baby_123:
What is a world class education with bad results or to a drop out? Daddy's and mummy's money is there. Education is just a formality. This is obviously a dependent child. If you are chopping my money, I call the shots. You become a baby to me, and I deserve to know everything even to the color of your pampers. If you don't like it, bounce o. As for those noveau riche royals, may God help us all. When they have finished selling their land. Their mind will come down. They kuku want to use their fees to kill as at the beach. They are well known to lagosians. Dami don't put me in trouble biko!

May God help us all ojare. I cant stand Omo Oniles (I dont normally hate people) so excuse me bringing them up. Awon omo ojuorolari tin wepo aya. .

I think the main reason why people are all so up in arms about the 'summoning' is cos we Nigerians can like to oppress.This cuts across all strata of society even the poor are gulity.One thing that I have that you dont have I must Lord it over you and make you feel like sh.it cos you dont have it.Heck even something as mundane as speaking english is a means of oppression in Nigeria. .And you are right about the way people act around rich people in Nigeria.I know being rich gives you an edge anywhere in the world, being poor sucks.But being poor in Nigeria means you are less than a human being

damiso:

May God help us all ojare. I cant stand Omo Oniles (I dont normally hate people) so excuse me bringing them up. Awon omo ojuorolari tin wepo aya. .

I think the main reason why people are all so up in arms about the 'summoning' is cos we Nigerians can like to oppress.This cuts across all strata of society even the poor are gulity.One thing that I have that you dont have I must Lord it over you and make you feel like sh.it cos you dont have it.Heck even something as mundane as speaking english is a means of oppression in Nigeria. .And you are right about the way people act around rich people in Nigeria.I know being rich gives you an edge anywhere in the world, being poor sucks.But being poor in Nigeria means you are less than a human being

The girl wants new levels. Well new levels don't come cheap, especially when social levels are glaringly different. I think the girl is insecure and has a low opinion of herself. Her father may also have felt insulted that a woman called him to come and answer some questions.Have you ever tried to ask a "so-called traditional" naija man an intelligent and important question? The hostility that will follow is amazing. Very popular with the poor. I think it is self esteem issues and that my dear is poverty mentality. A poor man who thinks he is better than any woman, and who will be hating to be questioned by a woman will count everything negatively. Heck your daughter is desperate, why the complaints? What do they expect? That they will be accepted just like that? And women that marry into such families can sometimes be more proud than a peacock. Smh. You should see them, they carry the whole oppression to another level.

I don't how a woman can cope with marrying a boy. If he can't yet stand his ground and make his own decisions, he simply isn't ready to be married.

I find the old versus new money argument interesting.I know some new money folks with behaviors and thought pattern so predictable. Everyone who knew them before now can't stop wondering what the fuss is about.

And What does your finance say about all this?