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Re: My Boo And I: by savanaha: 6:19pm On May 16, 2008 |
4 Him: I think Europe and America are the few countries willing to take criminal actions on pedophiles. How many young girls are molested and abused in even Nigeria by older men and no one says anything even when they eventually find out. Isn't one of SOuth Africa's big problem is that disgusting men with Aids molest young gilrs because they think virgins take away aids? All they end up doing is taking away virginity for the unwanted gift of AIDS. |
Re: My Boo And I: by Dreloaded(f): 6:21pm On May 16, 2008 |
savanaha: Exactly. I didnt even say that to bash Nigeria/Africa. Just stating how things were/still are(in some places) |
Re: My Boo And I: by 4Him1(m): 6:24pm On May 16, 2008 |
savanaha: that is very different from blanket stereotypes like "pedophilia is common to Nigeria/Africa". The fact that Europe and America are willing to take criminal actions is testament to the fact that pedophilia knows no colors or regions. I wonder why some are worried because the girl is 14 . . . would it have been more acceptable if the boy was 15 too? I thot we all had freedom of choice? Anyway . . . |
Re: My Boo And I: by Trendiest(f): 6:30pm On May 16, 2008 |
D guy's only 25,why d rush now, wen u no b Akata or hausa, chill now, and u'r only 20, madam,marriage na huge huge big step, u think u'r in Love now and it'l b fine, huh, dont let any1 tell u lies oo, Marriage no b easy thing My Bf's 29 and am 23, he's soooooooooooooooooo ready 4 d big "M", not like am nt but thinkin abt all the things dat comes wit it,I think i'l chill 4 a lil longer, so girl,my own 2cents, it no easy n why rush,as long as u hav each other,dats all dat matters, dont forget 2 ask ur parents ooooooo |
Re: My Boo And I: by savanaha: 6:34pm On May 16, 2008 |
4 Him: The truth is that pedophilia is more common in Africa because there is no forceful law against it. I think the worry is that a 19 yr old okorobia should find himself someone he can whisper sweet nothings to who is old enough to understand and not just follow. That is why he would be an adult. I understand why he did it though because some Nigerian men love submission and someone his age will not as willingly submit as a 14yr tata. |
Re: My Boo And I: by Dreloaded(f): 6:38pm On May 16, 2008 |
There you go. Savanah knows what's up anyway back on topic. Since the OP already said she'll be done very soon with her RN program then I wish her the best. although I would say work abit so you two can have joint income for when you settle down. If you intend on living in NY, you shoul;d know how expensive it is, so I say gather enough money both of you then go from there |
Re: My Boo And I: by sheniqua: 6:44pm On May 16, 2008 |
Honestly i don't think d age should be an issue here,like i said they might not have indulged in sex,i guess they are just too close and that is y she said they both live or act like married couples,if age na issue what of our mothers that got married at age 13 or 14 to men that r 28 or 30?age no be issue ,the issue here is can d little girl handle marriage at this age?if she can then let her get down it My mom married after she graduated college so she was a full grown adult. The era of marrying at 13 was probably in my grandmothers time. |
Re: My Boo And I: by Nobody: 6:46pm On May 16, 2008 |
i doubt dat,they r so many mothers who got married at dat age,and it was nt during the time of our grand mothers |
Re: My Boo And I: by sheniqua: 6:47pm On May 16, 2008 |
savanaha: My brother you get am like reloaded said can you imagine a sophomore at NYU dating a girl at Springside middle school Isn't there something wrong with this picture? |
Re: My Boo And I: by talk2sulta: 6:53pm On May 16, 2008 |
D-reloaded wats up? |
Re: My Boo And I: by Dreloaded(f): 7:04pm On May 16, 2008 |
Hi She lives in NY and is just about to finish school, osisi. Personally I dont suggest marriage yet, that's just me. If she lives down south like NC, GA, TN, blah blah, fine since standard of living isnt sky high. Like I said I think she should work abit, make some money so it wont be like they get married and all the burden and respobnsibilities of bills and stuff will only be placed on the husband |
Re: My Boo And I: by sheniqua: 7:08pm On May 16, 2008 |
D-reloaded: I read that part. She can do whatever she wants she already became a wife at 14 abi which one is my own |
Re: My Boo And I: by sheniqua: 7:09pm On May 16, 2008 |
reloaded have you uploaded those pictures again see as males just dey hi you up and down |
Re: My Boo And I: by sheniqua: 7:10pm On May 16, 2008 |
Ok I see you have the above shoulder one good! |
Re: My Boo And I: by Dreloaded(f): 7:12pm On May 16, 2008 |
