People who are afraid to show emotion or, for that matter, initiate conversation—might be described as wallflowers.

1. Abandonment

People who cling to others because they’re afraid of being left and don’t feel important relationships will last. They’re usually attracted to partners who cannot be there in a committed way

2. Emotional Deprivation

Most of the time, these patients haven’t had someone to nurture them, to care deeply about everything that happens to them or someone who was tuned in to their true feelings and needs

3. Entitlement

Those who hate to be constrained or kept from doing what they want or feel that they shouldn’t have to follow the normal rules and conventions other people do

4. Defectiveness

People who think they’re unworthy of the love, attention, and respect of others and believe that no matter how hard they try, they won’t be able to get a significant partner to respect them or feel they are worthwhile.

5. Subjugation

In relationships, these people let the other person have the upper hand and worry a lot about pleasing other people so they won’t be rejected.

6. Unrelenting Standards

People who must be the best at most of what they do and feel there is constant pressure to achieve and get things done. Their relationships suffer because they push themselves so hard.

7. Mistrust/Abuse

Those who feel that they cannot let their guard down in the presence of other people, or else that person will intentionally hurt them. If someone acts nicely toward them, they assume that he/she must be after something.

8. Self-Sacrifice

People who puts others’ needs before their own, or else they feel guilty, and usually end up taking care of the people they’re close to.

9. Social Isolation

Individuals who don’t think that they relate well to other people and/or feel that they don’t fit in with any sort of group.

10. Dependence

People who often feel helpless or aren’t capable of making a decision without the aid of another person.

11. Vulnerability to Harm or Illness

Hypochondriacs and/or those who consistently fear that they will be involved in a catastrophe like an airplane crash or hurricane.

12. Enmeshment

Young’s patients who have a weak sense of personal identity and habitually cling to or “mesh” with other people do so in order to feel like a complete person.


http://www./18-childhood-habits-that-affect-your-relationship-now/

Habit: For girls, like putting gums at the back of your ear after chewing it (to be chewed later)

Probable effect: Recycling of groundnut oil to fry AKARA and PLAINTAIN daily for over two months.

Long term effect: May likely use engine oil for frying someday... who knows?

By the way, first to COMMENT... (or is it "coment" sef?) English tire me booo.

My childhood habit is quite different. It's affecting my relationship positively. When i was younger, i was stubborn, cocky, a chauvinist and perhaps a pervert. Then i used to do alot of runz with girls. sometimes i'll go call girls for guys who will pay me peanut just to bang those girls later. Even a childhood friend of mind got a girl pregnant and they had to abort the child. We moved out of that area and soon enough everything began to change. My new home was quite boring, it wasen't fun like my formal area so i decided not to keep any friends around. Well to cut the long story short. now i'm less stubborn, i don't look for people's trouble.i can't even remember the last time i fought, i don't keep bad company, i'm just living a modest life.Unlike before when i used to be free with babes, now if see a girl i like so much i'll be scared to approach her. I think my new life changed my mentality of wanting to be a player when i was young. Sometimes i reminisce about those days and i still can't believe how much i've changed.

I agree with some of the ish here i see why i'm single

Love

u ar not far 4rm d truth....nd itz nt a lie.

Na true ooo.
1st page

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I have just only one bad habit and its making my relationship more loving

Where should i comment?

early sex

Ok

what's that bad habit I have again oooo, I can't fine it any more

plssss I no go do ok, next year.

Mummy showed me too much love.Now I'm so so Romantic and she's gone crazy!YEAH!
No 13,I'm gettin dere.

police and thief...ere momi ati daddy

Eating alone

And

Fighting

This write up is true for those that dont know their worth.

Social Isolation- I keep to myself a lot.
But I've really worked on myself in this area .

Business before pleasure mentality.. I was brought up to believe that women and business doesn't mix.. Money first bit*ches later#

Like if u pee on the side of the toilet to make less noise.

edirects: .

Seriously,is dis all you ve got?..

Smh..this FTC tin is rily mkn som peeps go gaga

Bk 2 †ђξ topic: Guilty of no9..stil workin on it

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ANGER!!! ANGER!!!

Dah no 8 i think say na self sarvice oh

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I think numbers 8 & 9 hav a powerful effect...

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Kinda true tho