Aws a woman, a guy who just comes back confidently and joins the conversation, winks sexily at me and then changes the topic is a god! shows he loves me and is unthreatebned, confident in his own sexuality

a guy who is confident enough to join in the conversation and take control of the situation

If this is a true story and it happened in Nigeria, it'll be hard to believe.




_{Handsome man?}

@ topic i kind of understand where you are coming from

though you might be boiling inside " "

put on your game face , intro your selves to the guys ,join in the convo ( here is where your savoir faire and smooth swagger should be on point)

its all about shifting her attention from them right back to you

in this kind of situation confidence is oh soooo sexy!

Rampant you're not serious 

@ topic
They've said it all.

that, was, wonderful!!! _{(especially the fact only ladies answered the question)}

WebMonk:

that, was, wonderful!!! _{(especially the fact only ladies answered the question)}

correct

Don't have any competition.  I am in a class of my own.

I would join the conversation and carry on like nothing happened.  The girl is just having a good time and why should I be bothered by that? Sorry, not so insecure. I am sure if she wants anyone of them in her bed for the night she can jolly well carry on. Frankly, that is her business.

Even if she were my wife. So what?

i handle it the way it comes.
your scenario is almost impossible in naija if ever, everybody wants to be very careful, most guys are wary approaching a girl when they know she is with another guy(s).i remember a friends party i and my ex went for , some prominent footballers were there, yes they were winking at my girlfriend, but they never did what you described. you really have to believe in yourself because sometimes you can meet a stiffer competition, you may not be the best but can be among the best.

put on your game face , intro your selves to the guys ,join in the convo ( here is where your savoir faire and smooth swagger should be on point)

its all about shifting her attention from them right back to you

in this kind of situation confidence is oh soooo sexy!

this makes a lot of sense, and can be done when you believe in your game, knowing that if she goes you will get someone better. very few naija guys can can do this, very well depends on the guys level of exposure.

talking about competition!!!

i have seen two guys fight over a LovePeddler in a club, sounds crazy, its about proving superiority and about who is the man and who is the boy, it didnt need to get to that, but the chick was HOTTTTTTTT like peppered chicken, how much more your girlfriend or a new date? takes great maturity and confidence.