I met ds girl n we started having feeling 4 each other,nor b say I too fine but she has 80 percent of d luv 4 me n I neva knew we were. Distant cousin until my aunt interview her but she(my aunt) neva told her cos she want 2 let me no first. since knew I started showing off by acting as casual frnd @ first, later I told her but she refused 2 believe me saying I want 2 use dt as an excuse 2 leave her.I'm in my finals n she is in 100L,though we did not make luv b4 I heard we re distant cousin but I kiss her n normal romance becos she is virgin till now I can bet on that very beautiful creature n I luv her so dearly n she luv me like mad. But tins have turn apart since I heard It, she is still mad @ me dt I'm lying n she want us 2 still be seeing, @time she cry n my heart boil,y would nature do ds but I don't want 2 b seeing her cos I will b tempted,except in public but no time 4 me 2 see her now. Though we now no dt we re 4rm same village n family,I am conscious of dt u understand african n tradition tin.but I luv her deep down my heart. what should I do to make her happpy n 4get about me cos I told her 2 luk 4 a gud n caring guy like me but she won't listen instead she starts crying on phone. No insult pls just an advice Thanks..

Just leave ur cousin alone and exercise ur diiik else where

lrguru: Just leave ur cousin alone and exercise ur diiik else where

thanks 4 d advice cos I deleted her number but she is d one dt call al d tym most tym I don't pick her call n she will take a break 4 a while later she call unaware cos I'm beginning 2 4get her number off heart n I told her I have a girl frnd now,its 4 real she should get herself one. Bro it is really troublesome cos I'm tired don't know wat 2 say 2 her again GOSH..girls are really emotionally attach

Be firm with her and tell her to stop calling you.

Cousin is cousin, whether distance or near. So give her good warning n b serious abt it.

butterflyy: Cousin is cousin, whether distance or near. So give her good warning n b serious abt it.

thanks I will do dt cos actually I don't no how 2 yell or b aggressive 2 female folks instead I just work away n neva see her again.

Pls am i asking too much for some tell me one be distance cousin again?

butterflyy: Cousin is cousin, whether distance or near. So give her good warning n b serious abt it.

d way it was explained 2 me dts y I call her distant cousin not my direct cousin or I will rather call her relation

A lot going on in dt write up....U a final stdnt? Soon shal b facing d labour mkt n yhu writin skill z so appalling n leaves so much 2 b desired...Be dt as it may,u knw d ryt thing man,blood z thicker dan water,y wouldn't ur aunty call d two of u n sit u guys down? D way 4wrd is mkin her understnd bera, 4 cryin out u guys r cousins n nt enemies,avoidin her calls z crap

clemz85: Pls am i asking too much for some tell me one be distance cousin again?

ok accordin to my mum aunt explaination our(me n d girl)gr8,gr8,grand father gave birth 2 two son of different mother one is my gr8 grand father who gave birth 2 my grand father n 2 my father,same with her. What do u call dt? Cos my father's brothers n sisters children I call my close cousin.

Dubemkelly: A lot going on in dt write up....U a final stdnt? Soon shal b facing d labour mkt n yhu writin skill z so appalling n leaves so much 2 b desired...Be dt as it may,u knw d ryt thing man,blood z thicker dan water,y wouldn't ur aunty call d two of u n sit u guys down? D way 4wrd is mkin her understnd bera, 4 cryin out u guys r cousins n nt enemies,avoidin her calls z crap

thanks bro

Dubemkelly: A lot going on in dt write up....U a final stdnt? Soon shal b facing d labour mkt n yhu writin skill z so appalling n leaves so much 2 b desired...Be dt as it may,u knw d ryt thing man,blood z thicker dan water,y wouldn't ur aunty call d two of u n sit u guys down? D way 4wrd is mkin her understnd bera, 4 cryin out u guys r cousins n nt enemies,avoidin her calls z crap

bro I understand about d english but its social site so I just have 2 drop it anyhow,I'm gud n I can face labour mkt anyway thanks.