greatgod2012: @efe and donchris, its ok please, i think this thread should be a mirror of our past or proposed mistakes of life, not a thread to point accusing fingers, pls, biko, e joo, yankuri,let peace reign pls.
@all, i just want us to remember that we are all sinners saved by grace, for those of us that doubted God and did it, we knew it was a sin, we've asked for forgiveness and we believed that we've been forgiven, and for those who did not do it before wedding, im sure they must have commited other sins, though may not be related to pre-marital sex, but sin is sin and im sure they had also sought for forgiveness, which i believe they have been forgiven, hence, no saint anywhere, and no pointing of fingers to anyone, we are all sinners saved by grace and more grace we shall get to continue doing His will IJN.
Thanks.

bellong:



God is readily available to reveal unto us whatever things that are in darkness and hidden unto us.

Not to derail the thread, I want to share a short experience of my profession. I was once engaged to a lady who by our physical and open eye assessment was more innocent than virgin Mary. Everybody in church at the time can defend her innocence piety. Although I never prayed about it, I just felt she was good enough as a chaste and respectful Christian sister. Along the line in the relationship, God told me to break the union and I will understand why afterwards. It took me time to obey but I eventually did. Not long afterwards, she confessed to being possessed and she had destroyed destinies of a lot of people in school via sex. She told me she tried adding me to her ranks but she couldn't tell how I escaped. I remember a day that I didn't know the force that came upon me, I nearly went down on her but by His grace I took cover. She told me that she had completed her spiritual assignment to bring me down that day but she didn't understand how I escaped it.


In essence, there's nothing God can't reveal to us only if we are sincere and truthful with Him. He is our Creator, He knows and understands our needs including sex-ual desires. He designed it in the first place. If I had test driven the said lady, I wouldn't know where I will be today.


That doesn't mean am perfect or a walking Jesus but I will always admit my mistakes and weakness rather than conjuring reasons to defend them.

Ishilove:
Hm, many people have mortgaged their destinies on the altar of sex. All these marine and witchcraft babes on the prowl make me worried for my male relatives.

*shudder*

jidegirl12: OMGosh!!

Bros , Donchris Abeg sheath your words... Please... Efe e don do oh ....okay shows over.

Ile , I'm still looking forward to your post on this.

Ishilove:
Hm, many people have mortgaged their destinies on the altar of sex. All these marine and witchcraft babes on the prowl make me worried for my male relatives.

*shudder*

Ishilove:
Hm, many people have mortgaged their destinies on the altar of sex. All these marine and witchcraft babes on the prowl make me worried for my male relatives.

*shudder*

bellong:


The grace of God is available unto all, its left for us all to tap into it. I have made mistakes in life out of ignorance and rebellion as well as not completely trusting God. I understood better later.


God is readily available to reveal unto us whatever things that are in darkness and hidden unto us.


It is well with you.

bettymafy:

Our forefathers upheld chastity mostly for women and not for men. Men in those days were free to sow their wild oats.

Again, we are talking from the religious point of view and not cultural.

Vikin:

And where do these Men get their experiences from?

At topic...


This race is not by power, nor by might...

Idowuogbo:
Lmao! U and dis marine nonsense sef, u b ex-ogbanje?

donchris999: Are you now saying blockoss is not neccesary again? So, you can love your man without sex? I thought your aim of this thread is to make sure the man you love is sexually intact? Now you can love without blockoss. In one of your post on this thread you were saying love cannot guarantee your sticking to a man if he is not sexually fit. So sex dont matter anylonger, what matters now is love. Anyway all man for himself ooo!

bellong:


The grace of God is available unto all, its left for us all to tap into it. I have made mistakes in life out of ignorance and rebellion as well as not completely trusting God. I understood better later.


God is readily available to reveal unto us whatever things that are in darkness and hidden unto us.

Not to derail the thread, I want to share a short experience of my profession. I was once engaged to a lady who by our physical and open eye assessment was more innocent than virgin Mary. Everybody in church at the time can defend her innocence piety. Although I never prayed about it, I just felt she was good enough as a chaste and respectful Christian sister. Along the line in the relationship, God told me to break the union and I will understand why afterwards. It took me time to obey but I eventually did. Not long afterwards, she confessed to being possessed and she had destroyed destinies of a lot of people in school via sex. She told me she tried adding me to her ranks but she couldn't tell how I escaped. I remember a day that I didn't know the force that came upon me, I nearly went down on her but by His grace I took cover. She told me that she had completed her spiritual assignment to bring me down that day but she didn't understand how I escaped it.


In essence, there's nothing God can't reveal to us only if we are sincere and truthful with Him. He is our Creator, He knows and understands our needs including sex-ual desires. He designed it in the first place. If I had test driven the said lady, I wouldn't know where I will be today.


That doesn't mean am perfect or a walking Jesus but I will always admit my mistakes and weakness rather than conjuring reasons to defend them.


It is well with you.

coogar:

and if we put a PI on your tail as we speak, there's a high possibility you just finished fëllating on your partner.....

nigerians & hypocrisy are siamese twins cojoined at the groin!