Lmao osisi you have been drinking eh? |
Re: My Boo And I: by sheniqua: 11:40pm On May 16, 2008 |
fanta |
Re: My Boo And I: by Sisieko(f): 7:14pm On May 17, 2008 |
@ sheniquwa Whoa Whoa Whoa just because we were DATING since i was 14 doesnt mean that im stupid, Not that ay of it is your business but I didnt get intimate with him until I was of age!!! And before I did anything my parents were aware of it, They didnt even think of his age because He is well brought up and he has a good eucation, Im pretty sure somebody in ur fam was married @ an early age, not that it matter, If u feel content enuff to marry soeone than you should be able to do it, I never kep anything away from my parents and I never will, If u didnt have a partner when u were 14 thats ur business, To make things clear WE WERE DATING SINCE I WAS 14 NOT FUCKING!!!!!!, |
Re: My Boo And I: by Nobody: 7:21pm On May 17, 2008 |
@sisieko my question is,does d guy want to marry u?is he ready for marriage? |
Re: My Boo And I: by LadyT(f): 7:28pm On May 17, 2008 |
Whats the point in telling people its none of their buisness when you start this kind of topic. I tire o! |
Re: My Boo And I: by BIZYGUY: 7:34pm On May 17, 2008 |
try 2 b patient |
Re: My Boo And I: by Sisieko(f): 7:40pm On May 17, 2008 |
Yea he wants to marry me, he proposed to me last year!!! He says whenever Im ready he has nothing to wait for, but i think Ill just wait till im about 24, the age seems right!! But I alrady have the title when people speak to us it alwas "hows ur wife" or " how is ur husband" and some of them ont even know thay we are engage, It because weve been together so long. a alot of peeople respect us, |
Re: My Boo And I: by Nobody: 7:44pm On May 17, 2008 |
well its your life,and u alone know when its going to be convenient for u to get married,i wish u good luck |
Re: My Boo And I: by Sisieko(f): 7:47pm On May 17, 2008 |
THANX MUCH>> |
Re: My Boo And I: by sheniqua: 9:20pm On May 17, 2008 |
LadyT: you see am too? people start topics and when one says their piece suddenly it's not anyone's business. |
Re: My Boo And I: by sheniqua: 9:25pm On May 17, 2008 |
Sisieko: Good for you what else can I say just 4 more years of "marital bliss" before officially tying the knot or shall I say untying and tying the knots since the knots have been tied since 14 Osanobua,I need to mind my business @ poster biko don't mind me o wishing you the very best. You sound very intelligent for a 20 year old. your parents did do a good job. phew!! that wan't to hard to say sheniqua |
Re: My Boo And I: by Damoche10: 4:36pm On May 18, 2008 |
Most ladies would grab this oppurtunity you have here. Don't make anyone confuse you. Those ladies that would tell you anything contrary would grab it if it were them. You have to know that in any marriage, one there is tolerance between the two of you and there is love flowing around you the reamaining is small. Always pray to God that you husband or husband to be should get a better Job to give your house the aura it needs. Go girl, 'THE WORLD IS YOURS!!!!!!!!!!! Note:People go to school while they are married or haven't you seen a man at 70 still in school? Obasanjo is still a student while the present EFCC chairman who happens to be a woman was married and had babies before she graduated from the university. So? |
Re: My Boo And I: by jockybabe(f): 7:20pm On May 18, 2008 |
I AGREE WITH YIMITON. PSTER "THINK RIGHT OH,I AV A FRIEND DAT HAS DSAME STORY AS YOURS BUT WHEN IT WAS TIME FOR MARRIAGE,SHE TRIED BUTT SHE COULDNT ALL SHE DID WAS TO BREAK UP |
Re: My Boo And I: by omoovie(f): 10:49pm On May 21, 2008 |
Ol girl if y'all feel you are ready go ahead. I think 20 is too young too but y'all have been together for 5 - 6 years already. Start saving towards the wedding! I want asuebi! --------------------------------------- EDIT Wait oh! Wait oh! How old is he now? 29? and Nigerian? Honey. Run. Fast. |
Re: My Boo And I: by Sisieko(f): 4:28am On May 22, 2008 |
No hes 25, hes Nigerian!! But americanized just like me, we still adap to the culture though, |
Re: My Boo And I: by okenwa(m): 9:41am On May 22, 2008 |
@ all marriage is from the heart. . . Jesus once said 'once a man look at a lady lostfully,he has committed adultery' the point am trying to make is that . . . there are actions going on in our hearts which are legitimate before God. |
Re: My Boo And I: by omoovie(f): 6:46pm On May 28, 2008 |
Sisieko:Oh, Ok. Then y'all don't have qualms now. Just remember regardless of whomever is in the relationship and wherever they come from COMMUNICATION is very important. I'm waiting for my asuebi. |
Re: My Boo And I: by t00cUTE(f): 9:13pm On May 28, 2008 |
The question is wat do u want 4 urslf, remember thats wat important. |
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