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| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 5:35am On Jun 23, 2013 |
SniperInADiaper: And Buff is free to join us |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 5:36am On Jun 23, 2013 |
REALITY101: No  |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 5:37am On Jun 23, 2013 |
Lol why.. Sounds like we gonna do something else after that? |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 5:49am On Jun 23, 2013 |
REALITY101: Lol why.. Sounds like we gonna do something else after that?  No  |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 5:56am On Jun 23, 2013 |
SniperInADiaper: goodnight.. I have a party to be @ maybe I would get some over there  |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by bobthebuilder99(m): 5:56am On Jun 23, 2013 |
See what happens when you start a thread about fat people... They start talking about cupcakes! SMH |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 6:03am On Jun 23, 2013 |
bobthebuilder99: See what happens when you start a thread about fat people... Sorry.. My fat fingers just start taking over and cant help themselves  |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 6:03am On Jun 23, 2013 |
bobthebuilder99: See what happens when you start a thread about fat people...  this Shiit is funny |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 6:23am On Jun 23, 2013 |
REALITY101: Reality go look at the thread I just created.. |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 6:28am On Jun 23, 2013 |
SniperInADiaper: Ok honey  on it |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Notrab: 8:54am On Sep 09, 2013 |
My wife has got fat, 65kg when we met now 100kg now. So unattractive she is nothing like the person I married and it pisses me off so much!! She just doesn't understand always excuses tried this diet tried that but doesn't stick to any. It had caused lots if arguments what do I do?? I have said if I turned into some crazy alcoholic that would not be attractive and you would question what you were going with me. Is this so wrong, why do I get stuck with the fat wife?? It would mean so much to me for her to be thin. Her parents are overweight and have had on going health issues too. She needs to sort it not just for me but our kids 1 Like |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 9:25am On Sep 09, 2013 |
Let me remind you that African men love flesh and not bones. There are also women who have traits/family history of genetic morbid obesity. Not all slim/thin ladies stay that way forever. All over the world, these cases re prevalent. So good luck in your quest for miss world. N/B: I don't subscribe to voluntary obesity though (eating oneself to stupor). |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by ireneidiva(f): 10:37am On Sep 09, 2013 |
BellaDonaFema: Ilet me remind you that African men love flesh and not bones. There are also women who have traits/family history of genetic morbid obesity. Not all slim/thin ladies stay that way forever. All over the world, these cases re prevalent. So good luck in your quest for miss world.Story! If you know you have those genes, you start working out on time. Or engage in a sport. You don't wait until you have three kids before you start working out. Even if you are as thin as a stick you need to work out! This is my problem with africans especially women. Even if you are pregnant, watch what you eat and keep working out! Except you are sick during your pregnancy!!! 1 Like |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 10:58pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
ireneidiva:You must know that there re certain factors that can't be changed. Mind you, I don't ve fatty genes/genetic obesity. I have encountered people with such health issues/birth defects and I ve also researched on such cases. Im the most active and sporty woman you could ever come across, so please note that! kapish! |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by ireneidiva(f): 11:03pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
BellaDonaFema:Your opinion. |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 11:15pm On Sep 09, 2013 |
ireneidiva:Yeah! Whatever! |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 2:02am On Sep 10, 2013 |
Personally I find fat unattractive. My man who is in his mid forties recently started gaining weight and even got a pot belly, I had to find a diplomatic way to address the issue and now he goes to the gym all the time. There's no reason to let yourself go just because you are married and people need to realise that with age and\or kids you need to make more effort to constantly exercise and watch what you eat. 2 Likes |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Avalani(m): 11:42am On Sep 10, 2013 |
kepsi123: If you married right, you stop seeing the outside person. You look at your wife and all you see is support, a bridge to your continuous success and all sort of good things. Grow up a little and your views will change. I think you are the one who needs to grow up. Physical attraction is the most important aspect of marriage in my opinion (and guess what: I'm not married). My reason for believing this is simple; most fatal marital problems are either physical or financial, and less often all those he doesn't play scrabble with me anymore things 1 Like |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Avalani(m): 11:45am On Sep 10, 2013 |
Les: the fatter you are before marriage, the fatter u are after marriage... #TeamIlean the best quote I have gotten from nairaland in a while. Thanks, Les. I intend using the quote, hope you don't mind |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Avalani(m): 11:50am On Sep 10, 2013 |
ceasare: @bob d builder u ve sd it all.is it d fatness or thiness that matters or your wifes personality nd her inner beautiful.when u love some1 u love them wholeheartedly nd d physical doesnt count or change d luv or attraction we hv 4 them...and who says a thin woman cant grow overweight afta marriage?! for those looking for slim wife. Shiooor. |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by drmary: 8:24pm On Sep 10, 2013 |