Efemena_xy:

No. What we're saying is this:

If a person holds fast the belief that pre-maritial sex is bad, but yet they indulged in it, enjoyed themselves well-well...now how do you say it? Chop-mouth-clean-waka-commotthose same people are not in a position to lord it over the rest of us 'sinners' weilding the bible in our faces!

Where was the bible when they were busy test driving? If you're going to walk the walk, then by all means do so, but don't do A then turn around and tell us A is bad having had your fill!

Ishilove:
Coogar, honey, quit judging people by your rock bottom standards, okay? Just cos you remorselessly engage in pre-marital sex doesn't mean every one is doing it.

Honestly, y'all calling folks who are against fornication hypocrites make me shake my head. People who hold the word of God as a standard are labelled hypocrites because people just need to assuage their already dead conscience.

Fvcking reprobates. The world has gone to the dogs.

Efemena_xy:

But what I'd really like to know (and I'm sure many people on here would too), is this: For those couples who stuck steadfastly to their beliefs and were able to 'crush' temptation only to find out that their spouse did have problems, how have they coped? How has it affected their marriages?

spoilt:

Lol. Only women carry witchcraft? You gave me a good laugh.

donchris999: Id.ota! If you tested then why do you still look for small boys to fu.ccck? Abi you still dey test ni? Anuofia! Pervert of the highest order! You go test till eternity? Every time testing, testing and testing. Very soon you will start testing children. Anuofia!

greatgod2012:


chai!
Mrs efe, you want me to talk and i didnt want to talk before o, chai!

With all sincerity, i have seen and heard about 2-3 cases where things fell apart after marriage se..xua.lly.

Let me start like this, before i got married, i was attending a penticostal church(name withheld), of which i was the youth president and anyone in such a position is automatically anointed as a functioning associate pastor, lol, ok, by the virtue of that position i held in that church(writing this with all humility)im automatically one of the workers and coincidentally too, i was a member of marriage counsellor of the church then, though i wasnt married, but i was thought to be a little bit intelligent, hence, my appointment.
Ok, fastforward, there was this brother who we all knew was a stunch christian to the core, he got engaged with this lady,(not our church member), brought her to the pastor, the pastor prayed for them and approved of their dating relationship, no need saying, they didnt "testdrive"(op's slang) fastforward, they got married, a real xtian wedding, lol, but after about 3 weeks, the bro came back to meet the pastor, our pastor travelled out of the country then, so he went to see the A.P, who said this is beyond him, that he will have to call the meeting of pastors and A. Ps, of which i was a member, guess what happened to our bro, the sister didnt allow the bro down there, they struggled for it for about 3 weeks, after which the bro decided to go violent about it, only to discover that the sis was a "lakriboto(i dont know the name, but its a va..gina without opening), the bro said he nearly fainted, and all that came to his head then was to come to the pastor.
The issue was so tense then, the S.P came back to profer a solution, because we couldnt profer any solution, and the solution the S.P suggested was that, the lady could be operated on, the bro insisted that he would like to divorce the lady on the basis of deception, but our S.P insisted that divorce is against God's will, you know what the bro left home for the sis without telling anybody his plans nor his whereabout and that was how we didnt hear anything about the bro again, until last year when i heard that the bro ran to PH and he had even remarried another woman and hes now a proud father of 2 kids.

Now, im not saying faith is not good, but we have a bunch of hypocrites out there who make faith diffficult for us to practise fully.
May God have mercy on all of us.
P.S, in my next post, i have another example, keep in touch.

babyosisi:

Present the same scenario again,I will still chop the man again
In my heart I had already married him because we had agreed to marry

Na Internet we dey
Anyone that didn't chop will gladly so so
Anyone that says they won't answer chopped and rechopped
HO ha!!

adaobi123: Na wa oo ! Its going down here !

babyosisi:
Present the same scenario again,I will still chop the man again. In my heart I had already married him because we had agreed to marry

Na Internet we dey
Anyone that didn't chop will gladly so so
Anyone that says they won't answer chopped and rechopped
HO ha!!

Ishilove:
Coogar, honey, quit judging people by your rock bottom standards, okay? Just cos you remorselessly engage in pre-marital sex doesn't mean every one is doing it.

Honestly, y'all calling folks who are against fornication hypocrites make me shake my head. People who hold the word of God as a standard are labelled hypocrites because people just need to assuage their already dead conscience.

Fvcking reprobates. The world has gone to the dogs.

babyosisi:

Ada,please don't fornicate o
But after the introduction ,iku aka
please insist on seeing it with your korokoro eyes and arousing it.

greatgod2012:
, they struggled for it for about 3 weeks, after which the bro decided to go violent about it, only to discover that the sis was a "lakriboto(i dont know the name, but its a va..gina without opening), the bro said he nearly fainted, and all that came to his head then was to come to the pastor.

coogar:

having sëx is rock bottom standards? you need to come out of your cocoon and stop deluding yourself. if you have a shot confidence, say so and let shrinks like osisi and co deal with your psycho-evaluation! i have premarital sëx cos i am super-confident and responsible enough to deal with it.



you got it wrong....
it's your types that induce projectile vomiting by thinking only intercourse constitutes fornication. you are as guilty as coogar because i can bet you have kissed a man and you have had crushes(lusts) for various men. so before you judge me, go and read what the holy scriptures say about fornication. it's not until you drop your g-strïng!



hahaha
ishilove is such a hypocrite.......the world has gone to the dogs? this coming from the citizen of a country that ships the highest number of pröstitutes to europe is a bit rich!

keep deluding yourself.....

greatgod2012:
they struggled for it for about 3 weeks, after which the bro decided to go violent about it, only to discover that the sis was a "lakriboto(i dont know the name, but its a va..gina without opening), the bro said he nearly fainted, and all that came to his head then was to come to the pastor.

