this Kinda silly advise you are asking here.
She didn't only cheat on you. . . .she even got pregnant and you're here crying like a baby for advise. . . Pffffsssssssssss!
Kick that trick out of your life !

elizabetta:

please i advise you,go on with your life,you were even lucky you found out.

Got it spot on

there is no need for any advice rather u shud leave her.am a female too nd if i d done dat i ll knw definate no going back to d guy
am suprise she is telling u to accept her back.
some ladies re funny.