Men are very sensitive creatures that are way too cautious of their FEELINGS and there are certainly many ways women destroys these feelings without even knowing they're doing so. But a few are too obvious to ignore.

1: Fear Of Other People's View

For the fear of what others think, in a public place, any time your guy tries to put his arms around you, you slip out. When he goes in for a kiss you give him the cheek. Stop worrying about what everyone else is thinking! You just rejected your guy for the approval of people you’ll never see again.

2: Not Being Confident With Yourself

When your man try to compliment you maybe on your look, you pay him back with ten reasons why it’s not true, or a list of things that are wrong with you. I guarantee you this is very annoying to guys and it kills a man's emotion towards a woman as wild fire. A "thank you" wouldn't harm you in any way.

3: Scheduling Time For Affection

Guess what: affection isn't meant to be scheduled! So what if you were in the middle of work thing in your computer when he came up behind you to hug you? You can close the laptop for five minutes to engage in some sweetness. If you always brush him off and make him feel like a nuisance for giving you affection, he’ll stop and that's BAD for BUSINESS.

4: Keeping Things From Him

Your guy finding out something about you, from a co-worker, your mom, friends etc., something you would ordinarily want him to care about but then you feel letting him know would be a burden then you refused to tell him. Wow...this thinking is way too depressing than you avoiding to burden him. Regardless of the situation the one man that you care about should know was-up with you at anytime before others.

5: Hiding Your Own Feelings When Hurt

If he says something that hurts you, and you know it’s not intentional, you lecture yourself in your own head,rather than expressing your true feelings about it. A guy always know when his girl is silently sulking, and when you keep quiet, or turn over in bed, or go for a walk when you’re obviously hurting, he reads this as you just being a very private person and/or don’t believe he has the tools to help you feel better. This attitude kills a man's feelings towards a woman very quickly.

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I‘ll improve on d 1st n 4th points. Thanks OP

When he finds out that you love money too much...you wan drink Jack Daniels wen d guy dey shack beer...you wan go Chicken Republic wen food dey house...you dey use Z10 and ya papa dey stay mkpu house!

You raised valuable points.

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nyc write up dear especially 1 nd 3

I particularly abhor#4.
Nice write up @o.p

Thats so true..

No.4 is most reason relationship break.What is love without transperancy?

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@OP Pls tell dem gurls o, especially, making seriouse decision or taking some seriouse actions without putting their guy into consideration.
For me that's a way of letting me know that ''i'm of no value to her''
And i'm so damn gonna deal with her before i bid her bye!

Wow,very true 9ice write up.

hmm,numba 4 just caused crious issue btw mt bf and i,wrking on dt sha

joe4christ: @OP Pls tell dem gurls o, especially, making seriouse decision or taking some seriouse actions without putting their guy into consideration.
For me that's a way of letting me know that ''i'm of no value to her''
And i'm so damn gonna deal with her before i bid her bye!

Hope you put her into cosideration before making huge life changing decision? #dont be a hypocrite

@op, no1 depends on the people involved as not everyone is open to PDA.

joe4christ: @OP Pls tell dem gurls o, especially, making seriouse decision or taking some seriouse actions without putting their guy into consideration.
For me that's a way of letting me know that ''i'm of no value to her''
And i'm so damn gonna deal with her before i bid her bye!

Chai.. You harsh ooooo, and u be christain! @op..almost trUe

Gud write up bt i think love and relationship hz to do wit understanding ur partner confidence,preferences as regard hw they wnt 2 b treated at public nd private areas witot abasing dem

I see

another reason - not keeping good hygiene.

None of these could alter my feelings ooooooo

OP apart from nos 1 nd 2 for me shaa ihe ndi ozo ina ako wu bullshit

....and in how many ways can a man kill a woman's feeilings? if i start to talk am now,na una own pain pass!

nonsense!!

ok, but oh' sorry 2 say; you're gone!!!

Truth

And you are " 4 Christ"

joe4christ: @OP Pls tell dem gurls o, especially, making seriouse decision or taking some seriouse actions without putting their guy into consideration.
For me that's a way of letting me know that ''i'm of no value to her''
And i'm so damn gonna deal with her before i bid her bye!

Chidonsky: Gud write up bt i think love and relationship hz to do wit understanding ur partner confidence,preferences as regard hw they wnt 2 b treated at public nd private areas witot abasing dem

Good write up too, but the op is right about what most guys want frm a girl, if u ar a guy u wld knw its all true. And only a partner who understands wld knw its all true.

Everytin is about men why must we do everytin 4 men nd dey do little 4 us.

Noted

None of these can alter my feelings , i'm on kop nomi as u all know my love is already blind.

@Op, Tell them jor

my dear, here in south africa people dey kiss 4 super market, inside bus, infact gals 're alwys ready 2 giv u am anyhow and anytym u wnt am, i wonder y naija gals dey shy 4 public 4 wetin no suppose mean anytin, pretender does d worst.

Ehen wats special abt ds 1st 2comment or front page eish? Dem dey share moni put? *jst curious tho*