Ishilove:
Coogar, I'm not very good at long drawn arguments both on and offline, so the only thing I will tell you is:
YOU NEED JESUS

And I hope you embrace Him before it is too late because I see you are a reprobate.

greatgod2012:


chai!
Mrs efe, you want me to talk and i didnt want to talk before o, chai!

With all sincerity, i have seen and heard about 2-3 cases where things fell apart after marriage se..xua.lly.

Let me start like this, before i got married, i was attending a penticostal church(name withheld), of which i was the youth president and anyone in such a position is automatically anointed as a functioning associate pastor, lol, ok, by the virtue of that position i held in that church(writing this with all humility)im automatically one of the workers and coincidentally too, i was a member of marriage counsellor of the church then, though i wasnt married, but i was thought to be a little bit intelligent, hence, my appointment.
Ok, fastforward, there was this brother who we all knew was a stunch christian to the core, he got engaged with this lady,(not our church member), brought her to the pastor, the pastor prayed for them and approved of their dating relationship, no need saying, they didnt "testdrive"(op's slang) fastforward, they got married, a real xtian wedding, lol, but after about 3 weeks, the bro came back to meet the pastor, our pastor travelled out of the country then, so he went to see the A.P, who said this is beyond him, that he will have to call the meeting of pastors and A. Ps, of which i was a member, guess what happened to our bro, the sister didnt allow the bro down there, they struggled for it for about 3 weeks, after which the bro decided to go violent about it, only to discover that the sis was a "lakriboto(i dont know the name, but its a va..gina without opening), the bro said he nearly fainted, and all that came to his head then was to come to the pastor.
The issue was so tense then, the S.P came back to profer a solution, because we couldnt profer any solution, and the solution the S.P suggested was that, the lady could be operated on, the bro insisted that he would like to divorce the lady on the basis of deception, but our S.P insisted that divorce is against God's will, you know what the bro left home for the sis without telling anybody his plans nor his whereabout and that was how we didnt hear anything about the bro again, until last year when i heard that the bro ran to PH and he had even remarried another woman and hes now a proud father of 2 kids.

Now, im not saying faith is not good, but we have a bunch of hypocrites out there who make faith diffficult for us to practise fully.
May God have mercy on all of us.
P.S, in my next post, i have another example, keep in touch.

greatgod2012:


chai!
Mrs efe, you want me to talk and i didnt want to talk before o, chai!

With all sincerity, i have seen and heard about 2-3 cases where things fell apart after marriage se..xua.lly.

Let me start like this, before i got married, i was attending a penticostal church(name withheld), of which i was the youth president and anyone in such a position is automatically anointed as a functioning associate pastor, lol, ok, by the virtue of that position i held in that church(writing this with all humility)im automatically one of the workers and coincidentally too, i was a member of marriage counsellor of the church then, though i wasnt married, but i was thought to be a little bit intelligent, hence, my appointment.
Ok, fastforward, there was this brother who we all knew was a stunch christian to the core, he got engaged with this lady,(not our church member), brought her to the pastor, the pastor prayed for them and approved of their dating relationship, no need saying, they didnt "testdrive"(op's slang) fastforward, they got married, a real xtian wedding, lol, but after about 3 weeks, the bro came back to meet the pastor, our pastor travelled out of the country then, so he went to see the A.P, who said this is beyond him, that he will have to call the meeting of pastors and A. Ps, of which i was a member, guess what happened to our bro, the sister didnt allow the bro down there, they struggled for it for about 3 weeks, after which the bro decided to go violent about it, only to discover that the sis was a "lakriboto(i dont know the name, but its a va..gina without opening), the bro said he nearly fainted, and all that came to his head then was to come to the pastor.
The issue was so tense then, the S.P came back to profer a solution, because we couldnt profer any solution, and the solution the S.P suggested was that, the lady could be operated on, the bro insisted that he would like to divorce the lady on the basis of deception, but our S.P insisted that divorce is against God's will, you know what the bro left home for the sis without telling anybody his plans nor his whereabout and that was how we didnt hear anything about the bro again, until last year when i heard that the bro ran to PH and he had even remarried another woman and hes now a proud father of 2 kids.

Now, im not saying faith is not good, but we have a bunch of hypocrites out there who make faith diffficult for us to practise fully.
May God have mercy on all of us.
P.S, in my next post, i have another example, keep in touch.

BoboYekini: you're kidding right? Nothing quite as nauseating as a repentant trick.