@avalani u may need to reconsider your opinion about physical attraction being the most important factor for u in marriage.u ll do yourself a lot of good if u see beyond d physical. Trust me,marriage is not for d faint hearted ,infact husbands of most fat married women don't even see the excess adipose tissue n stretch marks,they see far beyond that.I had to take a conscious effort to loose weight cos my husband was not complaining at all(ko tie riro rara) . So don't be too hard on yoursef life is too short look inward, be true to yourself and pray well.May God give you the bone n flesh dt is yours.cheers. 2 Likes |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Avalani(m): 7:22am On Sep 11, 2013 |
drmary: @avalani u may need to reconsider your opinion about physical attraction being the most important factor for u in marriage.u ll do yourself a lot of good if u see beyond d physical. good for you that naivety isn't a crime. please try not to romanticise and novelize marriage. marriage is for anyone who feels up to it. war is not for the faint-hearted. most ladies choose their life partner based on financial capability, muguism, or sexual prowess. Most men get married because their bachelor time is up (societal demands), they want to have kids, etc. Keep the God-fearing and love thing at the corner. I'm not saying they don't count, I'm just saying they (along with personality) are secondary. Most men cheat. Lots of married women are joining the club. I know because I'm single (go figure). Most likely your sunday services together is a sham. Some men don't mind obese and stretch-marked women, but they probably still cheat. And the older you become (a physical thing), the less sex you'll get from your (cheating) husband. You either cheat back, get a divorce, or stay for your children. In conclusion, most marriages are defective from day one because of the real reasons behind their union. Besides, good personalities are found in good guys, and ladies (silly as they are ) do not find that attractive. |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by no1madman(m): 11:58am On Sep 11, 2013 |
i'm so into sexy orobos. . .it runs in my Family. . in fact,no orobo,no life. .orobo 4 life! |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Princesszoe: 7:15pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
no1madman: i'm so into sexy orobos. . .it runs in my Family. .Sorry |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 8:27pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Theres a difference between being fat and over weight. A girl between 80kg and 100 is sexy especially if she is confident in her shape and size. Fat girls rock, skiny girls look hungry or anorexic |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 10:46pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
Mrs.Chima:There is nothing worse than a man with a fat ass and breast. That ish turn's me off. A man with a bigger ass than me gosh I cannot deal. It works both ways. Men and Women should not let themselves go. @ op if you are really worried than marry someone who is body conscious(the type who despises being fat) and if perhaps ur spouse gained weight then you could always join the gym with her or support her. |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
bobthebuilder99: In Africa, it is common for women to get SUPER fat after having children, and then they just stay that way for the rest of their lives. I think it is disgusting.. About women getting fatter after marriage, sometimes they don't let go of themselves...its just that the stress of being a mother and a wife catches up to them. A woman with a job,mother to let's say 3 kids has much more on her mind than a single woman who can focus on looking pretty and slim,especially when her husband doesn't help out a lot...she wakes up, cooks bfast, gets kids ready 4 sch. Serves their food, gets ready 4 work, maybe drops them off b4 work, picks them up after work, goes home, cooks lunch, directs them on what to do, bathe etc...her hubby gets back serves his food, while doing all this, she's thinking about dinner, what will the children eat? And already her mind drifts into the nxt day...in all that where do you expect her to fit in a gym...a diet(most women on a diet, especially on the first few days get cranky)...at this point she lives for her children...her family. Its left to the husband to encourage her, take care of the kids for a while maybe on weekends to enable her take care of her self. (Stress and lack of sleep encourages weight gain) . So if you get married and you don't want your wife to get fat, take care of her and help her out so she can take care of herself... Most women put on the weight when their children are between 0-5yrs especially if they get no help...raising children aint easy. Also even if she doesn't lose the weight...you should still love her anyway because what you saw to make you marry her should be within(her behaviour/personality etc) not her exterior appearance(that should be a minor issue) |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by AlyricistLaura: 4:51am On Sep 12, 2013 |
African Women Blow Up When they Come to the States I think it's the Fast Food and Western Diet. No Strict Regulations on Our Foods. African Women Grow Huge Over Here. |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Monicasque(f): 6:53am On Sep 12, 2013 |
its only natural that after having a baby a woman will gain weight but its also adviceable to work on it because the truth is we all wana look sexy for ourselves, husbands, kids and everone involved in our lives. Sisters lets work on the weight plz. it dont do us any good to just allow things to get out of control. Its never to late to work on it. I KNOW |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by zeb04(f): 7:16am On Sep 12, 2013 |
Pls oh everyone shld work on their weight. Even ur husband wil get tired of ur fatness in my family we al watch our weight infact my dad won't even let u go fat. Ahh his insult alone. Anyways I welgh 6o nd my bmi is 24 am tryin 2 get 2, 23 fatness is unattractive weda single or married. Nd u wil feel cool abt ur self knowin dat ur lap is nt like those broiler fowl |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by no1madman(m): 9:26am On Sep 12, 2013 |
Princess zoe: Sorryhahaha! see ur toto 4 my balcony!see ur toto 4 my balcony! |
| Re: Do You Still Love Your Fat Wife? by Monicasque(f): 12:02pm On Sep 12, 2013 |
HOuse i think we also need to remember that there just this kind of lepa that is also not attractive |
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