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you and your GF are in a juvenile power struggle. you both don't seem matured enough to handle this relationship

my rule is if there was a fight or disagreement and i wasn't at fault, i will never call.
you have obviously been conditioned to bow to this woman and she knows you will break eventually. if you are still thinking about her that hard you might as well be the b1tch she has turned you into and call her and beg like you always do or be a sensible person who deserves not to be abused in a relationship and forget her.

truth is until you both can sit down and have a matured conversation about the power struggles you guys always have, you will always fight and break up.

If u want to be a man, control d game. For no reason shld she control. U can liase, seek opinion, share thoughts n d likes with her but never let her dominate d relationship.

So, u're giving each other the silent treatment. SMH! None of you is matured enough to be in the relationship. It's not a game, it's a relationship! Nobody has to win or lose! Nobody has to be in control! What do you even mean by control, anywayz


Abeg, GROW UP!!!

I would have ask u fine out some like; if she's seeing another man. but u dnt hav 2 bcus dats wht z hapenin. 1) u mak her knw dat u r a weak man 2) she knws dat u can alwyz com back beging. listen man, if u love to hear, dnt call her an dnt look 4 her, instead look 4 another gal beautiful n mature dan her n let her com 1day n meet u wit her.

alutacontinua: So, u're giving each other the silent treatment. SMH! None of you is matured enough to be in the relationship. It's not a game, it's a relationship! Nobody has to win or lose! Nobody has to be in control! What do you even mean by control, anywayz


Abeg, GROW UP!!!

What!!!! what the hell is this? What does that even mean?

Of course there has to be someone in control, the man has to be in control, so it has been, and so it will always be. Wasn't/isn't your dad in control of your family?

She will never call, why cant you play maturity and call her... see my guy if you love this girl go for her and stop playing hide and sick for crying out loud, prove to her that you mature enough to handle her and her stubbornness, make her realize her mistake, let her know that things are not done that way..
you better go for what s yours now before someone else grabs it. someone who doesn't worth her.

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femcruz: I think I'll do what u said Sexymomma

Pls do.

25Calibre:

What!!!! what the hell is this? What does that even mean?

Of course there has to be someone in control, the man has to be in control, so it has been, and so it will always be. Wasn't/isn't your dad in control of your family?

The kind of control you're talking about here is just too childish, IMO!

You pple are playing with each other's emotions for God's sakes, tryna see who loves each oda more, who cannot do without the oda person. Who knows how to keep malice the most...if that isn't childishness, tell me what is!

alutacontinua:

The kind of control you're talking about here is just too childish, IMO!

You pple are playing with each other's emotions for God's sakes, tryna see who loves each oda more, who cannot do without the oda person. Who knows how to keep malice the most...if that isn't childishness, tell me what is!

MY dear it is not childishness, you will not talk about how the girl played with his emotions and was misbehaving because he showwed her that he loved her and ddecided to let love lead. what the Op did at first with the girl was what all girls would say they want but look at how she handled it, exactly the way that other(90%) girls would when given that opportunity. What you want the Op to do is what logically she would want and the logical thing to do but we all know full well that girls are not logical, if they were then the OP would not be having the problem that he is having now. The Truth is what you ladies say you want is not what you will respond to.

OP, DO NOT I MEAN DO NOT CALL THIS GIRL, if you do she'll believe she won and she is still in control, don't feel guilty about what you are doing, if she really loved you then she wouldn't have even abused the freedom you gave her, now is the time to live your life and enjoy and ,ake sure she knows that you are getting on well, if another comes your way and you like her go for her just make sure the girl is a step up from your ex, if your ex senses it she would come back to her senses. Your girl may love you but she is letting foolishness cloud her better judgement, forget all that maturity talk, do this and if she comes back you have succeeded, and if she doesn't you can still enjoy other aspects of your life along with a new girl. Are you aware that she could be using another guy to try and replace you and that is why she is not calling, do you deserve to sell your pride to someone like that?

alutacontinua: So, u're giving each other the silent treatment. SMH! None of you is matured enough to be in the relationship. It's not a game, it's a relationship! Nobody has to win or lose! Nobody has to be in control! What do you even mean by control, anywayz


Abeg, GROW UP!!!

Must you lambast d Op? You too grow up

Do not call her if not she will continue using u. I knw its not easy but u hav to become a man and d time is now. Bet me if u dnt call her for a week or two,she will call u. Just maintain.

WackyJ1:
MY dear it is not childishness, you will not talk about how the girl played with his emotions and was misbehaving because he showwed her that he loved her and ddecided to let love lead. what the Op did at first with the girl was what all girls would say they want but look at how she handled it, exactly the way that other(90%) girls would when given that opportunity. What you want the Op to do is what logically she would want and the logical thing to do but we all know full well that girls are not logical, if they were then the OP would not be having the problem that he is having now. The Truth is what you ladies say you want is not what you will respond to.

OP, DO NOT I MEAN DO NOT CALL THIS GIRL, if you do she'll believe she won and she is still in control, don't feel guilty about what you are doing, if she really loved you then she wouldn't have even abused the freedom you gave her, now is the time to live your life and enjoy and ,ake sure she knows that you are getting on well, if another comes your way and you like her go for her just make sure the girl is a step up from your ex, if your ex senses it she would come back to her senses. Your girl may love you but she is letting foolishness cloud her better judgement, forget all that maturity talk, do this and if she comes back you have succeeded, and if she doesn't you can still enjoy other aspects of your life along with a new girl. Are you aware that she could be using another guy to try and replace you and that is why she is not calling, do you deserve to sell your pride to someone like that?

If you read my post very well, you will notice I said they're both childish...not only the op. I think it's time for the op to call the lady and let both of them sit and have a loooooooonnnnnnggggggg talk on how to move their relationship forward. They should both quit childish things. She's also childish, of course, or how else would you explain "I want to take the lead" to me...which kind of lead is that?

This story sef get as he be.

I'm sorry, this babe of urs doesnt love u, from ur post, she hasnt shown u love in nywys. To me, u're in a parasitic relationship, she's just getting&not giving. I dont think u're d man 4 her, she needs a man dat can put her on her toes, she seems to have taken u 4 granted and dats y she behaves like dat. This could be as a result of d way u started with her.

Leave her till d end of this month & I bet u she might not call.

sexymoma: She will never call, why cant you play maturity and call her... see my guy if you love this girl go for her and stop playing hide and sick for crying out loud, prove to her that you mature enough to handle her and her stubbornness, make her realize her mistake, let her know that things are not done that way..
you better go for what s yours now before someone else grabs it. someone who doesn't worth her.

hide and 'sick' ma asss.
Nice advice though

Ehya... Every one wants to date

Why don't you suprise her and don't call this time around.You have held it for 2 days+ now;just keep on,you fit make am one week plus!

Yes you can!

#TeamDon'tCallHer!

My guy if you dare call her ehn den u be real ode! Call her for what?! If she really loves you, she should be the one to call, considering that she started the whole thing.

OP is a very weak guy. He took sexymoma's lame advice. #smh