I have been troubled by a young lady who says she loves me and won't mind been my fiancee.I happen to be an accountant and my age is in the mid-twenties.I don't want a relationship now because I don't want to be jilted.I don't know if she is just after my money.She happens to be an Ijebu lady.I don't know the characters of an Ijebu lady.I just need some advice from you guys out there.

The fact that she is IJebu has nothing to do with character as that is individaul. If you don't want her tell and stop making a persons character into another tribal generalization.

Your cautiousness about her being only after your money proves that you don't like her or not interested in her because of personal reasons not your tribe.

Glad you dont wanna be in a relationship for you are a slowpoke.

Wetin concern ijebusites for this matter now ? Which tribe nor get him own vises ?

abeg abeg, make una leave IJEBUS alone ooo, we cook,we clean, we take care of our men, wot more can u ask for, WE TAKING CARE OF HOME AND STILL FLY, IJEBUSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

dude, if I was your girl and you're ugly and talking like this, i go knock you to the next dimension. :X

@morenike
explain beta, which dimension b dat oo?

Supplanter:

I have been troubled by a young lady who says she loves me and won't mind been my fiancee.I happen to be an accountant and my age is in the mid twenties.i dnt want a relationship now cus i dnt want to be jilted.i dnt know if she is after my money.She happens to be an Ijebu lady.i dnt knw d characteristics of an ijebu lady.i just need advice frm you guys out there.   

"u re in ur mid twenties" bt ur profile says u re jst 22^{early twenties} nd u dnt want a relationship now cus u dnt want to b jilted yet u say she wants to date u despite ur havin a fiancee^{dat means u re in a relationship already} plus wats d prob?is it dat u re nt sure of her motives behind wanting u or u dnt want a relationship?den,GENERALIZATION wil kill most men smday.so if sm ijebu ladies ve d character of stealing,so u 'll ve to rub ur dis gurl into it even if she is diff.lastly wat advice do u need?too many contradictns in wat u wrote

whats wrong with these guyz

thanks a lot people.

bigfather:
Wetin concern ijebusites for this matter now ? Which tribe nor get him own vises ?

I wonder o

welli:


"u re in ur mid twenties" bt ur profile says u re jst 22^{early twenties} nd u dnt want a relationship now cus u dnt want to b jilted yet u say she wants to date u despite ur havin a fiancee^{dat means u re in a relationship already} plus wats d prob?is it dat u re nt sure of her motives behind wanting u or u dnt want a relationship?den,GENERALIZATION wil kill most men smday.so if sm ijebu ladies ve d character of stealing,so u 'll ve to rub ur dis gurl into it even if she is diff.lastly wat advice do u need?too many contradictns in wat u wrote

There are no contradictions,I guess u r going in too deep looking for faults

Supplanter:
I have been troubled by a young lady who says she loves me and won't mind been my fiancee.I happen to be an accountant and my age is in the mid-twenties.I don't want a relationship now because I don't want to be jilted.I don't know if she is just after my money.She happens to be an Ijebu lady.I don't know the characters of an Ijebu lady.I just need some advice from you guys out there.

You sound scared - you don't want to be jilted, you don't know if she is after your money, you don't know the character of ijebu ladies lol do all Ijebu ladies have same character?

Take it easy on yourself this is why you date a woman for a period of time, get to know her and all the other stuffs. Don't let her pressure you into any committed relationship if you don't want you can even tell her you are not ready to commit and you'd like to explore what you are looking for in a woman and from a wife just take it slow she is looking for connection if you don't like her the earlier you let her go the better for you.